Stephen Miller and his wife Katie Miller arrive for UFC Freedom 250, at the White House in Washington D.C REUTERS
A long-time ally of President Donald Trump didn’t mince words with a profanity-laced description of Stephen Miller's wife, Katie Miller, admitting he can’t stand her despite her MAGA-aligned politics.
An unnamed Trump insider gave the admission to Vanity Fair in a report that looked at how Katie Miller has become one of Washington's most prominent Republican socialites.
"I'll say I love her publicly, but the truth is I can't f—— stand her," the longtime Trump ally told the magazine.
The Trump ally nevertheless continues to accept invitations to Miller's podcast and her dinner parties due to her husband’s influence in the White House.
“But if she asks you to go on the podcast, or come over for dinner, you say yes, because Stephen Miller is the second-most powerful person in the world," the source added.
Katie Miller has turned the couple's house on a military installation close to Washington into a meeting place for senior officials of the Trump administration, members of the Cabinet and other prominent Republicans.
The events reportedly included plenty of entertainment, such as hibachi chefs, mechanical bulls, pizza food trucks and specially made desserts. The report states that one of her children’s birthday parties “featured a petting zoo with donkeys and other assorted animals.”
The Millers reportedly hosted several events, including celebrating Todd Blanche confirmation as attorney general and a birthday party for former White House press secretary Karoline Leavitt, which drew in almost 100 guests.
The Millers' gatherings have also been attended by Secretary of State Marco Rubio, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth, Interior Secretary Doug Burgum and FBI Director Kash Patel.
Leavitt gave a much more favorable evaluation of Katie Miller, praising both her hosting skills, adding that she “goes over the top.”
Insiders told the magazine that Katie started hosting parties at her house because well-known Trump administration officials often come across hostile crowds in public places around Washington.
The Millers previously lived in northern Virginia, where neighbors protested against his immigration policies and distributed leaflets identifying the family's residence. In late 2025, the couple moved into military housing because they were concerned for their children's safety.
Their decision came about as a result of demonstrations held in the neighborhood which attracted national attention, including a legal dispute concerning a Virginia activist who had distributed information about their home.
The Washington Post reported at the time that the local prosecutor then decided not to bring charges against the activist on the grounds that the evidence was insufficient and that the First Amendment provided relevant protection.
Katie Miller has built her public profile through her podcast, where she interviews Trump administration officials and business leaders.
