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Hip-Hop's (Still) Invisible Women

By Yvonne Bynoe, AlterNet. Posted May 16, 2007.


The recent Don Imus affair brought to light that black women within hip-hop are to be ogled in music videos and insulted in the name of free speech, but rarely are they given access to major media outlets.

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With all the talk about hip-hop activism, I have to ask, "Where is women’s activism within hip-hop?" From my vantage point, what the recent Don Imus affair brought painfully to light is that generally, black women within hip-hop are to be ogled in music videos, insulted in the name of free speech and discussed by pundits, but rarely are they given access to the major media outlets that would allow them to accurately represent themselves, their images and ideas.

There are indeed hip-hop generation women in our communities working to empower their sisters, however in the main there are no concerted efforts, locally or nationally, to address the issues of race, class and gender that create the environments that allows black male rap artists and a white radio show host (both supported by large corporations) to call black women hos in our mainstream media. It is this lack of critical analysis that recently gave New York City police sergeants, at two different precincts license to call women hos. At the 70th Precinct in Brooklyn, three policewomen, two black women and one Latina, were called hos during roll call. Adding insult to injury, a fellow officer interjected that the correct term was "nappy-headed hos." It should not be a surprise that this is the same precinct where the infamous assault of Abner Louima took place.

In a separate incident, a police sergeant threatened to call a black police woman a "nappy-headed ho" if she gave him lip. Should these policewomen assume that men who would denigrate them so callously and publicly can also be trusted to be fair in assessing their job performance and ability to advance in their careers? Within a wider context, is it realistic, given these men’s actions, to expect that on the streets they will justly apply the law regardless of a person’s race or gender? Women should be more vocal in denouncing sexism in rap music and in our society because our livelihood and our lives depend on it. Furthermore, although it appears to be counterintuitive, sexism also threatens the lives and prospects of the black men whom we love (even if they are perpetuating it). As the situation at the 70th Precinct illustrates, wherever you find sexism, it is very likely that you will also find racism. In the words of Frederick Douglass, "Power concedes nothing without a demand -- it never did and never will." Sexism and racism are both vehicles to wield and retain societal power.

Ten years ago, journalists along with average joes and janes were discussing whether or not "hip-hop hates women," and regrettably today many within hip-hop are still debating that same question. In a 1995 essay, Vibe magazine's current editor in chief, Danyel Smith, discussed how hip-hop tended to mirror the biases of the greater society saying, "Women’s versions of reality are somehow suspect; men’s interpretations of women and their motives and ideas are considered more real than women’s declarations."

The title of her article "Ain’t a Damn Thing Changed" about sums up contemporary women’s status within hip-hop. In the intervening years hip-hop generation women have not become visible, insofar that they have not staked out spaces that allow their stories and complex realities to be heard by the masses. Whether it is fear or access to capital or some combination of the two, hip-hop generation women have not created our version of the Lilith Fair to support female rap artists. Similarly, most female rap artists, like their male counterparts have not created independent record companies and touring apparatus that would allow them to control their messages and images, get those messages to the public and make money in the process. Subsequently, male rap artists (aided by their corporate entertainment entities), rather than black women themselves, have largely shaped the image of black women in the United States and in doing so have defined the contours of our public dialogue about black women.

For years many black women have had a tortured relationship with hip-hop: loving its beats, its energy, but hating the misogyny and gratuitous violence. The thing that appears to have changed is that more young black women, rather than critically examining their allegiance to the hip-hop status quo are now helping to maintain it. Several years ago, when women at Spelman College in Atlanta threatened to protest Nelly’s appearance on campus because of his music video "Tip Drill," young black women joined young black men in attacking the black female activists. Young black women parroted the lines that in the past were used by black men to rationalize misogyny in rap music such as "Hos do exist," "It’s just entertainment" and "No one is forcing these women to be in these videos."

While all of these statements may indeed be true, they miss the point. At core the argument is not about whether every rap song has to be deep or whether women have the right to shake their money-makers in a music video; it is about whether black women gyrating on poles for dollars should be the sole portrayal of black women in our society. In echoing the words of activist and author Barbara Smith, women’s studies has flourished in academia and has opened the doors for talented scholars such as Gwendolyn Pough and Tracy Sharpley-Whiting to publish groundbreaking books on women in hip-hop, but it has been less successful in educating, nurturing and raising the consciousness of young black women, in and out of the 'hood.

In our communities, we still refer to black men as "endangered species." We are rightfully alarmed about the staggering number of black men who are incarcerated each year and by the high number of young black men who drop out of school, leaving themselves unqualified for the legal job market. Unfortunately, there is far less urgency about the increasing incidences of HIV/AIDs among black women or the rise on young women of color going to jail or the plight of working, single mothers who cannot find safe, reliable and affordable childcare.

Asserting that young black women have needs and concerns that are particular to their gender, class and race in no way negates the important issues that are pertinent to young black men. Moreover, mature, really progressive politics understands that the fight for equality does not exclude women. Young black men and women seem to be making the same mistake that some of our elders did by pitting the ravages of racism against the tyranny of sexism and concluding that racism is more evil. As has been said by far more articulate people, even if racism ended tomorrow, gender discrimination would still exist.

As black women and black men, our ultimate strength will lie in our ability and our desire to jointly bring our distinct experiences, grievances and issues to the table and work in coalition toward manifesting an equitable and free society. What hip-hop generation women have to realize is that standing by passively, in the name of comradeship, afraid to anger the brothers has garnered us neither respect nor equality (assuming that the two can be separated). As was the case in prior generations, young black women need to step into the arena and forcefully speak their truths because: The black men who really don’t like us will always find solace in the arms of others and use our strength as their excuse; the black men who merely like us will demand that we "play our position" so that they can gain power; and the black men who genuinely love us will fight alongside us for justice and will encourage us to fully express our hearts, minds and spirits.

The most political first step that many women within hip-hop can make is to create communities that nurture us: spaces where we can perform our own rhymes, spaces where we can share our own stories and spaces where we can give each other love and provide support. Author and activist Rebecca Walker made a profound statement when she said that our life’s journey is about understanding our own suffering and how the powerful societal stratifications of race, class, gender and sexuality impact us all negatively. Women therefore cannot change sexism within hip-hop or in the broader society until we are willing to heal ourselves. When it is all said and done, railing against Imus or lobbying entertainment executives will not end sexism any more than Robitussin will cure cancer.

Black women in hip-hop have to fight for power -- be willing to love and respect ourselves enough to put the financial, intellectual and creative energy behind establishing our own blogs, websites, podcasts, e-newsletters, record companies, music conferences, summits, publishing companies, magazines, radio shows and televisions programs that illuminate the many sides of beautiful black womanhood. We also have to brave enough to collaborate with each other, with women of other races and with equality-seeking men to make these new entities the mainstream rather than the alternative.

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Yvonne Bynoe is a senior fellow at the Future Focus 2020 Center at Wake Forest University. She is also the author of "Stand & Deliver: Political Activism, Leadership & Hip Hop Culture" and the "Encyclopedia of Rap and Hip Hop Culture." She can be reached YvonneBynoe.com or myspace.com/yvonnebynoe.

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Pornographic Cancer
Posted by: edith on May 16, 2007 1:37 AM   
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"Black women in Hip Hop have to fight for power -- be willing to love and respect ourselves enough to put the financial, intellectual and creative energy behind establishing our own blogs, website, podcasts, e-newsletters, record companies, music conferences, summits, publishing companies, magazines, radio shows and televisions programs that illuminate the many sides of beautiful Black womanhood. "

The conclusion of the author's pleas for equality and self-reflection rings true to any group struggling for autonomy. But somehow because the issue is in the greater context of "race"(does this term even mean anything anymore?) the bloodsuckers, often from outside the black community, who control the distribution of so-called "hip hop", have no interest in the 'many sides' of black women. There is only one side that they are interested in-the pornographic side. Hip hop, as five minutes view of "black" broadcaster BET or Sumner Redstone's MTV outlets can confirm, is essentially pornography. How ironic. A folk "music" genre that supposedly arose from the streets of the Bronx now exists primarily to sexualize and objectify women.

Any criticism of the genre by non-blacks of course is dismissed as racist. The existence of hip hop and its promotion by corporate conglomerates, aside from its pornographic nature, however is of concern to everyone because it has destroyed the appreciation and thus the mass audience for quality blues, gospel-based rhythm and melodic blues, soul and instrument based music amongst all listeners and viewers, particularly under 40, of all ethnic backgrounds.

The hip hop cancer has spread for example to Latino music as well, thus it is a threat to the musical heritage and literacy of populations far beyond predominantly African American neighborhoods.

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Bigotry is bigotry
Posted by: Markson on May 16, 2007 5:51 AM   
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There needs to be language that speaks truth to power. First, intolerance and hatred against women and girls is not "disrespect," but bigotry, a serious issue not to be trivialized as bad manners. Second, slurs are not common foul language, regardless how popular or deeply entrenched they are (Bitch, ho, etc. are slurs as gender is the trigger factor and, thus, the target). Slurs dehumanize and demonize women and girls on the basis of an immutable factor, justifying violent oppression. Third, "sexual explicitness" distorts the reality: just as extremists exploit religion to embolden hate, misogynists exploit sex to ferociously attack women and girls. Sex can sell anything, including bigotry.
All the rationalizations used by apologists depend on the assumption that women and girls are not human beings and, thus, are not deserving of basic rights.
Bigotry depends on a distortion of "morality" to be justified. Dehumanization is necessary for aggressive violence (verbal or physical) and demonization is necessary to justify it. Rap apologists are the actual moral extremists, as the genre has become a ruthless all-out condemnation of women and girls for being female with alleged sexual promiscuity serving as a cover (which in itself assumes sex is wrong). Simply, the women in rap videos are being attacked for being women. Even if every woman was sexual promiscuous (as if there was a universal standard), it fails as an excuse since rap apologists not only fail to condemn promiscuous men but glorify them. Being female is the true "immorality."
People must not be distracted just by the slurs or foul language but instead must focus on the very message, one that is legitimized by widespread public approval. Put it this way: no one considers "greedy" to be a swear let alone a slur, but if you call Jews "greedy" simply for being Jewish or repeatedly spew "greedy Jews" to the point "greedy" becomes synonymous with "Jew" it's blatantly anti-Semitic. Regardless what you label it (entertainment, art, etc.) the message must be the point of discussion. Remember, once minstrel shows were justified along the very same points.
People need to educate themelves about the power of culture to influence attitudes and behavior. Check out the Milgram experiment on the perils of obedience and the Stanford prison experiment on the power of legitimizing dehumanization and demonization in unleashing violent abuse.

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Doncha get Tired...?
Posted by: madmac10 on May 16, 2007 5:59 AM   
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Of articles that start with: "If the [Imus] affair taught us anything, it's..."?

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It's Not Rap- It's Crap
Posted by: NoPCZone on May 16, 2007 6:21 AM   
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Rap, or Hip-Hop, was fostered upon the public by big media rather than demanded by a groundswell of demand by the public. The kids and young adults conditioned by endless advertising, push polling and promotion became the modern equivalent of Pavlov's Dog Experiment.

Rock and Roll, Jazz, Soul, R & B and other popular forms of music became so driven not by playlists from a handful of media companies and Madison Avenue types, but by record sales and requests to local Program Directors community by community. These music styles created groundswells of support from the listeners up while Hip-Hop was pushed by marketing and advertising interests as the next big thing. The lemmings out in the vastness of consumer-land lapped it up.

Some misogynistic, narcissistic poser jumping and gyrating around like a fool to a monotonous drum-machine or computer generated rhythm track may be something but it is not music by it's traditional understanding. Why some farm boy in Iowa buys 'It's Hard Out There For A Pimp' is a testimony to how blindly the kids follow the marketing they are fed. It's not about race or culture- it's about common ground. The themes of every other style of music are largely universal to humanity. Hip-Hop is nothing more than trash talking and bragging to a drum machine.

Do yourself, the arts and the world a favor and support live music by real musicians of whatever style suits you. Musicians play instruments and S-I-N-G.

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Who are the female rappers fighting misogyny, violence, and gangsta culture?
Posted by: veggiegrrrl on May 16, 2007 6:42 AM   
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Who are the female rappers fighting misogyny, violence, and gangsta culture? I'd love to listen to some of their rhymes.
Can someone name them?

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Excellent article
Posted by: jgrossnas on May 16, 2007 7:46 AM   
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I especially liked the idea of a hip-hop version of the Lilith Fair.

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As long as there is money to be made....
Posted by: apeshow on May 16, 2007 11:32 AM   
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and people turn a blind eye, the exploitation will continue.
This applies to everything, not just black women.

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The drugs...the obscenity...the violence..the overall 'craziness'..
Posted by: ekipnrut on May 16, 2007 11:38 AM   
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Howl?..The Naked Lunch?(ummmm..which reminds me.. we
most certainly do have some female rappers..right here on
Alternet: 'Les Divas Derriere' :O))...The long coffee house
'rants' [read: poetry]....eadem mutata resurgo:

BG

JV
Of course the beret has become a doo rag...and the skin tone
spectrum shifted from white to black and brown...but it's the
same type of controversial, ethnocentric, extant cultural norm
defying phenomena as the thousands that preceded it back through the millenia. Of course the hip hop phenomena expressed by and within an oppressed black youth has been received very differently by the ambient society compared to it's 'beat' correlate, originated by the disaffected alienated--- but nevertheless benefit of some residual white privilige and marginal benefit of the doubt---beatnik crowd.
Also consistently neglected or overlooked is the neonazi
Hate Rock industry spanning all of Europe, UK, Russia and of course USA. It is a powerful , lucrative tool which is being used in coordination with the Internet to facilitate recruitment of
youth into white supremacist organizations (gangs)...like the ones that beat or stabbed to death 'dark skinned' five and nine year old girls in Russia recently...[From ADL]:
Selling Hate Music
Online, extremists devote more space, time, and energy to marketing rock music than any other product. The music on hate rock CDs effectively carries the white supremacist message to teenagers, and these CDs routinely sell for at least three times the amount they cost to produce. Because of their popularity among extremist consumers and their ties to violent extremist organizations, two particular distributors of hate rock CDs, Resistance Records and Panzerfaust Records, deserve special attention.
But alas..they are white and
boys will be boys..and they are 'our' boys....I just don't seem to recall much of a stir in the affluent feminist ,particularly those in academia, community over their five year old 'sisters'
being stomped to death....e.g. 'Dear Vladimir...find and execute the vermin who did this and see to it that it doesn't happen again...or every one of these 'would be Gorky call girl' exchange students can dosvedanya their 'euro trash' ass back to Saint Petersburg or Moscow...'cause we won't be teachin' em'!! But foolish me...THAT would require guts and real committment to International Sisterhood Solidarity that reaches out to and beyond class and race to women (girls) of color. And we sure can't have any of THAT shit...not on our 'feminist' watch :O) No Ma'am!!!! Perhaps I'm too harsh...maybe they were busy working on the case of two four year old American black toddlers (girls) who were shot in the head in Hayward Calif a few months ago....Rowlands put up 3M as reward to try and find Madeleine...how much was donated by hip hop artists/authors or feminists..black or white
to the reward fund for those two girls????..Placing a hyphenated term for what was merely a street 'dance move'
in front of a noun is an artifice of reference without recourse to meaning.

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The Quickest Way To Fix It
Posted by: cmaris on May 16, 2007 12:18 PM   
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Is for black women (all women, for that matter) to decide it isn't cool. Not to listen to this crap, not to play it, not to sing it, not to record it.

Bottom line: Most of what men do is done to attract women. (We're overlooking the marginally homoerotic man-to-man, competitive, who's-is-bigger thing just for the moment.) Whatever it is, if women stop tolerating it, believe me, men will stop doing it.

Imagine, the next time some idiot struts by with gold front teeth and flashy oversized jewelry, that every woman in the audience bursts out laughing. I mean falling down, peeing in your pants, can't catch your breath laughing. And keeps laughing until he's out of sight. How long do you think it will be before he calls his dentist and gets his old teeth put back in?

If no man, of any color, could get any woman to have anything to do with him as long as he's got "Yo yo yo bitch suck my big one" on his CD player, Hip Hop would be dead in a heartbeat.

"Fighting" against this stuff is a huge con - fighting against anything only continues the conflict. No need for that. The only thing I want between me and a man who goes for that kind of thing is distance. Just walk away.

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» Blacks taking control of schools Posted by: veggiegrrrl
Looking for progressive voices in hip hop?
Posted by: drmimi94954 on May 16, 2007 3:23 PM   
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They are there.

I have found them on Hard Knock Radio- a syndicated program that is produced on KPFA-FM in Berkeley. This program is played throughout the US on Pacifica and progressive radio stations.

Most of those progressive brothers and sisters don't get the air time on mainstream radio. They can be found in the community, on community radio.

You just have to pick up the volume...

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Much Ado About Nothing
Posted by: gellero on May 16, 2007 10:27 PM   
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Methinks da bitch protesteth too much.......

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» "Git yo ass to a nunnery, ho - go!" Posted by: karma_ran_over_dogma
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Hip hop too degenerate? Blame whitey for that too!
Posted by: Pat Kittle on May 17, 2007 2:00 AM   
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Leave it to the left to figure out some way to even blame whites for hip-hop degeneracy.

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Crisis Of Conscience
Posted by: Forgiven on May 17, 2007 7:42 AM   
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We in the Black community are at a crossroads. We are coming to the place where we are becoming irrelevant in America in any meaningful way. What has created this crisis and how did we get here? There are many factors that have led us to this place. Slavery, racism, complacency, institutionalized inferiority, self-hate, moral degradation, personal irresponsibility, are all contributing factors and I’m sure you can name more. For too long we have been looking backwards and not forwards. We have been too preoccupied with the past thanks to our so-called leaders and not the future. We have had a failure of leadership at the highest levels. Those who have been placed in positions of leadership should look at the state of affairs in Black America and feel ashamed, I know I would. Instead of positioning us to move forward through education, self-sacrifice, and hard work they have promised us a panacea of worthless dreams. However, for themselves and their families they have created a future full of promise. There are those who have achieved their modicum of success on the backs of their brothers and sisters.

Though we have more Black people with money than ever before, we are worst off as a people than we have ever been in our history. Why has achievement as a people eluded us even though we have more material wealth? There is a disconnection between those that have achieved material success and the average Black person on the street. There is a growing gap between those that have and the have-nots. The rising tide has not raised all boats.

While we spend tremendous amounts of time and energy annihilating the outsiders who dare to use the same words we use to describe ourselves and yet we do nothing against those in our community that dispense the vile vermin that poisons our minds and the minds of our children. Where are the protest marches outside of Sean Combs studio or any number of other hip-hop artists that poison the air waves with violence, sexism, and the worst attributes of our communities? We have no trouble picketing CBS over Don Imus, yet where is the outrage for those who we really should fear? Who should we be more afraid of a few washed up media personalities that most of our children have never heard of or those who invade our homes and our air waves with all manner of mental pollution?

There will be those who speak about artistic expression and the “language of the street”, but those arguments hold no weight. There is more going on in our communities than the “thug life” these so called Black artists are portraying. When has our community been about nothing, but drug dealing, dope smoking, and killing other Black men? These so called Black men are more responsible for other young Black men being killed than any racist white men. The Klan no longer have anything to do, we are finishing the job ourselves. These men who profit from the misery of their brothers and sisters are worse than any racist. At least with an outsider you can see it coming, but these people they are doing from the inside what no outsider could do. It is a known fact that what you listen to is what you become. This isn’t about some musical expression; this is about the intentional internal genocide for the sake of fortune and fame. Is everyone in the Black community selling drugs, smoking dope, and killing? When did this become our only story? This is not my story. Is it yours?

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Crisis Of Conscience
Posted by: Forgiven on May 17, 2007 7:46 AM   
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Instead of extolling the values of education and hard work we have allowed them to believe that if they live this thug life they can be successful. I work in the community and all the time I talk to young men and I ask them why they won’t take a starting job. They tell me that they should be earning 15.00 an hour, I ask what skills they possess worthy of earning this money and they say none or I can rap. They spend hours and hours listening to these lyrics, teaching them that education is for sell-outs and that women are just to be used and disposed of like yesterdays garbage. I remember when I was young there was a movie called, “Superfly” and it depicted the life of a drug dealer/pimp. To this day it still amazes me the number of people that tried to make this movie reality. You had men changing their hair to match the actor’s hair and the whole nine. This was just a two hour movie; imagine what listening to this garbage hour after hour is doing to the psyche of our children. You would think that the only things happening in our communities are these things depicted in these songs and videos. There is a concept known as “self-fulfilling prophesy” and it is a prediction that, in being made, actually causes itself to become true.

“The self-fulfilling prophecy is, in the beginning, a false definition of the situation
evoking a new behaviour which makes the original false conception come 'true' This specious validity of the self-fulfilling prophecy perpetuates a reign of error. For the prophet will cite the actual course of events as proof that he was right from the very beginning.”

What we are witnessing is the fulfillment of this in our communities, these thugs would have you to believe that our neighborhoods are as they describe and our children in an effort to imitate these thugs bring about the very environment these thugs rap about and then they say, “See this is what is happening in my neighborhood.” Anyone who disagrees with their scenario is labeled a sell-out or out of touch with reality. I submit that these thugs are out of touch with reality. They will never define me with their stereotypical clown roles for the Black man. Their perception is not my reality and it never will be.

Why have we allowed this “gang and prison mentality” to become our story? Why have we abdicated the responsibility of raising our children to these clowns? If these were whites saying these things there would be full scale riots, but because they are Black there is silence. It is this silence that is killing us. It is not just killing us physically, but spiritually and emotionally as well. We have allowed this continue for too long. There should have been an outcry at the very beginning, yet we allowed this genre to define who we were and what we believed. We should all be ashamed. We may have lost a whole generation of children because of our inaction and complacency.

The reason that men use these terms to describe black women is due in large part because of the behavior of our women. Women, if you are having sex with a man that you are not married to, in his mind you are a "ho". I know this is harsh, but for the most part it is true. Now he may marry you and love you, but in his mind you are still a "ho". And if you don't believe it let there be an argument and see how when angry he speaks to you. He has no respect for you, because you didn't respect yourself. Now, I'm not justifying the behavior, I am just saying why it is. You want to be treated better, treat yourself better. Keep your purity. You can't lie down with dogs and get mad when you wake up with fleas...

The Disputed Truth

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Yvonne
Posted by: Donna_Darko on May 17, 2007 4:39 PM   
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is spot on as usual. I loved the other articles she wrote for Alternet especially:

Rappers Aren't Feeling Oprah's Love

http://alternet.org/story/37815/

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