Cell phones & teen abuse

This guest post was written by Vanessa Valenti.

Recent studies have shown that among teenagers, cell phones can be a very useful tool for abusers to control their partners. Abusers can have their partners constantly accessible to them, whether it be via text or by simply calling them. According to some findings:

20 to 30 percent of teens who had been in relationships said their partner had harassed, insulted or made unwanted requests for sexual activity via cell phones or texts.

One out of four reported hourly contact with a dating partner between midnight and 5 a.m. -- in some cases, 30 times per hour.

One out of 10 received physical threats electronically.

This also includes Instant Messenger. Scary stuff, but I had a problem with this snippet:

As communication technology has become pervasive, 'teen dating abuse has skyrocketed,' says Jill Murray, an author of several books on the subject and a psychotherapist in Laguna Niguel, Calif. She's seen a case of a teen logging more than 9,000 cellphone calls and text messages monthly. The attention seems flattering at first, she says, but later a girl or boy 'feels smothered and doesn't know how to get out.' Dr. Murray says parents have an obligation 'to limit cellphone and computer use to something reasonable.' She advises blocking the computer and taking away cellphones overnight.

Thoughts?