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Dying to Be Thin

By Sophie Goodchild, The Independent UK. Posted November 22, 2006.


Confused by conflicting messages about diet and health, vulnerable young women are turning to lifestyle anorexia websites for 'thin-spiration.'

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Just one click of the mouse grants you immediate access to the disturbing and deadly domain of the women who are literally starving to be thin. Welcome to the world of "pro-ana, "an online community dedicated not to offering support and advice for anyone battling life-threatening eating disorders such as anorexia but to preventing their recovery.

These 1,000 or so sites feature "thin-spiration galleries" -- picture after picture of skinny celebrities such as Victoria Beckham and images of emaciated women with their ribs on show and close to death. These cyber-galleries and chatrooms, which claim that "being thin is more important than being healthy," were yesterday condemned by experts who say they deliberately encourage users to compete against each other to lose weight. Ministers have already held talks with internet providers to find ways of clamping down on them.

However, some clinicians say young women are turning to these websites because of a lack of proper support elsewhere and a postcode lottery in treatment for eating disorders. They blame the fact that adolescents and children are being fed conflicting messages about diet and health.

On one hand, they are the focus of anti-obesity campaigns, but then only have to switch on the television to be bombarded with images of junk food or read magazines featuring images of impossibly thin women.

The Eating Disorders Association says the focus on obesity takes the attention away from anorexia and bulimia, which are all about excessive weight loss and represent the flipside of a negative relationship with food.

"Not only does it take funding away but it means government messages are focusing on diet and exercise, which is what these people want to do to extinction," said Susan Ringwood, the charity's chief executive.

The fashion industry has also been singled out for criticism. Psychiatrists say that while the use by designers of size 0 models -- such as Lily Cole and Erin O'Connor -- on the catwalk does not trigger eating disorders in an impressionable teenager, they can prolong the time it takes for them to recover.

This is backed up by new findings published last week. The first major study into female attitudes to thin fashion models has found that their images can lower levels of self-esteem and lead to higher levels of depression. Published in the journal, The Psychology of Women Quarterly, the research found that exposure to "thin-ideal" advertisements increased body dissatisfaction.

Eating disorders now affect more than one girl in every 100. Although 90 per cent of cases are female, boys are not immune. Increasing numbers of male patients who have an unhealthy relationship with food are being referred by doctors for treatment.

The deadly compulsion to starve or purge to stay thin also no longer respects class or race. Once anorexia and bulimia only afflicted well-educated and white, middle-class women. Now Asian and black people are seeking help, as well as those from working-class backgrounds.

Anorexia nervosa, in which sufferers restrict their food intake or starve themselves, is the third most common chronic illness of adolescence. Bulimia nervosa is even more common, but the secretive nature of the disorder coupled with the reluctance of sufferers to seek help means that it can go undetected.

And now experts have identified a new type of bulimia, unheard of 10 years ago. A third of patients seen by psychiatrists in eating disorder clinics are "multi-impulsive," which means not only do they binge on food then purge themselves, but they also express their inner despair by cutting, overdosing and abusing alcohol. Sane, the mental health charity, has picked up on this worrying new trend. Its helpline staff report a rise in callers suffering from eating disorders who are also self-harming.

The effects of acute eating disorders can be hugely damaging. Acid in the food brought up from the stomach damages the oesophagus and may cause bleeding and also erodes tooth enamel. In chronic cases it can cause kidney failure.

The nation's abnormal relationship with food is just as worrying at the less acute end of the eating disorder scale. An estimated 11 million Britons have psychological issues or problems connected to food, with young people between the ages of 15 and 24 particularly at risk. A survey by the Priory found that people are resorting to disordered eating, in which they comfort themselves with sweets and junk food in a desperate attempt to cover up deeper psychological issues such as negative feelings and low self-esteem.

Professor Hubert Lacey, a leading expert on eating disorders, said that society's "preoccupation" with thinness and body size has contributed to the increase in severity of eating disorders. He also warns that a lack of specialist services means that many women are not getting the help they need in the form of therapy.

"The preoccupation with weight and shape is ubiquitous because of the judgement on women," said Mr Lacey, a professor of psychiatry at St George's Hospital, London. "One of the increasing problems women face is that desired body shapes change according to a woman's role, but the fact is they cannot change their bodies."

In 2004, the NHS watchdog, the National Institute for Clinical Excellence (Nice), issued new guidance to doctors in which it said that a holistic approach was needed in caring for those suffering from anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa and conditions such as binge eating.

Nice recommended that people with eating disorders should have prompt access to a range of psychological therapies including so-called talking treatments, which help to boost self-esteem and overcome negative feelings. Families and siblings of children and adolescents with eating disorders, said the guidance, should all be included in learning about the condition because they can also be affected.

However, experts warn that, two years on, a postcode treatment lottery exists, with some parts of the country still without the specialist teams needed to help patients recover. The result is that some trusts are sending them to private clinics miles away from their homes and families and at great expense to the NHS.

South London and Maudsley NHS Trust in London treats around 200 anorexics a year and has a total of 30 hospital and residential beds which are always full. Its clinic says that it has a problem getting NHS funding and that waiting lists for out-patient treatment are getting longer.

Lisa Lewer, a nurse consultant at the Ellern Mede Centre in north London, warns of a "shortage within a shortage" of specialists. The age range of her patients is from eight to 18, and staff receive people from as far away as Sheffield because of the demand. "We try to get young people in within two to three weeks, but there are waiting lists," she said. "There is a shortage of adolescent mental health beds anyway within the NHS and this is just another shortage within the shortage."

There is still a degree of stigma surrounding eating disorders. This, coupled with the lack of trained specialists, has led some experts to warn that increasing numbers of young people will turn to websites for support.

A report published this month by researchers at the University of Manchester on pro-anorexia websites says these sites are regarded by sufferers as a form of "self-management."

There is some evidence that more people are searching the internet for pro-anorexia websites. Research carried out by Hitwise UK, which analyses internet traffic, has found that one pro-ana site has gone up in popularity ranking from the 350,000th most visited site a year ago to the current frequency of 40,000th.

But Dr Ulrike Schmidt, an expert on eating disorders, says that patients, especially anorexics, who surround themselves with "pro-ana porn" are delaying their recovery.

"People with anorexia see it as virtuous and a good thing, and that it has a meaning," said the professor of eating disorders at Kings College, London. "But if you surround yourself with this pro-ana porn it could keep you ill."

Additional reporting by Lauren Veevers

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Priorities
Posted by: kepstein7777 on Nov 22, 2006 2:48 AM   
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Here in the states, we have no health care system. But if we did, I'd rather the resources go to people who are really sick, than to those deliberately starving themselves for appearance sake.

There are countries in the world where starvation is not a choice--including the US. We should help these people first. As soon as we feed the non-optional hungry, maybe we can try to talk some sense into those who want to look like those hideous, curve-challenged models, or the twins with the big heads.

Or suppose we put all the self-starving in a volunteer program where they help feed the hungry. That could be their therapy: a good reality check to help stop obsessing on their own selfish desire to be "attractive".

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» RE: Priorities Posted by: kelt65
» RE: Priorities Posted by: VannaLaRoche
» RE: Priorities Posted by: fork
» RE: Priorities Posted by: gargirl
» Under a rock? Posted by: ABetterFuture
strange
Posted by: rsaxto on Nov 22, 2006 4:05 AM   
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What strange nations UK/US are: skinny, early dying models/viewers and fat, early dying ordinary people. This is what happens when corporations and media freaks control diets. Diets are not to die for; good diets are to live for. Perhaps it is the intersection of bad food with bad psychology that needs to be fixed by substituting good food/good psychology. One simple solution is to go all vegetarian. People need good details instead of TV crap.

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GENDER RACE DIVIDE AND RULE
Posted by: not_the_preferred_nomenclature on Nov 22, 2006 5:11 AM   
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Split 'em up,
head 'em out
keep them workers divided...'
race 'n genderrrr...
hell bent for leather
any kind of weather
divided till the end of all time..
...
FAKELEFT!

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» RE: GENDER RACE DIVIDE AND RULE Posted by: pdxlinuxchix
» Your monologue is so tired Posted by: lawstudent08
» staying on message Posted by: not_the_preferred_nomenclature
» I am SO impressed with your chosen tribal identity! Posted by: not_the_preferred_nomenclature
» RE: Your monologue is so tired Posted by: ekipnrut
too skinny or too fat
Posted by: xenacat on Nov 22, 2006 5:34 AM   
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Although I recognize the harm done by super skinny models and photoshopped celebrity images, the obesity epidemic is of much more concern simply because so many of our people are so horrendously overwieght - thier numbers completely are far greater than the anrexoics around. The overwieght issue cuts across gender and class (to a great degree). I do not watch T.V anymore and have noticed that I have far less cravings for fast food or processed junk. Perhaps this is because I'm not being bombarded with images constantly that reinforce both the desirability of food and the idea that somehow my body does not measure up to some impossible ideal. These issues go hand in hand. It is also telling that we have more articles on wieght issues that affect a relatively small group of people - once again, teenage or young woman who are too thin. I'd like to see our national obsession with very young women come to an end - there are simply too many other groups who need attention. OUR YOUNG WOMEN ARE _____ fill in the blank. Big Whoop. Let's focus some media attention on something else - such as middle age woman who are dying of diabetes. Not as sexy, granted...

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» RE: too skinny or too fat Posted by: carcinoid112
» RE: too skinny or too fat Posted by: xenacat
I'm reminded on George Carlin's take
Posted by: albrechtkrausse on Nov 22, 2006 7:40 AM   
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Forget about all the rich kids with their 'eating' disorders and let's focus on helping the poor people in the world who are as thin, or thinner, not due to their choice and messed-up lifestyle but due to famine, starvation, wars, floods, etc.

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all too true
Posted by: owleyes on Nov 22, 2006 7:49 AM   
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. . . in the UK, apparently. Here in the US, everyone is emotionally healthy and spiritually balanced. Everyone has a BMI of 22 and an IQ of 150. So you see, we are not at risk of becoming anorexic. We have evolved past that point. Get it together Great Britain!

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Target advertising and fashion
Posted by: Logic's Edge on Nov 22, 2006 8:10 AM   
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These skeletal looking women that appear in fashion shows and the like are not attractive. In fact, they look like walking clothes hangers. Maybe that's the idea, so that the attention is drawn to the clothes rather than the person, but it obviously sends the wrong message to a segment of the population.

There should be a law which requires women of natural proportions to be used in advertising.

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» RE: Target advertising and fashion Posted by: mmeetoilenoir
That'd be poor parenting...
Posted by: ABetterFuture on Nov 22, 2006 8:54 AM   
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...characterized by kids who grow into young people, drifting, clinging from surrogate authority figure to another, seeking acceptance, seeking approval, seeking love...

Enter Vogue magazine.

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» Right. Not always poor parenting. Posted by: ABetterFuture
» RE: ight. Not always poor parenting. Posted by: MatthewSavage
Mental health issue
Posted by: chaoslegs on Nov 22, 2006 8:59 AM   
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In the US, there is no parity to cover mental health issues. So this issue won't be sufficiently addressed by our current health system.

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NO HELP FOR THE HUNGRY
Posted by: orenda1 on Nov 22, 2006 11:11 AM   
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Ok I have scanned through the comment board here and most of it is horrible! It just shows me that at this time most people do not understand mental illness and want to find simple answers or just plain out avoid the whole issue and people aflicted with mental illness! Starvation in third world countries is not only a sin it should be crime but to compare that to anarexia is WRONG!!! People who have aneroxia and other eating disorders ARE ILL ! There are many reasons they do this kinda thing But unfortunately due to non-exsistant education on mental illnesses and a wide spread belief that you can some how catch mental illness or that the people who have mental illness could just wake up one morning and choose not to be sick keeps most suffers with out help & in the closet about their illness . If we would all put as much effort in helping & understanding each other as we seem to in going to war and killing each other then this world would be a place that we could all live in happily and in good mental & phsyical health!
orenda

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» Thank you! Posted by: mmeetoilenoir
» Horror the horrible. Posted by: ssmit355
Hype?
Posted by: fanny666 on Nov 22, 2006 11:41 AM   
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Looks like there are ten times as many sites that criticize "pro-ana" than actual sites. And most of the sites listed on google are broken links.

google.com/Top/Society/Issues/Health/Body_Image/Pro-Anorexia

Not that the issue should be swept under the rug, but these websites seem to be an obsession of "feminist" bloggers.

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» RE: Hype? Posted by: mmeetoilenoir
Coercion is Worse than Anorexia
Posted by: alicelillie on Nov 22, 2006 12:11 PM   
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While anorexa, bulemia, obesity may be diseases or conditions (I really don't know as I am not a doctor) and may be serious or life-threatening, it is essential to keep the government uninvolved.

Government is sheer force, said George Washington I believe, and is something that needs to be kept in check.

The mental health system can be horrifically cruel. Speaking of torture, I have read articles by and about many who describe horrible experiences being locked up and forced to take drugs against their wills.

Individuals have the God-given (or natural) right, IMO, to decide for themselves if they need treatment, and what kind. Some people whimper: But they don't know they're ill. They have no "insight."

Like I say I am not a doctor and cannot comment on that, but I do believe in unalienable rights for *everyone.* That includes the right not to seek help.

For more information on the harm the mental health system can do go to http://www.mindfreedom.org.

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Women it’s your choice
Posted by: LtL on Nov 22, 2006 12:22 PM   
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You are the ones that got to the store to by the Victoria Secret thongs. You are the ones that read the fashion magazines.

If these types of models did not make money they would not be hired. It’s your choices and your money that proliferate this.

I have no sympathy for any of you.

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Two sides of the coin
Posted by: Gravitas on Nov 22, 2006 12:30 PM   
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I am very glad to see binge eating mentioned in the same article as anorexia and bulemia. To therapists who know their stuff, they can be exacerbated by the same thing - WEIGHT OBSESSION. It is not either or; either we pay attention to obesity or we pay attention to anorexia. Under extreme pressure to be thin, young girls go on very low calorie diets. For some it becomes a way of life, others stay on it for so long than binge themselves into unnatural weight gain. They also temporarily push their weights below what mother nature wants, causing their bodies to become better at making fat. We need to realize that the more diverse a species, the better its chance of survival. Lets accept that health and beauty come in different shapes and sizes and we will all be better off. (Except bigpharma and the diet industry!)

"Weight obsession is a social disease. If we cared more about CO2 than BMI there would still be time."

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A bit in reply to the "Coercion" comment, but some general remarks.
Posted by: mmeetoilenoir on Nov 22, 2006 12:36 PM   
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Keep in mind that the subjects of the articles are under 18, for the most part, and can therefore be put into treatment by a parent or guardian. Most of the time, actually, that MUST happen in order for healing to begin.

Also, the continual stigma of mental illness keeps people from even knowing that there are programs out there, or that there is ready help available. I mean, crap...I wouldn't want to be one of several posters' kids! I'd hate to come forward to some of these people! You'd be branded a "brat", "self-indulgent rich kid", or what-have-you. In short, you'd be judged. Already, you're on the ED path because you think that you're not good enough, and you probably are cruelly perfectionistic. The judgements make you think that you're bad and evil, moreso than you originally thought, and the self-punishment begins again.

Unless you've gone through it, you can't possibly know it. It's just like depression or anxiety. I know. I've been there for all three of these things. I don't believe that I'm seeing what I'm seeing here. You act as if EDs are some transgression against society, or are some whimsical fancy that will pass with a good, stern talking-to and some charity work. You DON'T. GET. IT.

People that suffer from these things are natural givers. In fact, they commonly give away thier control on so many front, that this is the only way to have some in their lives. Many times, they are the girls you see voluntering at the shelter every damned day after school, followed by six or seven hours of intensive studying. They have to be overly good to combat and defeat their perceived shortcomings. There's internal pressure to give, give, give and never take anything- and that attitude is so terrible, because there is a bit of healthy selfishness that we must all cultivate in order to be balanced and whole.

Let's not forget that many ED sufferers are the high-acheiving, brilliant women that we love to watch on the softball field, or skating, or doing ballet. The very same active, healthful pastimes that we like can turn into an utter obsession with these girls and boys. I started having messed-up eating habits when I was a young girl- had gotten scholarships for my dancing and singing (I wasn't rich, so cut the class crap), was the best performer in my school of mostly wealthy Caucasians (I'm Black), and was lauded for my amazing skills. Yeah, great...I had people visiting me in the infirmary when I twisted my ankle before the Christmas show, worrying if I'd be alright so that I could perform. I'm sure they were just thinking of my health, but at the time it made me feel guilty as fuck, and I really beat myself up over letting all these people down.

Later on, because I'm that much of a masochist, I started to work backstage at NYC Fashion Week. As a dresser. That was in my 20s, though, and I was recovered. Let me tell you- there is soooo much food at these shows, and the models are eating, and you have to wonder what's going on in the bathrooms. People take laxatives; they do coke (that would be the self-abuse in the article coming out). They want to please. It's so confusing and disturbing. What was messed up is how ugly I felt around these women; the old feelings came back. I felt chunky and imperfect (I wear a size 3-4, and am very healthy physically), and it was stressful and unhealthy. I pulled out of several seasons prematurely, and stopped doing it all together this year.

Long post, but I had to just address the utterly erroneous and uncaring, ignorant scribbles that some people on this board indulged in. It must be so fun to be on your high horses.

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» Gratitude for posting. Posted by: ssmit355
Look beyond this one phenomenon
Posted by: HeroesAll on Nov 22, 2006 5:02 PM   
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More young women are falling prey to eating disorders. More young men are committing suicide. Depression is increasing exponentially, as are behavioural problems in schools. Rates of allergies and asthma are through the roof. Obesity is epidemic in the US, UK, and Australia. There's road rage, selfishness, and obsession with 'reality TV'.

What does it all mean? My guess is that our society is very very sick, and all of these problems are symptoms of the disease.

We're all under pressure from corporations and governments to 'work harder and smarter', or we'll lose our jobs. TV and magazines are constantly telling us how much better we could/should be, as a sneaky means of selling us stuff we don't want or need. Talk shows constantly thrash over people's personal problems. The news is appalling: war, famine, disease, pollution. The governments do weird things and seem to most people to be living in some very shiny parallel universe, a world not at all like the grimy, mundane world we live in.

Is it any wonder that increasing numbers of people, both genders and all ages, suffer mental issues? The lucky ones can quiet the discord with shopping and TV, replacing the yawning unhappiness of the real world with the retail therapy of the mall and the soap operas of the famous. The lucky ones often just plain don't care.

The unlucky ones do care, at a level conscious or unconscious. The unlucky ones suffer all kinds of things, while the people running the world get on with their work of sending us all to hell in a handbasket, and the lucky ones just tune it out.

So instead of addressing each symptom individually, we really should be thinking about what we can all do to make the world a place that puts people before profit, life before money, balance before transient gains. We need to make a world that's healthy, physically and mentally, or we'll be just fighting these fires forever.

And yes, I do suffer from serious mental problems, and have come very close very recently to just ditching. Anyone who offers advice along the lines of "Just get over it" is being incredibly callous, and quite unhelpful. Thanks for listening.

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» Get over it. Posted by: ssmit355
» RE: Get over it. Posted by: HeroesAll
» Rational Reply. Posted by: ssmit355
Not "Dying to be Thin."
Posted by: Betsy L. Angert on Nov 22, 2006 10:43 PM   
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Dear Sophie Goodchild . . .

As a former, longtime anorexic evolved into bulimic, I learned that what experts say on the subject is often flawed. At times, even those engaging in anorexia or bulimia believe what the professionals say of their condition; it is easier to accept an external truth than to look within.

Those that, like me, are extremely reflective and introspective know that we were, or are not "Dying to be Thin." The situation is so much more complex. Weight is the least of our worries. Validation does not come through websites or looking at emaciated models, though substantiation is invaluable.

We, anorexics and bulimics, want to feel substantial. We want support; however, the only effective source for this is "self."

I have written much on the subject. My missives were not intended to be cathartic. I healed myself before I began putting pen to paper. I write, for after decades of dealing with this dilemma, I realized that so much of what was said to be true was far from valid for me.

I invite you to read my reflections, and please post your own perspective in commentary. I thank you for stimulating what I believe is a necessary discussion.
Please peruse Chapters One through Six, if you choose.
The Beginning. Bulimia and Becoming© [Chapter One]
Bulimia. A Bit Becomes a Binge © [Chapter Two]
Binges Build A Being, Separate From Self © [Chapter Three]
Hiding the Food. Hiding The Feelings, Hiding Me © [Chapter Four]
The Satiated Stomach. The Study Of Food [Chapter Five]
Bulimia. Wait! It is Not My Weight © [Chapter Six]
Or Similar Discussions . . .
When Will I Be Right? Is It Ever Okay To Be Me? ©
Weight. Balancing Fat with Feelings, Habits With Health ©

Betsy L. Angert
BeThink.org or Be-Think

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Just a heads up..
Posted by: MinusParadox on Nov 25, 2006 7:58 AM   
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"Unless you've gone through it, you can't possibly know it."

It's unfortunate, but I agree. And it would be nice if people could stop making so many generalizations. Not every person with an eating disorder is alike - and the article touches on that. But still people seem to be trying to group us all into one category. Aside from the eating habits and symptoms, most of us are completely different. And not just by race or social class... We are all different in how we perceive food & our own disordered eating. The media, modeling industry, and peer pressure are NOT the only causes of an eating disorder. How about we stop pretending that this is the case? Are we forgetting about the person who developed an eating disorder after a traumatic experience? Or how about those of us who think of starvation or purging or over-eating as just another form of self-injury? And what about the person who is teased by a relative at every family reunion.. who one day decides he/she has had enough and is going to just stop eating. Yes, I understand that this particular article doesn't really discuss these individuals, but I just want to remind you that they do exist. We do exist. Eating disorders are not always "about" something as simple as low self-esteem, or the influence of pin-thin models. And HAHA to anyone who believes that one can chose a mental disorder.

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» Relaxing with guts. Posted by: ssmit355
wow
Posted by: stop.making.excuses on Nov 26, 2006 10:35 PM   
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In light of all the non-self-inflicted suffering and devastation taking place all around us in this world, it is nothing short of ludicrous to consider EDs as completely unrelated to the gluttonous and unprecedented weath people enjoy in this country. "The shrinks don't understand this issue" is a laughable observation, especially to those of us who can't afford health insurance in THIS country, giddy at the thought of ever being able to afford professional mental or physical help of any kind ever again.
As for the 'selflessness' of the sufferers? Oh I get it, I just refuse to validate your excuses. Ever starved because you couldn't afford food? Ok then, didn't think so. Insanity.
The root of all of these problems is obviously not only Patriarchy (and many women's willing participation in its perpetuation), but there are also important class issues to address. Of course its not only white women who suffer from this type of disease. Of course its not only rich women who suffer from this type of disease. But they do comprise the overwhelming majority, look it up if you have doubts.
Stop whining about society's lack of concern about this issue, they care a LOT less about far more important issues, like underfunded schools and starving children (here and abroad) and victims of Hurricane Katrina. This is overwhelmingly a women's issue, and although Western society takes the lions share of the blame, people 'suffering' from this disease need to take a little too. You're not being prevented from bettering your situation, nobody's dousing you with a firehouse. Get over yourselves.

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The cure?
Posted by: Betsy L. Angert on Nov 27, 2006 7:14 PM   
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Dear Sophie Goodchild . . .

I wrote a comment to your posting days ago. I shared my thoughts then. However, yesterday, November 26, 2006, I read an article in the New York Times. It grabbed my attention instantly. It appeared in the health section. The title, "One Spoonful at a Time" was heartfelt. Author, Harriet Brown tells a gripping tale. It took me to memories of my own struggle with anorexia and bulimia and how these affected my family.

Immediately, I sat down an penned my concerns for her narrative. Ms. Brown spoke of a treatment plan that I found questionable. I invite you and your readers to contemplate and comment on my most recent missive.
I Am An Anorexic, Bulimic, A Person! ©

I also offer my earlier expressions. Please feel free to share your reaction to any or all of these.
Dear reader, you may wish to peruse Chapters One through Six, of my life as an anorexic, bulimic, a person. Please do.
The Beginning. Bulimia and Becoming© [Chapter One]
Bulimia. A Bit Becomes a Binge © [Chapter Two]
Binges Build A Being, Separate From Self © [Chapter Three]
Hiding the Food. Hiding The Feelings, Hiding Me © [Chapter Four]
The Satiated Stomach. The Study Of Food [Chapter Five]
Bulimia. Wait! It is Not My Weight © [Chapter Six]
Or Similar Discussions . . .
When Will I Be Right? Is It Ever Okay To Be Me? ©
Weight. Balancing Fat with Feelings, Habits With Health ©

Betsy L. Angert
BeThink.org or Be-Think

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