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Can Hitchhiking Save the Country?

By Matthew Wheeland, AlterNet. Posted May 12, 2006.


The author of a new book about hitchhiking says all the myths about the dangers of thumbing it are just part of our culture of fear.
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Hitchhiking is dangerous. We've all seen the made-for-TV movies about innocent youths who either blithely step out on the highway for some Kerouackian fun or naively pick up a stranger on the side of the road. On either side of the equation, the result is the same: death, mayhem and murder.

Clearly, the highways and byways of this land are filled with crazies. Everyone out there must be waiting to do evil at the first possible opportunity. Everyone, that is, except you. And everyone you know. And pretty much everyone they know.

Is it possible that maybe strangers aren't as scary, or hitchhiking as dangerous, as we've been told?

That's one of the driving factors behind Elijah Wald's new book, Riding with Strangers: A Hitchhiker's Journey. The book follows Wald's most recent cross-country hitchhiking trip, from Boston to Seattle, and forms a sort of travelogue of life on the road's shoulders.

But this is no travel book. Wald has been hitching for 40 years, across this country many times and on pretty much every hitchhike-able continent. In that time, he's watched hitchhiking in the United States decline from a commonplace activity among people of all stripes to today's prevalent belief that you'd have to be crazy to thumb it on the road.

During this same time frame -- and the kind of cause-and-effect involved here is certainly up for debate -- the country has become much more polarized, much more isolated and substantially more fearful.

I talked to Wald over the phone recently, as he was gearing up to start his tour for the book. (Unfortunately, I forgot to ask if he's hitchhiking from city to city on the tour.)

Matthew Wheeland: Tell me a little bit about how you came to write this book. Did you leave Boston knowing you were going to write a book about it?

Elijah Wald: Absolutely. Basically what happened was, as is clear from the book, I've done an awful lot of hitchhiking, and naturally when I started writing, everybody on Earth said, "You really ought to write about your adventures." But the problem was, by the time people started saying I should write about hitchhiking, I had done so much of it that it no longer seemed particularly unusual to me. It was like anybody being asked to write about what they do full-time.

For a while what I felt like I should do was take someone along with me and write about their impressions of it, since that would provide a fresh take on it. And then I realized that was the book I wanted to write: the book about how it's not this wild, heroic, amazing, strange thing full of astonishing adventures. It's this really quite small, intimate experience of meeting all these different people in this unique way. And I realized what I really wanted to write about was not the exciting rides, but the sort of normal experience of being inside it and into the cars of quite normal people who you never get to meet normally.

With that in mind, I decided I would just head across the country and just write about all the rides. Just one trip across the country, who stops for me and what it's like.

MW: How did this trip stack up? How many rides did you have in how many days …

EW: I haven't added it up. Let's see, Day One is something like five rides, so that means it's gotta be another five or six just from St. Louis to Iowa City. I'd guess it's probably 15 or so rides.

And as far as how long it took, I count it by the nights. It was essentially two and a half days into Iowa City and then two days from Iowa City to Portland.

MW: So how does that compare in terms of either the time it took, or the number of rides or even the quality of the rides you got?

EW: It was not particularly unusual. If I had done a straight shot across on Route 80, it would have been a lot fewer rides. It's the nature of the beast: You get a bunch of small rides, and then you get a huge one. And I mean the first time I ever crossed the country, it was Reno to Boston in three rides, and that's not really all that unusual if you're doing trucks, because they do that! [laughs] And they don't want to do less than that really. By and large, a truck driver doesn't want to pick you up and take you a hundred miles, because it means they have to stop.

On the other hand, if you did the whole thing on small roads, which I've done sometimes, obviously it's a lot more rides and takes a lot longer. And frankly, had I done this trip in August, which I had originally thought about, I would have done it on smaller roads.

This one I stayed on the interstates because as I say in the book, when I hit Cheyenne there was a cold front coming in. And I had wanted to weave through the Rockies at a more leisurely pace, but the weather just wasn't looking great.

One thing about hitchhiking is, as I guess is pretty obvious, is that you can't make too precise plans. You have to be ready to change.

MW: From my perspective, it seems like a dying mode of travel: We've gotten so used to doing our own thing, to being in our car, alone, traveling for long stretches and being able to plan everything. Do you think that's part of the beauty or the draw of hitchhiking?

EW: Absolutely. It's that combination, and I just love meeting the people. Quite honestly, in some ways I love it more when I'm in a strange place, because I have much more of a need for it.

If I'm in a foreign country and travel for a couple of days not hitchhiking, it begins to drive me nuts, because I just feel like I'm not meeting anybody, I'm traveling without any idea of what to do, and I just feel like if just stood out on the side of the road and stuck out my thumb, I'd be meeting people, and they'd be telling me where I should be going.

MW: What is hitchhiking like in other countries? Is there any kind of baseline experience of hitchhiking, or is it dramatically different from country to country or continent to continent?

EW: The baseline experience is people do stop for you …

MW: More so abroad than here?

EW: No, not so much. It really depends. And honestly, it really depends on what you look like. For years I said that Spain was a terrible place to hitchhike, and then learned that it was just that I looked too Spanish. I had a blond English friend who was going through Spain like lightning.

MW: So is part of it that people are approaching it from both sides with the same intention, that they want to pick up someone exotic, and get a different perspective on something that they don't already have?

EW: By and large, yes. The regular advice people used to always give is to have your country's flag on your pack so people know you're a traveler. I never did that, partly because the American flag is a pretty ambiguous symbol in some countries.

But certainly in the U.S., any time I've talked to foreigners who've hitchhiked around the U.S., their experiences is completely different from mine. They always tell me, 'Oh, it's amazing, everybody takes you home, and they put you up for days …' and that's never happened to me in the States.

MW: Do you have a favorite country to hitchhike in? Or a country that you've had the best experiences hitchhiking in?

EW: I wouldn't say for the hitchhiking, per se, but different countries all have their advantages. I really liked hitchhiking in France, which I would mention just because France has such a lousy reputation among Americans. You keep hearing how unfriendly the French are, but it sure isn't true if you're standing on the road with your thumb out.

MW: Have you been hitchhiking abroad lately, I'm thinking since 9/11, and have you seen any change in attitudes towards an American?

EW: Oh yeah, I've been abroad since then. You once in a while get somebody, but you always do. I was hitchhiking with a friend in France right after the Gulf War began, and one of our drivers just went into a rant about the Americans. He apologized down toward the end, but I have to say that what surprised me, considering that it was the height of "freedom fries" and all that silliness, which the French did write up in their papers. They thought it was immensely amusing.

But I have to say most surprising was that almost nobody mentioned it at all. I would have thought hitchhiking in France right then, being an American, that it would be a subject that would come up much more often. But I think people were probably being polite.

MW: Going back to the U.S., how has hitchhiking changed in this country since we started doing this? Obviously you've been doing it for long enough to see some changes.

EW: Crazily enough, I think the main difference is how much easier it is. I think that's largely just because there's so few people doing it now. The big change is that the roads used to be packed with hitchhikers.

One of the weird things about having done this book is that I think all of us -- at least everybody my age, and I'm about to be 47 -- think of hitchhiking as something that young people do. But what I've noticed since starting this book is that wherever I am the people that say they love hitchhiking are all people my age. [laughs] I know from the internet that there are teenagers and 20-year-olds doing some, but I never see them. And as I say, any American in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, they all hitchhiked. There's simply no exception to that rule.

MW: Yeah, when I started reading this book, I began informally polling everyone I knew to see if they'd ever hitchhiked, and it absolutely reinforces your point: Nobody my age -- I'm 30 now -- has hitchhiked, and just about everybody older than me, in their 40s and up, has.

EW: I had never really thought that one through until this project, but that is bizarre. Obviously, I'm mixing cause and effect here, but there's part of me that just wants to say, "That's why we've got the government we've got." [laughs] It suggests to me that even liberal, lefty young people are living with a degree of isolation that, whatever their politics, simply wasn't true for older people.

When I was first doing this in the 60s, there's the myth that that was the height of the culture wars, but a lot of us were out there hitchhiking. We might have been lefties -- I didn't have long hair because I cut it before I hitchhiked -- but people were meeting truck drivers. And we may have disagreed violently, but we at least knew each other. And I have the feeling that today, that is much less true.

MW: I think you're on to something; obviously the cause-and-effect is very muddled, but our current government is in some ways the federal embodiment of this culture of fear and alienation that has been building for the last 25 or so years. And it is a cycle that feeds on itself and increases, which is why I was so delighted by your book. It shows that the path really is not already fixed; it's something that we can change and reverse, if people would just open themselves up in some way to strangers.

EW: That's right, and although I tried not to bang on the political points too heavily, I have to say I get very irritated by people on the left who have this sort of blithe America-bashing. To me it smacks very much of intellectual elitism. It seems to me like it's a lot of people who have never in fact talked with the average sort of person driving a truck out of Omaha, so they find it very easy to say that person is an idiot who believes everything the preacher and the politician say, and that's just not true. Those people are no stupider than the people at Harvard.

MW: To some extent, we live in a nation built on caricatures, where everybody perceives somebody as fitting perfectly into this bloc of 'typical red stater' or 'typical blue stater' or whatever, but obviously there are shades of gray, or shades of purple, as it were, and that's why it's important to get out there and meet strangers like you did.

EW: It's not so much our country, it's any place in the world where people are isolated from other people. It's the nature of stereotypes. They substitute for personal experience, and I don't think that there's a place where lacking personal experience there aren't stereotypes. It's probably no more typical of us than anybody else.

MW: You have a quote in the introductory section of the book that serves as such a great motto or justification for hitchhiking: "If you trust everyone you meet, you will occasionally get robbed, but if you distrust everyone, you spend your whole life surrounded by thieves." Tell me a bit about that quote.

EW: Well, in a way it's my response to people who are saying, "Isn't it dangerous?" But you know, I am hoping that somebody is going to read this book and tell me where that quote comes from! [laughs] I know that I read it in the American Library in Lubumbashi, Zaire, within the same month I read Howard's End, and somehow I attached it to Howard's End, but it's not in there. Hopefully someone can tell me where that's from.

But I'm not saying that's the only right attitude to have, but it's certainly the only attitude that's gonna make anybody into a hitchhiker.

MW: The whole book is tempered with this pragmatic approach: Here's how hitchhiking was for me, on this trip, but it's going to be different if you're a woman, or it's going to be different if inexperienced …

EW: … it's going to be different if you're black …

MW: Exactly. But for all of that, it's still almost proselytizing, saying, "Let's get out, just try it. It's not going to hurt you."

EW: Absolutely, and I resisted saying that. I know that as soon as I get out on tour, all sorts of people are going to ask me if I'd recommend it to a young woman, or whatever, and my short answer is: It doesn't really matter. A young woman who's going to read this book and feels like she wants to go out hitchhiking doesn't much care what I think. [laughs] But the slightly longer answer is that there are women out there hitchhiking, although obviously it's a different situation in a number of ways. Like everything in life, it's all trade-offs.

MW: I've been trying to think of ways people could be convinced to hitchhike in some form or other, and it hit me just the other day on my way in to work. Here in the Bay Area, we have a system called "casual carpool." And it's not even a system, really, it's a self-organizing, totally unregulated phenomenon.

Essentially I get up in the morning, leave my house and walk two blocks and stand by the curb. A line of cars are waiting, and a line of people are waiting to get in. You hop in, the cars get to go through the toll booth on the Bay Bridge for free, so they get over much faster and save three bucks, and we riders get in to work in 20 minutes instead of 45 minutes. But I hadn't even thought of it as a form of hitchhiking until I read this book, which it clearly is.

So are you interested in getting more people to hitchhike, and is there anything you can think of that would encourage people to get out there, like taking a short trip first or hitchhiking around their town first?

EW: Oh, I'm absolutely interested in getting more people to hitchhike. But really, I suppose if people want to hitchhike with training wheels, I'd say go to any rural area. Any small road in a rural area is where people do still hitchhike.

People still hitch places like Martha's Vineyard, or you go up to the islands offshore from Seattle, people are still hitchhiking all over the place up there. And forgive me for being completely cynical, but I think it's because these are areas that are all-white, middle-class, and drivers figure anybody out on the road is somebody else who lives there and they feel safe.

MW: So it's sort of hitchhiking with training wheels for everyone -- both the drivers and the passengers.

EW: Sure. But the other thing is that foreign countries are fun. Europe has always, always been where Americans who are nervous about hitchhiking in America went to hitchhike, and that still holds true. I would not just without thinking suggest that two young women head across the U.S. hitchhiking. Plenty will and will get by without any trouble, but I would without hesistation suggest that same thing in Ireland.

Just as one final thought, my worry for this book is that it might end up being treated as a travel book, so I was certainly very clear that I am trying to fit into the "culture of fear" dialogue. I do think that the lack of hitchhikers is a disturbing symptom, and I do think that the left in America -- and a lot of young people in particular -- have allowed themselves to get cut off from people who aren't like them.

They define people who "aren't like them" as people of other races who live in the same neighborhood and go to the same school, and live in essentially the same world, and because of this they feel that they're hanging out lots with people who "aren't like them." But in fact, the people who really aren't like you are the people with whom you profoundly disagree, and crucial thing to be aware of is that they're very very often just as smart and just as decent as the people with whom you agree with. You can still think that you're right and they're wrong, but it's worth noticing that you're not a tiny island of intelligent people in a world of idiots.

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Inspiring
Posted by: garyinthailand on May 12, 2006 2:13 AM   
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Positive and stimulating. It got me thinking. I was an avid cross-country hitchhiker when I was young, but over the years not only stopped hitching, but stopped picking up hitchhikers. Now I live in Thailand. Think maybe it's time to go out hitchhiking....

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europe has unviersal healthcare and progressive taxation. America has....
Posted by: cry0fan on May 12, 2006 4:24 AM   
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....books about how hitchhiking.

Europeans got universal healthcare and progressive taxation because their Left pushed the issue into prominence.

But America does not have a left. We have a PseudoLeft that distracts us with other issues.

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» VAT taxes Progressive?????? Posted by: CatDad
more hitchhikers please
Posted by: BJT on May 12, 2006 4:33 AM   
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Americans have become so isolated. The luminous nattering cyclops in our living rooms has compartmentalized us, and a tax system that borders on slavery has us working so many hours that talking to our neighbors barely occurs to us.

At least by picking up a hitchhiker you can meet a stranger.

Maybe next we'll embark on an adventure next door and learn the name of the guy who lives next to us every single day.

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STOOOOOOOOOOOOOPID and DANGEROUS
Posted by: greentime on May 12, 2006 4:39 AM   
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OH NO YOU DIDN'T PROPOSE THIS!!!
Why do you think people don't hitch-hike? (Especially those of us who once did.)

Could it be because while there are many quite kind people driving that there are also serious opportunistic and sick people out there? Both drivers and hitch-hikers. Getting in a car with a possible predator is not something any person should do - ever. Picking one up? The same.

You are proposing we roll the dice in a situation with very bad odds. More than likely with enormously under reported bad odds.

I just can't help wondering if you realize that you may be speaking more from your own privilege than your romantic, hopeful view.

This seems like very bad advice and serious irresponsibility on the part of Alternet.

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Encourage hitchhiking with a lottery.
Posted by: Jim on May 12, 2006 5:41 AM   
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To reduce pollution and traffic, we should encourage hitchhiking. Give hitchhikers special lottery tickets they can give away to drivers. Have regular drawings and publicized winners.

I hitched while going to college and grad school in the '70s, but not much since, as I am usually traveling with family. I still pick up hitchhikers when I have room in the car.

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HEY I WAS A HITCHIKER
Posted by: pieman on May 12, 2006 6:08 AM   
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its a shame that hitchiking is villified here in these united snakes!!! i started hitchiking in the streets of la at age 15; i have hitched all over the country and i met many interesting people!!! it still can be cool as long as the powers-that-be dont villify it

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still hitchhiking
Posted by: mary-alias on May 12, 2006 7:05 AM   
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People still routinely hichhike in some parts of the US. On Martha's Vineyard, which has a much higher number of poor people than you might think, people of all ages hitch, and everyone picks them up.

I've hitched on and off for more than forty years, and have, like the foreigners mentioned, been taken home by wonderful people.

Maybe I'll write the companion piece, hitching from a woman's perspective...
Peace

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» Please do tell us about it... Posted by: medstudgeek
Another hitcher
Posted by: constantreader on May 12, 2006 7:17 AM   
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When I was in college in the late '70's, I moved to an apartment too far away to walk. I was a (apparently quite attractive) young woman going to school in a small town in the Northeast. I commuted by thumb my entire sophmore year. I never encountered a kook and developed a small group who would pick me up and take me to school on a regular basis, including a few guys in their 30's who just seemed to enjoy having someone to chat with on the way to work. It was nice to read the article and revisit the "good old days."

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American Pictures
Posted by: blackrose on May 12, 2006 7:28 AM   
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is the best book about hitch hiking! It details a Danish visitor to America who hitch hikes all across the country in the 70s. Check it out.

www.american-pictures.com/english/

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Hitchhiking IS dangerous, especially for women
Posted by: pdxphl on May 12, 2006 7:37 AM   
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Advocating hitchhiking is extremely irresponsible (and stupid, too, as it IS a very dangerous thing for a woman to do). It may be safe for men (and that's debatable, I think) but there's very little safety in it if you are a young woman. I know this through my own experience. It's true, there ARE a lot of nice people out there...but if you hitchhike a lot every once in a while, you'll get in the car of someone not so nice. What makes it so dangerous is that it is extremely difficult to get away from someone when you're in their speeding car heading down the freeway. Back in the 1970s I was a teenage girl living in California, and for a while my female friends and I were into hitchhiking to the beach. In addition to the "good" rides with nice old Canadian couples, cool surfer dudes, and hippie chicks, we discovered how many perverts, weirdos and just plain violent assholes there were out there. Some of those "urban myths" the author refers to have actually happened to women, and he doesn't get it because he's a guy. Women HAVE been beaten, raped and murdered because they made the mistake of trusting a stranger and getting into his car. So why hitchhike when there are so many other settings in which you can meet and talk to strangers and enjoy their quirkiness and a feeling of community safely. Go to a public park or a beach on a sunny day, and hang out there. Sit at a sidewalk cafe with a cup of coffee and chat with people as they go by. Go to a library, a local bar, or any other public place. You do not have to get into a stranger's car to do this! If any women are reading this, DON'T HITCHHIKE!

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Of course hitchhiking is dangerous
Posted by: McJulie on May 12, 2006 8:31 AM   
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It involves riding in an automobile at some point.

I've never hitchhiked, but I do routinely walk around by myself, at night, even in cities like New York. There are a lot of people, like my mother and anti-feminist Naomi Riley, who react to my behavior (uh, I'm female) just the way people on this comment thread are reacting to the notion of women hitchhiking --

It's Daaaaangerous! Aiee! You could get raaaaaped! Or something! Stay home! Or at least take a man with you!

But nothing bad has ever happened to me because of it, and many good things have. In fact, anecdotally, I've been harrassed in the middle of the day, or when I am walking with a guy, but never when I am alone at night. But even the harrassment was nothing more than annoying and vaguely threatening -- nothing happened.

There's a small chance that almost any behavior could end in disaster. We over-react to certain perceived risks because of two things -- social programming, and a quirk in the human brain that causes the unfamiliar to seem more important.

Social programming is my bet for why people over-react to the perceived threat to womanhood from women acting like they are free, hitchhiking or walking alone at night or whatever they want to do.

But we know it's the women who aren't free who are really in danger -- from abusive husbands and boyfriends.

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this is questionable
Posted by: owleyes on May 12, 2006 8:43 AM   
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I've hitchiked two or three times when I was really desperate. It was good for me that nice people picked me up and didn't assault me or anything like that. Also, it is always interesting spending time with strangers, finding out what sort of music they like and the troubles they've got on their minds. But if I ever found out that my niece was out hitchiking, I would drop whatever I was doing, get into my car and search for her without stopping until either I found her or learned that she was home safe. Likewise, I've had my share of sex with people I didn't know and had a pretty good time doing it, but if my niece asked me for advice on the subject, I would counsel against it. Why? Because it's irresponsible to encourage kids to do things that could hurt them. Let them play Russian roulette and escape unharmed by the grace of God. But let's not be the ones to push them into it.

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Risky
Posted by: Lincoln fan on May 12, 2006 9:51 AM   
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I used to pick up hitchhikers whenever I saw one. Today I always (except on my way to work or some scheduled event) pick up people who are having car trouble. But , there is a risk involved. I don't think automobile insurance covers hitch-hikers and I think that the driver is responsible in case of an accident.

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» RE: isky Posted by: YogiBear
This reminds me
Posted by: Longdream on May 12, 2006 10:57 AM   
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of the recent effort of the pseudo-religious skinflints in the American Gestapo to purvey a suggestion that the seriously ill among us should use our prayer groups to get us better (in lieu of expensive health care).

No gas? Can't afford a car anymore? No train or bus going where you're going? Have I got good news for you!!

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hitchhiked across Ireland
Posted by: deborama on May 12, 2006 11:19 AM   
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A girlfriend and I hitchhiked across Ireland for a couple weeks some years ago as we had been told it was safe there. We were two single girls in our twenties and we had only positive experiences. People (actually, they were all men) who picked us up even drove out of their way sometimes to bring us to our next destination. I would never do it in this country though, too many wackos and too many guns. No guns in Europe.

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» Well-placed sarcasm! Posted by: CatDad
Dangerous? Maybe...but can you prove it?
Posted by: Capybara on May 12, 2006 11:25 AM   
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It seems like the central point being made is that there IS some danger associated with hitchhiking, but there is little or no evidence that our fear of it is proportional to the actual number of crimes being committed.

Studies about hitchhiking crimes are rare - most of what 'everybody knows' is anecdotal evidence. Very few studies have actually been done to show that hitchhiking is more dangerous than other activities we feel are acceptable risks in day-to-day life.

The author presents a good case for recognizing one area of the culture of fear in our society. It sounds like a great book.

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Culture of fear...
Posted by: badkitty on May 12, 2006 11:30 AM   
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Well, I have been very impressed with Bush/the Republicans creation of a nation of cowards--who would have thought they could have convinced so many people to be so afraid of so small a group of people because of 9/11, but anyone who thinks that hitchhiking is a routinely safe activity is not playing with a full deck. I gave up hitchhiking in 1974. By that time I had stopped accepting rides from any men with short hair and learned to check the inside of the door to make sure it had handles in it. I met more than my share of middle aged men who wanted to have sex with their 14 year old daughter's friends (I was 16 when I started hitchhiking, but looked like I was 14 on a good day, 12 on an average day, so you can imagine what I thought of them then, and how suspicious I am of straight, as opposed to "hip" men now). I was bold enough to roll down windows and start to scream when I couldn't get out of a car (before automatic windows...) I know that living in my area getting hit by lightening is almost impossible, but really, until I limited my rides to a group of people who looked a certain way, I ran into trouble 50% of the time. And I do have a friend (male) who was picked up and killed by a man when he was 18. This is just my hitchhiking experience. If you're not going to be afraid of hitchhiking, be very, very cautious. The chances of you being hurt by a terrorist are infintesimal compared to being hurt while hitchhiking.

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mitigate the risks with technology
Posted by: DVHdesigns on May 12, 2006 12:07 PM   
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I live in Oregon where hitchhiking is "legal". I've often thought that there must be a way to make this freeform ride sharing safer and more accessible to the general public, especially women who are concerned about assault. I think the "fear of hitching" is mostly media driven and there are simple ways that one could increase the sense of safety in hitching.

If one were traveling with a cell phone, one could make a call when one gets a ride and tell a friend/family member/answering machine, that they got a ride with a brief description of the vehicle they're driving in and destination. If one travels with a cell phone with a camera, one could even casually take a picture of the license plate with the camera phone as you're approaching the vehicle. If you accept the ride, just tell the driver you're sending a message to a friend, and you can send a pic of the license plate of your ride without the driver ever knowing. If the driver turned out to be a freak, you would have an ace in the hole for your protection ("HEY!, my Dad has YOUR license plate number and you WILL be caught!"). It would even be easy to take a pic of the driver without the person noticing and send that on.

I know not everyone, let alone hitchers, have cell phones these days, but young folks especially seem attached to theirs and it could be a useful tool in helping one to feel safer while hitching. I haven't hitched but I've picked up a number of people and never had a problem.

I also have had the thought that communities could create hitch hiker friendly pick up spots that would make people feel safer about getting and giving a ride. Imagine if bus stops were reconfigured and had simple solar panel charged cameras that were triggered to take images of cars that stopped to pick up hitchers. They could also have a flashing thumb signal that you could push when you needed a ride. Both riders and drivers might feel more comfortable with anonymous ride shares-hitching if everyone knew that there was a simple record of the pick up...an image of the person entering the car and that vehicles plates and make/model obvious in the image. It may sound a little big brotherish, but it would probably encourage people to both offer and seek anonymous rides, and there would be no need to sign up or search for anything. It could be organized as a community building, low cost, shared transportation network. I'm just thinking outside of the box and new ways to bring the thumb back into the transportation system. --DVH

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How much danger *really*?
Posted by: Kneel on May 12, 2006 2:15 PM   
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A police study Germany found that almost all hitchhiking assualts, from either side, occurred after 7:30 p.m. (Don't you like when the police actually pay attention to people's safety?) That is, most of the danger is after dark.

Choose your rides. One of the best ways is just to go up to cars at stop lights and ask. You can sometimes do the same at a stop sign before the highway or at a rest stop. Look presentable and explain your situation (hint: it always works better if you come up with a reason - "I'm going to visit my sister" is better than my car broke down... you can be honest, but people just tend to react better if they're given a reason). You'll have to deal with The Fear, of course, but people can get past that.

And make a point of picking up hitchers. In Germany, I got rides from people who'd pull through the rest stops just to see if there were any hitchers. Cool.

Yes, I've heard all the horror stories, but I don't know how likely such crime is. If six people get assualted in along a highway hitching, it's huge news - even though over a hundred people a day die in accidents. All in all, the greater danger might be just from being in a car.

I've hitchhiked everywhere. Especially in places like Mississipppi, people kept telling me I was likely to get killed before I even got out of town. (Other than one embittered old racist - kept saying, "Now, I'm not racial, but...", I encountered nothing but kindness.) The only time I felt in danger was when some cop insisted I take the bus for my safety. At the station, the guy who'd been sitting next to me stepped outside, only to stagger back in having been beaten and robbed.

Women I know, to whom I (playing the patronizing male) would likely have said, "Oh, maybe it's too dangerous," have hitched all over the US with no more incident than the occaisonal lewd proposal (invariably asking for something besides conversation, using the same part of the body, which they declined without incident in every case I know).

That's not to say it never happens, but I know many people who've hitchhiked a lot of miles and the only one injured was... from an accident. Gets annoying when people say, "Well, she's VERY LUCKY she survived..."

That said, don't be afraid to turn down rides, and if things get weird, demand the driver stop. After three serious requests to stop immediately, unleash the pepper spray (without warning).

On the subject of defense, too many people I've talked to carry a knife. A knife is practically useless for self-defense in a car (as a handgun is for home defense in the real world). Reason: stabbing someone is so serious that you have to be absolutely, 100% certain your life is in danger, and by the time you have that kind of certainty, it's probably too late. Just introducing the knife dramatically escalates any situation, and it's not so hard for an attacker to take a knife away.

Pepper spray (*NOT* CS) is a much better option. It's very effective in a close space (you'll get some, too, but you'll be able to get away - the point it to shut down the situation... even a handful of very hot pepper will blind the person temporary). As it does no long-term damage, it can be used with much less hesitation - it's just hot pepper oil. If you've asked seriously and repeatedly to be let out without result, you just use it (never warn, as that gives the person time to turn away and close his eyes). It is dangerous - yep, you don't want to blind the driver at eighty miles and hour, but a blinded driver will brake immediately. Still, it's not necessarily any more likely to happen than in the rest of life.

Hitching can be a great adventure. People used to do it all over America. Media hysteria has had a lot more to do with killing it off than an actual crime stats. And that's to the detriment of all of us.

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» RE: How much danger *really*? Posted by: Armafied
» RE: How much danger *really*? Posted by: sixtiesqueen
Retired Old Man
Posted by: HereticSpeaks on May 12, 2006 4:48 PM   
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I started Hitchhiking when I was about 12, I hitched everywhere around town / county. When I was 14 I ran away and hitched to Seattle, No money. NO PROBLEMS. I really was lucky the people would feed me and give me c coupla bucks. I really enjoyed hitching around the country. The cops caught me and sent me home. Next year I got itchy feet and took off again, I did it all four years of highschool. I could usually get to my destination faster than a Greyhound bus. Meaning that if we both left Los Angeles, Me hitchhicking, and you riding a Greyhound bus, I would get there first, and meet a lot of nice people. I continued to hitchhike everwher untill I got marriad in 1957.
I have had only 2 situations which I thought may have been dangerous, in northern Florida, 'bout 10 PM this guy picked me up, and imediatly turned off the interstate, drove in to the woods, and said There have found dead bodies in this are, and they have not caught the guy doing it. Figured I was dead, but no he went back to the interstrate and hauled me about 50 miles.
2 Then when I was just just south of Mendocino, California on old highway 1, 'bout 8 PM, a hippy came out from under a bridge and told me to go away, I just looked at him, then he yelled to his friend " bring the gun", he again told me to go away, so I did, I went a bit farther up the road, jumped in to the bushes, and went to sleep. These incidents happened after I had returned from the Islands.
When I was 48 I came back from the Virgin Islands and could not find work, ran out of money and became homeless. I started hitchhiking, I figured I would starve traveling, not in a cardboard box in an Los Angeles alley. I hitchhiked ALL over the country, was in aprox 45 states. At times it was depressing, but I seldom felt I was in danger. No money, but I did not go hungery, Between the generocity of my rides and the rescue missions I ate fairly reguarlly
This went on for about 3 years til I found a job washing dishes at "MART'S" in Sebastapol, California.
If I was not now an invalid, even at 70 years old I would not hesitate to go back on the road.
I do not feel that this man can be criticized for encouraging hitchhiking, he is not, he is sharing an experience that some of us will find interesting.

Sincerely The DIRK

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» RE: etired Old Man Posted by: thewhitemansshadow
We're arguing over an unknown here
Posted by: LMNOP on May 13, 2006 6:22 AM   
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After reading all of these posts disagreeing about whether hitchhiking is dangerous, is more dangerous than before oe is more dangerous for women, a few things are clear:

There is a risk in hitchhiking which nobody can characterize. It is probably small accounting for the fact that so many who have tried it repeatedly have had good experiences, many of whom have posted first hand accounts here. Also, such people are also probably unaware directly or from reliable sources of others who have been killed or harmed. So it cannot be too dangerous, at least for the lowest risk groups if there be any.

The risk may be acceptably small for some people, and may or may not be more for certain subgroups, but it cannot be zero. Some nonzero number of hitchhikers will be harmed. Nobody knows if those will occur very rarely, rarely, occassionally or whatever, but it cannot be frequently. 'Occassionally' would be too often. 'Very rarely' is an acceptable level risk for many. We are still guessing which it is and for who.

In the meantime, many who have rarely or never tried hitchhiking and also don't know people who have been victims while hitchhiking have decided nevertheless that it is unsafe anyway:

Clearly, many people have the notion that hitchhiking is dangerous whether that be the case or not. It seems that those who say so do so because of what they have been told rather than by experiences that they have had or have heard reliable second hand reports about. So, we can say that they're programmed (or we could say taught), whether the teaching/programming be valid or not. Many such people posted here.

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About this "culture of fear"
Posted by: hagwind on May 13, 2006 8:37 AM   
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C'mon, y'all -- Bush and his cronies didn't invent this so-called "culture of fear." They're capitalizing on it, sure, but we've been living in the "Land of the Scared, Home of the Slave" for a long, long time. The consumer economy is based on fear. It's not enough to "build a better mousetrap." You have to persuade people that without your mousetrap, killer mice will sneak into their houses with Lyme-disease-infected ticks concealed in their fur. Advertising agencies are #1 in the fear-mongering business. They're adept at fostering, exacerbating, and even out-and-out inventing fears, so they can sell you stuff to soothe them. (Needless to say, they don't want to make your fears go away completely, because then you won't buy enough of their stuff.)

The news media are probably #2 in the fear biz, not just because they carry so much advertising and parrot official pronouncements without meaningful commentary, but because they (among other things) are forever grabbing medical studies, taking them out of context, and distilling them into suggestions that Substance A, B, or C might cause or prevent Horrible Disease X, Y, or Z.

Come to think of it, if Comrade Karl were around today, he might conclude that as opiates go, advertising is a lot more dangerous than religion. To which it is, of course, not unrelated.

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It's All Good....Sort Of!
Posted by: JFD on May 13, 2006 6:14 PM   
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I read this with all the same fears and opinions about hitchhiking,
and then remembered that when I lived with my parent's in a small seaside town in CA and went to school in the University town I hitchiked several times when I missed the last bus on my route. It was always a great experience, especially for me being gay, withdrawn and intellectual. I remember talking with a Korea War vetren who was really cool, and knowledgable in politics, a plumber with family who had a gay brother, and assorted construction workers who I had a lot more in common with than would ever have thought. people in my arrogance I thought were cardboard cutouts of opinions, feelings, beliefs.
I agree with the writer, invariably you really can come away from these experiences realizing that you may have more in common with someone than you realize. I also agree that my generation and younger have a tendancy to isolate more easily, and I see that this isn't always safe. Creating cacoons in life is both a hazard and a blessing.
That said I hitchiked in a safe-middle/class college environment, I would never ever do it in the city I live in.
There are so many different, and conflicting prejudices and minorities that it is basically too much trouble.
I also think that Americans are now more paranoid than ever that I wouldn't want to risk some political conversation going overboard or a religious conversation doing the same. It's just not worth it.

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Just another hiway hobgoblin, waiting to be slain.
Posted by: Livemike on May 13, 2006 10:18 PM   
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http://quotes.prolix.nu/Authors/?H._L._Mencken

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Hitchhiking Memories
Posted by: Lily H. on May 14, 2006 1:59 AM   
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Interesting article! Like so many lefty baby-boomers, I too, hitched my way to school, friend's houses and the beach in
the late 60's-early 70's. I started hitching in the summer of
1970 and kept it up through high school and into college, even
after I'd married and my then-husband shared one vehicle.
Sometimes he'd drove while I hitched home from college if
our schedules clashed. I had only one incident where, shortly
after I started hitching, I and a friend of mine accepted a ride
with a moving van, where I got off and my friend stayed with
the trucker to continue home. She had been raped, but the driver was never found despite calling in the police. We were
polygraphed, and the detectives said my friend was "holding back information" from them. I didn't know anymore than what'd I'd experienced. Despite that scare, I kept on hitching until I finally got my driver's license and gave it up for good.
I remember a sense of loss at giving up a life routine, yet tinged with the independence a driver's license provided.
I also recall sensing that "culture of fear" about stories of
kidnappings, etc. esp. for female hitchers, and considered
myself very lucky nothing untoward had happened to me
in all my years of hitching.
During a low point in 1985, well after hitching had gone out of style, I was forced on an occasion to get to my son's school before a deadline or risk being censured (or worse) by my
son's school kindergarten. I had just missed the only bus
that ran there, and time was running out. I was scared and
desperate, and felt sheer panic setting in. At a busy intersection, I just stuck out my thumb and prayed.
Momentarily, an older gentleman stopped and picked me up, after telling him where I needed to go. He was going that way, and I got to my son's school well before the proverbial bell
tolled. I considered him an angel, heaven sent, and thanked him
for being kind enough to stop and give a scared, concerned
mother a break. He was kind, and was happy to oblige.
DVHdesigns had some good ideas about how hitching could
be utilized with technology to make it a safer alternative.
Having not had a car for the past ten years, I have depended
on public transit to get around, and in some cases, it's a real pain in the rear, esp. when the local transit board votes to
cease a well-traveled and necessary route. When I see
hordes of cars passing by, I ofter wonder who would pick
ANYone up these days, esp. when so many of us are so
dependent on single vehicles to get everywhere. I remember
many memories of vignettes of other peoples' lives from
spending just a few moments with them in their cars while
traveling to my destination. If I could rule out being harmed,
I would gladly choose to hitch again and relive the spirit of my youth so long ago and so sadly missed.

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Brings back memories
Posted by: Edward George on May 14, 2006 11:28 AM   
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I grew up in the thirties in a middle class family with upper middle class connections, even upper upper. My mother was a concerned and loving mother but she didn't even try to stop me from hitch hiking. Within a day's drive area I hitched hiked very frequently from the time I was 12. (Very few kids owned a car and I didn't even learn to drive until I was 19 and in the service in WWII.)

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Hmm....
Posted by: midge on May 14, 2006 7:25 PM   
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I said I wasn't gonna do this anymore, but I couldn't resist the urge to comment on this one. I certainly agree that we've become fearful and isolated, much to our detriment, but I think there are ways of dealing with it that are a lot simpler and safer and more effective than hitchhiking. Buying a ticket for a Greyhound bus or Amtrak train (as someone else mentioned) is relatively inexpensive, a lot simpler than trying to work out which cars are safe to get into and how you're going to get to your destination and deal with any problems that might arise, and a great way to meet people. I ride Amtrak quite a bit now, and I often see strangers talking with one another and sharing their stories. Getting to know other members of your community and organizing community events or getting together for a common cause is another; joining an organization another.

Yes we've become much too fearful, and yes there is often nothing to fear, but that doesn't make the things we should be fearing go away, and hitchhiking is no exception. If I were a hitchhiker it would not be all strangers that I feared, but those few strangers that were dangerous, and the thing is, you can't always tell (someone mentioned travelling only with couples or women, but, while quite rare, some couples and women have turned out to be violent criminals; others look and act much as anyone else would). Certainly the fears have been exaggerated, but they do exist. I've been interested in understanding violent crime for years now, and in all the research I've done hitchhikers are usually mentioned as being common targets because of their vulnerability, among other factors. The number of criminals (I'm mainly talking about serial killers here) at large who would take advantage of such an opportunity is probably pretty small, making one's chances quite small, but their attacks are often drawn-out (lasting hours and even a day or two sometimes) and quite horrifying, and once you're in a car with one, it's hard to defend yourself or escape (someone mentioned weapons such as knives before; these usually aren't too effective because the criminal will have had plenty of experience with them), so it's really not worth the risk; this isn't any ordinary, garden-variety danger I'm talking about here. At least thirteen serial killers in the U.S and Canada that I know of (meaning the number is probably higher) since 1970 have used hitchhikers as victims (a small number, but remember that they tend to be prolific, with 5-10 victims until they're caught and more if they aren't), and according to FBI estimates there are as many as 35-50 serial killers currently at large in the U.S, at least some of whom have already used or will use hitchhiking to their advantage. The idea that hitchhiking will help towards solving are problems with fear and isolation is dangerous at worst. There are much more sensible ways of dealing with it. And if I sound like some fear-mongerer, keep in mind that I've been researching this stuff for years, I didn't get it all off of Fox News an hour ago.

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