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But is it dickish biology or dickish culture that creates a problem like Slashdot?
Among geeks, Slashdot has played the role of a New York Times-style news source for almost a decade -- it's the blog of record for techies, reporting and making "news for nerds." Everyone reads it, even if they sort of hate it or think it's stupid. So many people visit Slashdot that when its editors link to something, occasionally the servers hosting the referenced site go down or at least slow to a crawl -- this is known as the "Slashdot effect."
So, of course, any tech or science writer whose stuff goes on the Web (including yours truly) is at least a little bit invested in the idea of getting Slashdotted once in a while. It's sort of like being included in the Readings section of Harper's Magazine -- you automatically get a wider audience, and also the implicit approval of a venerable media institution.
Except if you're a woman. A few months ago, an article of mine was Slashdotted. But instead of resulting in a lively debate about technology and social justice, it instead produced a popular thread in the "comments" area about whether I was too fat to be considered attractive. At that point, I vowed to stop reading Slashdot. What the fuck? Why should I give a shit about those morons? I would read other geek culture blogs like BoingBoing, where the male editors are feminists and Xeni Jardin knows why it sucks that some creeps care more about her ass than the political op-ed she just wrote for the Los Angeles Times.
But, like I said, Slashdot is like the New York Times. No matter how infuriating and stupid its editorial policies, the site still breaks interesting news that everybody talks about. So I started peeking at my Slashdot feed again once in a while, then visiting the site, then actually poring over it daily as I used to do. Until my most recent Slashdotting, in which a guy linked to one of my more satirical columns and described me as a "gorgeous nerd" rather than a journalist or writer or columnist or even just plain "nerd."
You can imagine the comment threads that followed. Was I really gorgeous, or was I ugly? Wasn't it OK to evaluate my looks because my column wasn't really "professional," but rather "humorous"? (As if I haven't been writing this column seriously and professionally for six and a half goddamned years.) And, my favorite, wasn't it OK to talk about my looks because I write about sex? (This comment was followed by links to several articles I'd published about technology and sex, as if writing about vibrators somehow meant I was "asking for it.")
My friends said, "Ignore it." They said, "Those guys are morons." They said, "Let's just read and write things in other places where men aren't dicks."
Yet slowly I began to feel the same way about their comments that I feel when a right-winger tells me that if I want to promote socialism, I should just move to another country. The problem is, I love my country. It fucking rocks. And I love Slashdot too. I don't want to run away. This is my home, and I want to stay here and fight for justice. I want women to get excited by all the cool articles on Slashdot and not get driven away by a community that values them for their bodies instead of their thoughts.
So I went back and began rereading the comments on Slashdot about my article. At least half of them were written by outraged readers who asked why my looks were relevant. A woman had posted about how this kind of treatment was exactly why so few women are in the tech industry. It wasn't a solid wall of sexism -- there was a debate going on. And for every sexist dick, there was at least one feminist dick talking back to him. Even the guy who'd written the post sent me an e-mail apologizing for having used the word gorgeous, explaining that his English was really bad and he hadn't intended to inspire the kinds of comments he had.
I wasn't seeing biologically entrenched male domination at all. I was seeing a slow cultural evolution. The action on Slashdot is like a social version of that "missing link" fish with legs that some paleontologists just discovered. Maybe these guys don't have their gender equality land legs yet, but they've got the beginnings of feet growing inside their flippers.
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Posted by: helix on Apr 12, 2006 1:24 AM
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But I do sympathise, because what's being described here is what happens everywhere on the net : a proportion of the more vocal internet users seem to be horny males (teenagers?). You start hiding your gender, because you know even the slightest suggestion could start an avalanche of sleaze. Better to be 'one of the boys'.
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Posted by: Louisa on Apr 12, 2006 2:33 AM
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"Annalee Newitz, will you marry me?"
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Posted by: BobS on Apr 12, 2006 2:37 AM
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I remember when Annalee's story appeared and the reactions people had. It showed that men are a pretty diverse group and that some of us don't like the nasty defensive sexism that always seem to arise when a smart woman has something to say.
Annalee, I'm glad you are sticking with Slashdot. It's never going to be a "nice" neighborhood. But it sure doesn't have to be a sexist one.
Bob Simpson
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Posted by: tcx2 on Apr 12, 2006 3:09 AM
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Slashdot used to be a mostly Linux/free software (GNU) site, but has over time become a wasteland of arrogant know-it-alls and hate. Even the news just doesn't appeal to me now.
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Posted by: MediaSex on Apr 12, 2006 4:15 AM
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Thousands and thousands of people read, post, flame, and get flammed on Slashdot and other forums on the Net every day. And they manage to cope just fine.
They're called grown-ups Annalee...
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Posted by: Caro on Apr 12, 2006 4:26 AM
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Back to the 50s. Oh, did we never leave them?
http://www.democrats.com/node/8154
Carolyn Kay
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Posted by: Moonray on Apr 12, 2006 4:44 AM
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Of course, as a modern woman, you feel obliged to claim victim status and scream it from the rooftops instead of ignoring the morons as a reasonable person would. And in the process you link yourself to Slashdot again, in effect having it both ways, as usual.
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Posted by: cry0fan on Apr 12, 2006 4:52 AM
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You know, like they have in Europe.
What Happened? If you look at the articles on Alternet and other Leftist websites, you have divisive identity politics mostly. Look at the percentages of the types of articles here on Alternet and on other left websites.
So why is our American Left all about attacking males, attacking the evil South and its evil "redneck", all about women's and minority rights, all about the environment, all about saving spotted owls?
When did ordinary, everyday racism become the paramount evil to extinguish, and when did the Overclass's grip on us become something to forget about?
The story of the American left is like watching the movie Invasion of the BodySnatchers! What happened to our Left?!
Now we have a false left obessed with race and gender and obsessed wirh attacking everyday, ordinary people and their everyday impulses and thoughts! Look, people are the way they are. All people are racist and sexist. Oh, but especially white males! You aint gonna change that.....
How about the Left instead concentrate on economic issues that affect everyone, like universal healthcare, progressive taxation, the welfare state, and getting us cheap broadband for the big cities, so we can end the elite-centered ideological hegemony that grips america via talk radio and the TV?
Alternet is a perfect example of the American left. It is not unusual in that respect. It represents the American left very well.
THe reason that the American Left will not do these things is the Amercan Left is the product of decades of money paid by the overclass, the rich and the corporations via nonprofit foundations. The Overclass started pumping money into these foundations after WW2. It actually started even before that when Rockefeller started philanthropy almost one hundred years ago. And his confidante expressed the idea that Rockefeller's money could be used via nonprofts to further Rockefeller's political goals.
After WW2 the anti-leftist machinations of the CIA and the FBI were channeled into the nonprofits and were used to divert leftists into "less harmful pursuits" according to Richard Bissel, who went from CIA honcho to Ford Foundattion honcho. The FBI was Gloria Steinem's first political benefactor.
So generations of plutocrat money was used to turn the left against the very segment of society that should have been the core constituency of the left--the white male. Witness who was rioting over economic issues this past month in France--WHITE MALES were THE BULK of them. That was not some immigrant uprising over there. Those French rioting in France for leftist economic issues France were WHITE MALES. That could NEVER happen here because white males have been pushed away from the Left, alienated from the Left by the Left's own attacks on THEM.
In Europe, the Left LOVES WHITE MALES. THey are the largest political bloc there. The natural energy and aggressiveness of males is the core of any real and true Left. The left NEEDS THE WHITE MALES. THere is no Left in America unless the white males make up its core. THe whites are 70% of American voters.
But in AMerica, the left here was turned against white males. Makes it real easy for the elite when the Left attacks its natural constituency.
No accident, that.
And Slashdot is a site that is mostly white males. And here the left is attacking them again.
No accident, that....
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» "It's the economy,stupid --same same as "it's the white males, stupid"
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» Fair argument.
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» No, he has a beef about the focus of the left.
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» The guy's a right wing troll, period.
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» as the FauxLeft has defined "rightwing", you are absolutely correct!
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» Like I said,
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Posted by: mandiwrite on Apr 12, 2006 5:14 AM
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In Europe the left loves white males? Oh no, you've got that one wrong. In Europe, white males love the left. And although there are still plenty of sexist males in Europe, Europe has, on the whole, moved further than the USA away from sexism. I speak as an observer, by the way - I live in the developing world, where raw sexism is still very real. And because of that, I know that until we are all free, none of us are free. From my own country's experience, I can tell you this: if you've been part of an oppressive group, don't expect to be loved. Tough tackie if you were always really a nice guy; you've got to change yourself. And some, at least, of Europe's men have done that, from what I see.
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Posted by: drouse on Apr 12, 2006 5:31 AM
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The site is, in fact, much closer to Fark.com than the Times -- consider the sarcastic headlines, the high school to freshman college atmosphere (not just sexism), and the duplicate articles - spelling mistakes - horrible grammar. The site also does very little original reporting, another difference between it and the Times - Slashdot is an aggregator, again, like Fark.com
Amd I certainly don't think a serious news source would have gone for a "OMG Ponies" theme for April Fool's Day. I surprised you didn't mention that, by the way, since it wasn't just sexist but showed a profound ignorance of women and how they think and behave.
Slashdot is the talk radio of tech news, with Linux replacing the Republican party as the favorite sacred cowl.
To me, ArsTechnica is a much better technical site. It has actual articles with real technical content and doesn't require the discussion boards to make it entertaining.
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Posted by: medstudgeek on Apr 12, 2006 5:51 AM
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The real problem is that nerds don't get enough sex. (Or relationships.) No, really. Girls won't give us the time of day in junior high or later and it tends to create a certain bitterness. 'A lack of understanding about the way women work'? Well, um, yeah, we don't get girlfriends until we're 20, so naturally we don't understand how women are.
Is it any surprise that any woman in technology story is inevitably accompanied by immature comments about whether she is single or not? We all wish more women like that existed, but they don't, and I have come to the sad conclusion (after years of thinking otherwise) that they never will.
Besides, objectifying as it may seem to be referred to as a 'geek girl' rather than as a 'media geek' who happens to be female, you have to realize that they are at least somewhat interested in the contents of your cortex (or else they'd just be looking for the latest bimbo, right?).
Hey, look, if we were football fans, we'd be hurling insults and driving you away.
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Posted by: klaatukev on Apr 12, 2006 6:13 AM
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For instance, Janeane Garofolo had and still has legions of male feminist fans who think she is beautiful both on the inside and outside. In fact, my fiancee sometimes gets irritated because my attraction patterns gravitate more toward biting sarcasm and intelligence than raw physical looks. She claims that she would be less worried if I would just drool over Jessica Simpson and Britney Spears like most other guys.
Maureen Dowd, the columnist for the New York Times, probably has suffered from the same sort of battles between knuckle-dragging men who resent her intelligence and feminist men who resent that they are often painted with the same brush as the knuckle-draggers.
Ms. Newitz, you are an insightful and humorous writer (The DRM comment which seemed to elude many of the Slashdotters nearly knocked me out of my chair in laughter). Admittedly, your looks should not be a factor in determining whether or not you have a fanbase or credibility.
But, I must say that I also feel bad for the gentleman who felt he needed to apologize for saying you were "gorgeous." It's not his fault that there are ignorant dumbasses out there who would judge you and your work solely on the basis of appearance. Your indignation should be directed at those who would insult you from that ignorance, and those who would only compliment you because of your looks; not at everyone who would discuss that particular topic at all.
Regardless, if you keep writing, I'll do my best to keep reading.
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Posted by: smedrick on Apr 12, 2006 6:30 AM
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As far as Slashdot is concerned, I think most of the registered regulars there are very arrogant, mostly intelligent, and rarely PC. They're not afraid of offending anyone because tech nerds aren't concerned with such trivial constructs. When there's a beefy topic, they'll beat the dead horse with expertise and fanaticism. When the article is void of any form of intellectual heft, they turn their attention elsewhere. This article you cited as an example is a case of the latter. There was nothing of interest in the article to discuss, so they fixated on the author.
A more secure person would have taken the "gorgeous" comment as a compliment and brushed the rest off. Instead you chastize a group of people for participating in a conversation we all have on a daily basis. The only people keeping sexism alive today are those who claim to rally against it.
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Posted by: supercrisp on Apr 12, 2006 7:23 AM
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I track this back to what I believe is the fact that Americans are the biggest babies, most spoiled, bratty people on the face of our planet. Our sense of entitlement presently and in the past extended to a continent or to the entire life of another human being (slavery, capital punishment), to the government of foreign nations, to those nations’ produce, etc. So it’s no surprise that almost all men here think they have part ownership in all womens’ cooches. It’s part of our propaganda, in the same way that “Baby on board” often translates to “Get the hell out the way.”
On the other hand, it annoys me when I speak to a woman and she thinks I’m trying to get into her pants. But it’s no real biggy, after all, that’s what most men are doing to women most of the time. It must get pretty damn old. I mean, I’m annoyed because I can talk to another person who just happens to have a vagina without my motives being questioned, yet women face this same issue all the time: when, they must wonder, does someone really give a damn about me and not my sex?
I think we’d all do a damn sight better to acknowledge our desires as our own and not demand that others gratify them for us.
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Posted by: bshaurette on Apr 12, 2006 8:15 AM
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Posted by: algorithm_x on Apr 12, 2006 8:17 AM
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I use it purely to get news, and not very much at that, as google does a nice job of rounding up news articles. Oh of course I'm here a lot as well.
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Posted by: pushing50 on Apr 12, 2006 8:34 AM
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First, it is in the enlightened self interest of the industry to make it easy and comfortable for the female 51% of the world's population to use high technology resources. More customers means more money, right? The people who lead the high tech industry should be fostering a female friendly environment for the accessing of all computer-related stuff as fast and effectively as they can.
Secondly, as a long time dater (before marriage) of the most extreme geeks and nerds (because smart is sexy, of course) I can attest that geeks/nerds are no different from other males in their minute by minute obsession with s*x. The change these days is that there now exist all these fora for the written recording of this inevitable obsession. We seem to be newly privy to sexually fixated fantasies and musings which in prior decades would have been confided to a diary, a confessor, or the uncaring silence of one's room. I maintain that all fellows think this way about women and sex, and always have, but the bloggers now put their ideas into writing for us to be appalled at. That doesn't make it right or good, but it helps to place it in perspective for me. The intellectual gifts of the female they are considering is entirely irrelevant when the hormones are in action. In the words of my favorite man on the passage through his field of vision of an oddly dressed but well endowed female; "She had clothes on?".
Women who are tech savvy are a great inspiration and all power to you! To the author of this article, don't lose heart, keep up the good work, laugh at the guys and be glad we are not slaves to our gonads to this extent!
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Posted by: lorijh on Apr 12, 2006 8:35 AM
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Despite all of our technological and social advances, it's disappointing to see such clear evidence that some age-old sexist dynamics persist. I guess there will always be men (boys?) who seem to think they are absolutely entitled to pass judgment on a woman's physical characteristics as though that is the ultimate benchmark of credibility. Your choice to take a step back as a professional journalist and consider all of this in a sociological light, then write about it rather than take offense, is absolutely the best response.
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Posted by: cry0fan on Apr 12, 2006 8:45 AM
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gimme some thorazine, baby!
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Posted by: cry0fan on Apr 12, 2006 8:45 AM
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gimme some thorazine, baby!
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Posted by: surrealsunshine on Apr 12, 2006 8:50 AM
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Sexism does not include things such as commenting on someone's appearance even though they really, reall want you to comment on their acticle instead. Cheapening the meaning of words in the hopes of making a point is not a good road to start down. Harrasment and sexism are practically meaningless at this point because they're thrown around to describe any sort of behaviour that is "unacceptable." Did slashdot say not to post if you're female? Did anyone say that nothing you wrote is valid because you're female? Or did your feelings get hurt (which is perfectly normal when random strangers are evaluating your appearance in a public forum) and you became defensive?
It's good to see (mostly) rational debate on social topics, but lets be realistic about what qualifies as a real issue.
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» Cry0fan has a lot of good points.
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Posted by: Orwells_nightmare on Apr 12, 2006 9:35 AM
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I suppose it's perpetuated by a tacit assumption that the said blogger should be flattered by the attention and take it as a compliment. I think the odd frivolous comment like 'gorgeous nerd'(incidentally, sounds like a good nic' to me =) are basically harmless, but when they swallow up the whole thread, it's just dull, repetitive and off-topic.
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Posted by: hockeysk8 on Apr 12, 2006 10:13 AM
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Nevertheless, referring to all males as "dicks" isn't going to win you much sympothy, Annalee. And are you serious? You are upset over comments on one of the most popular open forums on the Internet? Did you know that ANYONE can comment on Slashdot and most often somewhat anonymously?!? This is hardly the halls of academia!
With that being said, I read Slashdot and enjoy it. However, I put the comment filter on the highest threshold which usually does a pretty good job of weeding out the less than intelligent comments. Reading the comments in this fashion I find the Slashdot crowd to be quite liberal and their viewpoints refreshingly enlightened.
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Posted by: squattyroo on Apr 12, 2006 10:26 AM
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Until fairly recently, European socities have been relatively homogeneous: race & ethnicity were not the dragons they have been in the US, at least until the wogs started moving to the metropole in large numbers. As a previous poster noted, leftism (by which we mean some sort of egalitarianism)appeals to white European males in ways that threaten white American males' sense of identity & stauts. Even a cursory examination of US history tells us that white males have always resisted class solidarity with non-whites, from the Populist movment on out. The New Dealers, in fact, had to de-racinate their program in order for it to become effective. There has never been a "Labor" party in the US--unlike in most European states--, nor even a convincingly "Liberal" party; up until 5 minutes ago the Democrats were the party of segregation in the South & lily white unions in the North.
So, "identity politics" has ALWAYS been practiced in the USA; for the oppressed, "identity politics" was the way to power. That the american left should be steeped in identity politics is as natural as springtime, tho springtime eventually turns to other seasons.
That said, white European males--so beloved of one of the previous posters--have never had to affirm their status in the racial/ethnic slop that is US culture. The conflation of race & class in the American mind therefore gives rise to all kinds of barbarous chauvinisms, as evidenced by the rantings of the poster above.
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Posted by: trapplean on Apr 12, 2006 10:44 AM
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I agree with medstudgeek above - a lack of intimate knowledge of and experience with women does encourage this sort of behavior from geek men. Sure, we could point fingers at boys or girls, in high school or college, whether they are popular or geeky/nerdy or not...but I think we can all agree the problem exists. We can also probably agree that a logical solution is to increase the real life experience the geek guys have with women. I'm not a big fan of problems. I'd rather solve them than bemoan them, so I offer some suggestions below.
Annalee mentions smart women (and men) getting in the blogging face of men who perpetuate these behaviors in places such as Slashdot. This sends the message that the sexist behavior is not acceptable, and the message is an important one. Of course, this also merely treats the symptom, and does nothing to eliminate the source of the behavior.
Now, rather than point fingers at the various guilty parties, as an intelligent female geek, I'm going to do what is in my power to solve the problem. First and foremost, I encourage other women and girls to develop and pride themselves on their intelligence over their looks. Physical beauty is great--I'm an attractive woman, and my looks certainly do open doors for me, opportunities that I use my intelligence to take advantage of--but it is transitory, and by itself, it is ultimately of little value. As a child, I did not know if I would be pretty when I grew up, but I knew that I alone had the power to make myself smart.
My goal has always been to push my intellectual limits at every turn, and now I seek to encourage other girls to do the same, including (especially) my two daughters. Because any woman can get an MRS degree, but then really, what does she have, if her entire identity is tied up in the man who married her for her fleeting good lucks? I've dated both men and women, and in either case, intelligent partners make better partners. Add good looks and well all the better, but in the long term, I care a whole lot more about what is inside the person's head. More women need to realize that smart is the sexiest of all, and I'm on a mission to help them see this. ;)
So what of the men? They need help, so I'm trying to help them. My husband and I are producing a podcast, called Intellectual Icebergs. It's a podcast for geeks, by geeks, covering both hard and soft science and tech topics. One of my pet areas, and an area I'm devoting numerous segments to, is dating tips for geeks. I've spent over a year now researching the dating problems geeks (more so the men, but also the women) encounter, and providing solutions to these problems. A few geeks at a time, I'm trying to make a difference, to modify behaviors and help create relationship opportunities for a group of people who on the average, have social skills that were left behind in their pursuit of their intellectual endeavors.
We're smart, though, we geeks, and we're often very internally driven to excel. Given the tools, given some encouragement and a little caring advice, we can and do change. It just takes a few of us to recognize the need, stop pointing fingers, and start creating solutions.
~ Tiffany Rapplean
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Posted by: writethiss on Apr 12, 2006 10:57 AM
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For the left, there really is just one solution: Fight evil where you find it.
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Posted by: saywhat? on Apr 12, 2006 12:19 PM
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Posted by: defiant on Apr 12, 2006 1:43 PM
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Posted by: Praxis on Apr 12, 2006 1:56 PM
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I'd never heard of the site, but figured I'd check it out since I generally enjoy Annalee Newitz's schtick and she gave it her imprimatur. I saw coverage of a mathematical equation for the perfect female ass (the formula is (S+C) x (B+F)/T = V, by the way), lots of references to using marshmellow "peeps" to hid taboo body parts (with pictures of appropriately accoutered nekkid wymyn), and a blurb about a female at the recent French protests undressed up like the bare-bosomed subject of Eugène Delacroix's "Liberty Leading the People." Personally, I thought the site was reasonably entertaining and wasn't offended by any of it, but I searched the entire page for a reference to 'Linux' and wasn't able to get past 'lin' before Firefox beeped at me. I bookmarked it, but it isn't going to replace Slashdot for my daily dose of geek news & commentary.
Frankly, I am pretty impressed by the quality of much of the commentary on Slashdot. Most of the entries, even by Anonymous Cowards, are funny or interesting or both. But apparently the readership is 98.3% male, at least according to April Fool's edition where they tried to gussy up the site in pink with bullets like " OMG Ponies!" to "widen our appeal to these less active demographics." Now that was sexist and puerile (and funny to me).
We might wish it were different, but many hetero-sexual males are curious about what female writers they read look like, for whatever reason. That doesn't mean we HAVE to make disparaging or offensive references to writers' appearances, but I've probably 'Google Imaged' most of the female commentators on Alternet (and FWIW I think Annalee, Lakshmi & Molly are HOT!)
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Posted by: plover on Apr 12, 2006 2:36 PM
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1. Leave. Obviously you don't want to do that because you believe /. to be the nerve center of geekdom. But every other option will require you to toughen up a bit.
2. Reply. Sink to the level of the trolls. Defend yourself, call the trolls out, flames on, whatever. But watch out, you could spend your whole life doing this -- there are always more trolls. And remember the warning: "Arguing on the internet is like competing in the Special Olympics: even if you win, you're still a retard." Cruel, but true.
3. Ignore them. It hurts, though, to watch yourself get dragged through mud on a frequent basis. You can also foe the troll and everyone who feeds him. Publicise your foe list in your journal and the reasons why trolls make it onto your list.
4. Hide. "On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog." Create a non-gendered nickname. Don't announce anything about yourself, lie, claim to have a sex change operation, you could do any number of things. Lord knows the trolls do this all the time. Perhaps just keep it low-key. Starting a post with "As a woman, I think X about the subject" is a great way to inject off-topic sexism into any discussion. It invites sexist replies, while probably not adding anything to your original point.
5. Rant. This story is a good start -- now, if you can get it posted to the front page of /. maybe more people will start thinking about their callous behavior. More people might recognize the trolls. And the more people befoe the trolls, the less power they have.
6. Some of the above. Create multiple accounts, one to bait the trolls, one to present your professional face, and one to rant.
Finally, don't be afraid to cop the "don't take it too seriously, it's just /." attitude. If people call you on it and say "why didn't you reply to that sexist pig?" you could also tell them "he's a troll, he's wasting valuable oxygen that we could use to better the world. I'm not wasting mine on him."
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Posted by: itripn on Apr 12, 2006 4:07 PM
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I did find out about you from the /. article you mentioned, and for that I am thankful, because you write wonderfully and about great topics.
Thanks again.
Ron
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Posted by: russellcole38 on Apr 12, 2006 4:15 PM
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Posted by: Legs on Apr 13, 2006 4:13 AM
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"It appears our long national journey towards complete idiocy is over. We've arrived."
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Also, as a native of Campbell raised on the Metro, thanks for always having something to look forward to once I'd finished 'Life is Hell,' and Cecil's 'Straight Dope.' You helped turn me into the undergrad (feminist) geek I am today.
-steve
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Posted by: lamar on Apr 14, 2006 1:00 PM
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 14, 2006 4:51 PM
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a) you put up your picture (and possibly others) on the internet, an eminently public place
b) slashdot is visited by doctors, engineers, Really Smart People (tm) and basement-dwelling lower lifeforms alike
c) any high-traffic site on the internet will have its percentage of morons aged 9-99 who will not refrain from spouting their mind
so what is your point? Do you think women don't know that yes, there are idiots on the internet? Hordes of them?
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 14, 2006 5:26 PM
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Trolling is endemic on slashdot. I'd wager that a rather large proportion of the comments directed toward your appearance were, in fact, bait set by trolls.
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Posted by: acidrain69 on Apr 14, 2006 9:34 PM
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Free advice, which I think you already realize: Don't feed the trolls. Don't even look at the trolls, you just feed them more by looking at them. Are you turning your back on a problem? Possibly. But don't forget that all anyone has on a blog such as slashdot is their communication, and acknowledging them just gives them something to respond to. You aren't going to change them all. Most of them will grow out of it, some of them will just continue being republican, etc.
Moral: Just be happy several hundred thousand people who have similar interests as you now know you exist. You are a writer, and you also need acknowledgement. Maybe it isn't the acknowledgement you wanted, but you are basically a public figure in a sense, and don't have the luxury of choosing.
Don't get too bent out of shape about it, and keep up the good work, ok?
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 15, 2006 1:18 PM
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Okay all you looser women reading this...if you want to play with us boys and be taken as equals you must put up with our antics. I mean come on...I looked up Annalee Newitz on google and she/you did not come off as a "seriously and professionally" person to me...more of some type of emo needy geek grrrl that is into manga/computer and crap.
So maybe if you want to be taken more "seriously and professionally" you will play the part...and not just bitch.
Now please leave the room.
Frank Spencer
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Posted by: mallowdoggy on Apr 16, 2006 4:07 AM
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This feminist detour against "objectifying" females is more a product of our puritan past, where sexuality became shameful and derogatory, and women began to be concerned about their "reps."
My girlfriend was reading a book by a woman about French culture, and she describes that there are classes in France for female executives who are going to the U.S. to work, in which they are warned not to feel disliked because workmates don't make passes at them, or ask them out to lunch or dinner, because we have a thing in the U.S. called "Sexual Harassment" which is a serious offence in which men can lose their jobs.
Bewildered French female execs in France apparently expect flirting on site as friendly ackowledgement, and don't understand why this doesn't occur stateside. There are equivalent classes for American men who go over, in which they are instructed that it is RUDE not to comment on EVERY woman's looks (favorably of course), and it is customary on starting a new job to ask out EVERY woman in the office, no matter how young or old, so that no one feels left out. So I think it's clearly cultural.
If someone online feels ok to call you "gorgeous", why be offended? And yes, /. is a nerd haven full of guys who aren't getting laid enough, no surprises there. The point is, Women's sexuality can be a form of power, not a handicap. Of course, no one likes persistent advances by someone who is undesirable; gay guys and lesbians cringe at the advances of opposite sex come-ons, as straight people can react to the advances of same-sex come-ons, etc.
But in a verbal discourse, and one where people develop on-line personas, especially when sexuality is part of the celebrity profile (sex toy reviews etc.) Why not encourage what seems to be genuine affection? The angry jerks who truly are sexists deserve their rebukes, and you might find you have more sympathetic males out there to call them on their BS.
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Posted by: medstudgeek on Apr 16, 2006 1:22 PM
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Also most political discussions eventually bring up European social democracy as an alternative. Cry0fan's posted on there and was actually pretty enlightening for me.
They're not chauvinist so much as sex-starved.
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Posted by: Steven Wanzell on Apr 16, 2006 6:09 PM
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In terms of its being sexist, we must keep in mind the obvious: that the entire world is (still) dominated by males, and, unfortunately, most women still prefer it that way, or buy the absurd myth that male supremacy is the "natural order". Personally, I think women make better leaders than men, if we consider "leadership" to be an activity of organization and administration, rather than one of conquest.
Women can't be Barbie, AND be politically and economically equal to men. Their fate as a collective entity IS in their own (over-manicured) hands. It's very much like the gay rights movement. Now that it seems to be fighting seriously for equal representation under the law, rather than the "right to cross-dress", those rights are becoming a legal reality. Their redefinition of self has led them to fight for what really matters.
Similarly, only when the majority of women themselves no longer accept and make excuses for their willing misteatment, marginalization and subjugation, will the two sexes exist on an equal par.
Steven Wanzell,
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Posted by: gnash on Apr 16, 2006 10:05 PM
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They may not know, but they are confused and un-impressed.
Thought on this: One of the best ways to be seen on equal footing and not have your work be judged on your gender is to not play the gender card when one doesn't like criticisms. On a general journalistic 101 tip - it is also a good idea not to fabricate events in your story in an attempt to get back at the critic. I know this (like Annalee and Xeni) but at least one just doesn't get it (Violet Blue).
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I am not particularly impressed by the fact that feminists are always declaring war on behaviour which is probably as old as the human race itself. One IS free to just move along. And no, I will not stop calling a gorgeous nerd a gorgeous nerd when I see one... I would be just simply stating facts! If women on the net won't call the (rare?) nerd hunk a hunk, it's their problem entirely; they're the ones who won't be dating that guy for sure. Instead, they will become bitter old maids who spend the rest of their lives alone, posting on alternet about what asses men are...
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But I do sympathise, because what's being described here is what happens everywhere on the net : a proportion of the more vocal internet users seem to be horny males (teenagers?). You start hiding your gender, because you know even the slightest suggestion could start an avalanche of sleaze. Better to be 'one of the boys'.
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Posted by: Louisa on Apr 12, 2006 2:33 AM
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"Annalee Newitz, will you marry me?"
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Posted by: BobS on Apr 12, 2006 2:37 AM
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I remember when Annalee's story appeared and the reactions people had. It showed that men are a pretty diverse group and that some of us don't like the nasty defensive sexism that always seem to arise when a smart woman has something to say.
Annalee, I'm glad you are sticking with Slashdot. It's never going to be a "nice" neighborhood. But it sure doesn't have to be a sexist one.
Bob Simpson
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Posted by: tcx2 on Apr 12, 2006 3:09 AM
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Slashdot used to be a mostly Linux/free software (GNU) site, but has over time become a wasteland of arrogant know-it-alls and hate. Even the news just doesn't appeal to me now.
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Posted by: MediaSex on Apr 12, 2006 4:15 AM
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Thousands and thousands of people read, post, flame, and get flammed on Slashdot and other forums on the Net every day. And they manage to cope just fine.
They're called grown-ups Annalee...
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Posted by: Caro on Apr 12, 2006 4:26 AM
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Back to the 50s. Oh, did we never leave them?
http://www.democrats.com/node/8154
Carolyn Kay
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Of course, as a modern woman, you feel obliged to claim victim status and scream it from the rooftops instead of ignoring the morons as a reasonable person would. And in the process you link yourself to Slashdot again, in effect having it both ways, as usual.
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Posted by: cry0fan on Apr 12, 2006 4:52 AM
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You know, like they have in Europe.
What Happened? If you look at the articles on Alternet and other Leftist websites, you have divisive identity politics mostly. Look at the percentages of the types of articles here on Alternet and on other left websites.
So why is our American Left all about attacking males, attacking the evil South and its evil "redneck", all about women's and minority rights, all about the environment, all about saving spotted owls?
When did ordinary, everyday racism become the paramount evil to extinguish, and when did the Overclass's grip on us become something to forget about?
The story of the American left is like watching the movie Invasion of the BodySnatchers! What happened to our Left?!
Now we have a false left obessed with race and gender and obsessed wirh attacking everyday, ordinary people and their everyday impulses and thoughts! Look, people are the way they are. All people are racist and sexist. Oh, but especially white males! You aint gonna change that.....
How about the Left instead concentrate on economic issues that affect everyone, like universal healthcare, progressive taxation, the welfare state, and getting us cheap broadband for the big cities, so we can end the elite-centered ideological hegemony that grips america via talk radio and the TV?
Alternet is a perfect example of the American left. It is not unusual in that respect. It represents the American left very well.
THe reason that the American Left will not do these things is the Amercan Left is the product of decades of money paid by the overclass, the rich and the corporations via nonprofit foundations. The Overclass started pumping money into these foundations after WW2. It actually started even before that when Rockefeller started philanthropy almost one hundred years ago. And his confidante expressed the idea that Rockefeller's money could be used via nonprofts to further Rockefeller's political goals.
After WW2 the anti-leftist machinations of the CIA and the FBI were channeled into the nonprofits and were used to divert leftists into "less harmful pursuits" according to Richard Bissel, who went from CIA honcho to Ford Foundattion honcho. The FBI was Gloria Steinem's first political benefactor.
So generations of plutocrat money was used to turn the left against the very segment of society that should have been the core constituency of the left--the white male. Witness who was rioting over economic issues this past month in France--WHITE MALES were THE BULK of them. That was not some immigrant uprising over there. Those French rioting in France for leftist economic issues France were WHITE MALES. That could NEVER happen here because white males have been pushed away from the Left, alienated from the Left by the Left's own attacks on THEM.
In Europe, the Left LOVES WHITE MALES. THey are the largest political bloc there. The natural energy and aggressiveness of males is the core of any real and true Left. The left NEEDS THE WHITE MALES. THere is no Left in America unless the white males make up its core. THe whites are 70% of American voters.
But in AMerica, the left here was turned against white males. Makes it real easy for the elite when the Left attacks its natural constituency.
No accident, that.
And Slashdot is a site that is mostly white males. And here the left is attacking them again.
No accident, that....
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In Europe the left loves white males? Oh no, you've got that one wrong. In Europe, white males love the left. And although there are still plenty of sexist males in Europe, Europe has, on the whole, moved further than the USA away from sexism. I speak as an observer, by the way - I live in the developing world, where raw sexism is still very real. And because of that, I know that until we are all free, none of us are free. From my own country's experience, I can tell you this: if you've been part of an oppressive group, don't expect to be loved. Tough tackie if you were always really a nice guy; you've got to change yourself. And some, at least, of Europe's men have done that, from what I see.
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The site is, in fact, much closer to Fark.com than the Times -- consider the sarcastic headlines, the high school to freshman college atmosphere (not just sexism), and the duplicate articles - spelling mistakes - horrible grammar. The site also does very little original reporting, another difference between it and the Times - Slashdot is an aggregator, again, like Fark.com
Amd I certainly don't think a serious news source would have gone for a "OMG Ponies" theme for April Fool's Day. I surprised you didn't mention that, by the way, since it wasn't just sexist but showed a profound ignorance of women and how they think and behave.
Slashdot is the talk radio of tech news, with Linux replacing the Republican party as the favorite sacred cowl.
To me, ArsTechnica is a much better technical site. It has actual articles with real technical content and doesn't require the discussion boards to make it entertaining.
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Posted by: medstudgeek on Apr 12, 2006 5:51 AM
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The real problem is that nerds don't get enough sex. (Or relationships.) No, really. Girls won't give us the time of day in junior high or later and it tends to create a certain bitterness. 'A lack of understanding about the way women work'? Well, um, yeah, we don't get girlfriends until we're 20, so naturally we don't understand how women are.
Is it any surprise that any woman in technology story is inevitably accompanied by immature comments about whether she is single or not? We all wish more women like that existed, but they don't, and I have come to the sad conclusion (after years of thinking otherwise) that they never will.
Besides, objectifying as it may seem to be referred to as a 'geek girl' rather than as a 'media geek' who happens to be female, you have to realize that they are at least somewhat interested in the contents of your cortex (or else they'd just be looking for the latest bimbo, right?).
Hey, look, if we were football fans, we'd be hurling insults and driving you away.
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Posted by: klaatukev on Apr 12, 2006 6:13 AM
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For instance, Janeane Garofolo had and still has legions of male feminist fans who think she is beautiful both on the inside and outside. In fact, my fiancee sometimes gets irritated because my attraction patterns gravitate more toward biting sarcasm and intelligence than raw physical looks. She claims that she would be less worried if I would just drool over Jessica Simpson and Britney Spears like most other guys.
Maureen Dowd, the columnist for the New York Times, probably has suffered from the same sort of battles between knuckle-dragging men who resent her intelligence and feminist men who resent that they are often painted with the same brush as the knuckle-draggers.
Ms. Newitz, you are an insightful and humorous writer (The DRM comment which seemed to elude many of the Slashdotters nearly knocked me out of my chair in laughter). Admittedly, your looks should not be a factor in determining whether or not you have a fanbase or credibility.
But, I must say that I also feel bad for the gentleman who felt he needed to apologize for saying you were "gorgeous." It's not his fault that there are ignorant dumbasses out there who would judge you and your work solely on the basis of appearance. Your indignation should be directed at those who would insult you from that ignorance, and those who would only compliment you because of your looks; not at everyone who would discuss that particular topic at all.
Regardless, if you keep writing, I'll do my best to keep reading.
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As far as Slashdot is concerned, I think most of the registered regulars there are very arrogant, mostly intelligent, and rarely PC. They're not afraid of offending anyone because tech nerds aren't concerned with such trivial constructs. When there's a beefy topic, they'll beat the dead horse with expertise and fanaticism. When the article is void of any form of intellectual heft, they turn their attention elsewhere. This article you cited as an example is a case of the latter. There was nothing of interest in the article to discuss, so they fixated on the author.
A more secure person would have taken the "gorgeous" comment as a compliment and brushed the rest off. Instead you chastize a group of people for participating in a conversation we all have on a daily basis. The only people keeping sexism alive today are those who claim to rally against it.
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I track this back to what I believe is the fact that Americans are the biggest babies, most spoiled, bratty people on the face of our planet. Our sense of entitlement presently and in the past extended to a continent or to the entire life of another human being (slavery, capital punishment), to the government of foreign nations, to those nations’ produce, etc. So it’s no surprise that almost all men here think they have part ownership in all womens’ cooches. It’s part of our propaganda, in the same way that “Baby on board” often translates to “Get the hell out the way.”
On the other hand, it annoys me when I speak to a woman and she thinks I’m trying to get into her pants. But it’s no real biggy, after all, that’s what most men are doing to women most of the time. It must get pretty damn old. I mean, I’m annoyed because I can talk to another person who just happens to have a vagina without my motives being questioned, yet women face this same issue all the time: when, they must wonder, does someone really give a damn about me and not my sex?
I think we’d all do a damn sight better to acknowledge our desires as our own and not demand that others gratify them for us.
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Posted by: algorithm_x on Apr 12, 2006 8:17 AM
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I use it purely to get news, and not very much at that, as google does a nice job of rounding up news articles. Oh of course I'm here a lot as well.
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Posted by: pushing50 on Apr 12, 2006 8:34 AM
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First, it is in the enlightened self interest of the industry to make it easy and comfortable for the female 51% of the world's population to use high technology resources. More customers means more money, right? The people who lead the high tech industry should be fostering a female friendly environment for the accessing of all computer-related stuff as fast and effectively as they can.
Secondly, as a long time dater (before marriage) of the most extreme geeks and nerds (because smart is sexy, of course) I can attest that geeks/nerds are no different from other males in their minute by minute obsession with s*x. The change these days is that there now exist all these fora for the written recording of this inevitable obsession. We seem to be newly privy to sexually fixated fantasies and musings which in prior decades would have been confided to a diary, a confessor, or the uncaring silence of one's room. I maintain that all fellows think this way about women and sex, and always have, but the bloggers now put their ideas into writing for us to be appalled at. That doesn't make it right or good, but it helps to place it in perspective for me. The intellectual gifts of the female they are considering is entirely irrelevant when the hormones are in action. In the words of my favorite man on the passage through his field of vision of an oddly dressed but well endowed female; "She had clothes on?".
Women who are tech savvy are a great inspiration and all power to you! To the author of this article, don't lose heart, keep up the good work, laugh at the guys and be glad we are not slaves to our gonads to this extent!
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Despite all of our technological and social advances, it's disappointing to see such clear evidence that some age-old sexist dynamics persist. I guess there will always be men (boys?) who seem to think they are absolutely entitled to pass judgment on a woman's physical characteristics as though that is the ultimate benchmark of credibility. Your choice to take a step back as a professional journalist and consider all of this in a sociological light, then write about it rather than take offense, is absolutely the best response.
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Posted by: cry0fan on Apr 12, 2006 8:45 AM
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gimme some thorazine, baby!
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gimme some thorazine, baby!
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Posted by: surrealsunshine on Apr 12, 2006 8:50 AM
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Sexism does not include things such as commenting on someone's appearance even though they really, reall want you to comment on their acticle instead. Cheapening the meaning of words in the hopes of making a point is not a good road to start down. Harrasment and sexism are practically meaningless at this point because they're thrown around to describe any sort of behaviour that is "unacceptable." Did slashdot say not to post if you're female? Did anyone say that nothing you wrote is valid because you're female? Or did your feelings get hurt (which is perfectly normal when random strangers are evaluating your appearance in a public forum) and you became defensive?
It's good to see (mostly) rational debate on social topics, but lets be realistic about what qualifies as a real issue.
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Posted by: Orwells_nightmare on Apr 12, 2006 9:35 AM
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I suppose it's perpetuated by a tacit assumption that the said blogger should be flattered by the attention and take it as a compliment. I think the odd frivolous comment like 'gorgeous nerd'(incidentally, sounds like a good nic' to me =) are basically harmless, but when they swallow up the whole thread, it's just dull, repetitive and off-topic.
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Nevertheless, referring to all males as "dicks" isn't going to win you much sympothy, Annalee. And are you serious? You are upset over comments on one of the most popular open forums on the Internet? Did you know that ANYONE can comment on Slashdot and most often somewhat anonymously?!? This is hardly the halls of academia!
With that being said, I read Slashdot and enjoy it. However, I put the comment filter on the highest threshold which usually does a pretty good job of weeding out the less than intelligent comments. Reading the comments in this fashion I find the Slashdot crowd to be quite liberal and their viewpoints refreshingly enlightened.
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Until fairly recently, European socities have been relatively homogeneous: race & ethnicity were not the dragons they have been in the US, at least until the wogs started moving to the metropole in large numbers. As a previous poster noted, leftism (by which we mean some sort of egalitarianism)appeals to white European males in ways that threaten white American males' sense of identity & stauts. Even a cursory examination of US history tells us that white males have always resisted class solidarity with non-whites, from the Populist movment on out. The New Dealers, in fact, had to de-racinate their program in order for it to become effective. There has never been a "Labor" party in the US--unlike in most European states--, nor even a convincingly "Liberal" party; up until 5 minutes ago the Democrats were the party of segregation in the South & lily white unions in the North.
So, "identity politics" has ALWAYS been practiced in the USA; for the oppressed, "identity politics" was the way to power. That the american left should be steeped in identity politics is as natural as springtime, tho springtime eventually turns to other seasons.
That said, white European males--so beloved of one of the previous posters--have never had to affirm their status in the racial/ethnic slop that is US culture. The conflation of race & class in the American mind therefore gives rise to all kinds of barbarous chauvinisms, as evidenced by the rantings of the poster above.
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Posted by: trapplean on Apr 12, 2006 10:44 AM
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I agree with medstudgeek above - a lack of intimate knowledge of and experience with women does encourage this sort of behavior from geek men. Sure, we could point fingers at boys or girls, in high school or college, whether they are popular or geeky/nerdy or not...but I think we can all agree the problem exists. We can also probably agree that a logical solution is to increase the real life experience the geek guys have with women. I'm not a big fan of problems. I'd rather solve them than bemoan them, so I offer some suggestions below.
Annalee mentions smart women (and men) getting in the blogging face of men who perpetuate these behaviors in places such as Slashdot. This sends the message that the sexist behavior is not acceptable, and the message is an important one. Of course, this also merely treats the symptom, and does nothing to eliminate the source of the behavior.
Now, rather than point fingers at the various guilty parties, as an intelligent female geek, I'm going to do what is in my power to solve the problem. First and foremost, I encourage other women and girls to develop and pride themselves on their intelligence over their looks. Physical beauty is great--I'm an attractive woman, and my looks certainly do open doors for me, opportunities that I use my intelligence to take advantage of--but it is transitory, and by itself, it is ultimately of little value. As a child, I did not know if I would be pretty when I grew up, but I knew that I alone had the power to make myself smart.
My goal has always been to push my intellectual limits at every turn, and now I seek to encourage other girls to do the same, including (especially) my two daughters. Because any woman can get an MRS degree, but then really, what does she have, if her entire identity is tied up in the man who married her for her fleeting good lucks? I've dated both men and women, and in either case, intelligent partners make better partners. Add good looks and well all the better, but in the long term, I care a whole lot more about what is inside the person's head. More women need to realize that smart is the sexiest of all, and I'm on a mission to help them see this. ;)
So what of the men? They need help, so I'm trying to help them. My husband and I are producing a podcast, called Intellectual Icebergs. It's a podcast for geeks, by geeks, covering both hard and soft science and tech topics. One of my pet areas, and an area I'm devoting numerous segments to, is dating tips for geeks. I've spent over a year now researching the dating problems geeks (more so the men, but also the women) encounter, and providing solutions to these problems. A few geeks at a time, I'm trying to make a difference, to modify behaviors and help create relationship opportunities for a group of people who on the average, have social skills that were left behind in their pursuit of their intellectual endeavors.
We're smart, though, we geeks, and we're often very internally driven to excel. Given the tools, given some encouragement and a little caring advice, we can and do change. It just takes a few of us to recognize the need, stop pointing fingers, and start creating solutions.
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For the left, there really is just one solution: Fight evil where you find it.
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Posted by: Praxis on Apr 12, 2006 1:56 PM
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I'd never heard of the site, but figured I'd check it out since I generally enjoy Annalee Newitz's schtick and she gave it her imprimatur. I saw coverage of a mathematical equation for the perfect female ass (the formula is (S+C) x (B+F)/T = V, by the way), lots of references to using marshmellow "peeps" to hid taboo body parts (with pictures of appropriately accoutered nekkid wymyn), and a blurb about a female at the recent French protests undressed up like the bare-bosomed subject of Eugène Delacroix's "Liberty Leading the People." Personally, I thought the site was reasonably entertaining and wasn't offended by any of it, but I searched the entire page for a reference to 'Linux' and wasn't able to get past 'lin' before Firefox beeped at me. I bookmarked it, but it isn't going to replace Slashdot for my daily dose of geek news & commentary.
Frankly, I am pretty impressed by the quality of much of the commentary on Slashdot. Most of the entries, even by Anonymous Cowards, are funny or interesting or both. But apparently the readership is 98.3% male, at least according to April Fool's edition where they tried to gussy up the site in pink with bullets like " OMG Ponies!" to "widen our appeal to these less active demographics." Now that was sexist and puerile (and funny to me).
We might wish it were different, but many hetero-sexual males are curious about what female writers they read look like, for whatever reason. That doesn't mean we HAVE to make disparaging or offensive references to writers' appearances, but I've probably 'Google Imaged' most of the female commentators on Alternet (and FWIW I think Annalee, Lakshmi & Molly are HOT!)
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Posted by: plover on Apr 12, 2006 2:36 PM
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1. Leave. Obviously you don't want to do that because you believe /. to be the nerve center of geekdom. But every other option will require you to toughen up a bit.
2. Reply. Sink to the level of the trolls. Defend yourself, call the trolls out, flames on, whatever. But watch out, you could spend your whole life doing this -- there are always more trolls. And remember the warning: "Arguing on the internet is like competing in the Special Olympics: even if you win, you're still a retard." Cruel, but true.
3. Ignore them. It hurts, though, to watch yourself get dragged through mud on a frequent basis. You can also foe the troll and everyone who feeds him. Publicise your foe list in your journal and the reasons why trolls make it onto your list.
4. Hide. "On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog." Create a non-gendered nickname. Don't announce anything about yourself, lie, claim to have a sex change operation, you could do any number of things. Lord knows the trolls do this all the time. Perhaps just keep it low-key. Starting a post with "As a woman, I think X about the subject" is a great way to inject off-topic sexism into any discussion. It invites sexist replies, while probably not adding anything to your original point.
5. Rant. This story is a good start -- now, if you can get it posted to the front page of /. maybe more people will start thinking about their callous behavior. More people might recognize the trolls. And the more people befoe the trolls, the less power they have.
6. Some of the above. Create multiple accounts, one to bait the trolls, one to present your professional face, and one to rant.
Finally, don't be afraid to cop the "don't take it too seriously, it's just /." attitude. If people call you on it and say "why didn't you reply to that sexist pig?" you could also tell them "he's a troll, he's wasting valuable oxygen that we could use to better the world. I'm not wasting mine on him."
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Posted by: itripn on Apr 12, 2006 4:07 PM
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I did find out about you from the /. article you mentioned, and for that I am thankful, because you write wonderfully and about great topics.
Thanks again.
Ron
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Posted by: russellcole38 on Apr 12, 2006 4:15 PM
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Posted by: douglashoyt on Apr 12, 2006 7:03 PM
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» You can find it on the internet.
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» Great question! I'd like to see this debated (perhaps on slashdot?)
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Posted by: Legs on Apr 13, 2006 4:13 AM
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"It appears our long national journey towards complete idiocy is over. We've arrived."
-- http://billmon.org/archives/002375.html
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Posted by: steve-a-saurus on Apr 13, 2006 12:54 PM
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Posted by: presta on Apr 13, 2006 3:05 PM
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Also, as a native of Campbell raised on the Metro, thanks for always having something to look forward to once I'd finished 'Life is Hell,' and Cecil's 'Straight Dope.' You helped turn me into the undergrad (feminist) geek I am today.
-steve
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Posted by: DavidByron on Apr 13, 2006 6:13 PM
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Posted by: richardpmendola on Apr 14, 2006 8:43 AM
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Posted by: medstudgeek on Apr 14, 2006 11:27 AM
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Posted by: lamar on Apr 14, 2006 1:00 PM
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 14, 2006 4:51 PM
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a) you put up your picture (and possibly others) on the internet, an eminently public place
b) slashdot is visited by doctors, engineers, Really Smart People (tm) and basement-dwelling lower lifeforms alike
c) any high-traffic site on the internet will have its percentage of morons aged 9-99 who will not refrain from spouting their mind
so what is your point? Do you think women don't know that yes, there are idiots on the internet? Hordes of them?
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 14, 2006 5:26 PM
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Trolling is endemic on slashdot. I'd wager that a rather large proportion of the comments directed toward your appearance were, in fact, bait set by trolls.
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Posted by: acidrain69 on Apr 14, 2006 9:34 PM
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Free advice, which I think you already realize: Don't feed the trolls. Don't even look at the trolls, you just feed them more by looking at them. Are you turning your back on a problem? Possibly. But don't forget that all anyone has on a blog such as slashdot is their communication, and acknowledging them just gives them something to respond to. You aren't going to change them all. Most of them will grow out of it, some of them will just continue being republican, etc.
Moral: Just be happy several hundred thousand people who have similar interests as you now know you exist. You are a writer, and you also need acknowledgement. Maybe it isn't the acknowledgement you wanted, but you are basically a public figure in a sense, and don't have the luxury of choosing.
Don't get too bent out of shape about it, and keep up the good work, ok?
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Posted by: chomsky on Apr 15, 2006 1:18 PM
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Okay all you looser women reading this...if you want to play with us boys and be taken as equals you must put up with our antics. I mean come on...I looked up Annalee Newitz on google and she/you did not come off as a "seriously and professionally" person to me...more of some type of emo needy geek grrrl that is into manga/computer and crap.
So maybe if you want to be taken more "seriously and professionally" you will play the part...and not just bitch.
Now please leave the room.
Frank Spencer
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Posted by: mallowdoggy on Apr 16, 2006 4:07 AM
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This feminist detour against "objectifying" females is more a product of our puritan past, where sexuality became shameful and derogatory, and women began to be concerned about their "reps."
My girlfriend was reading a book by a woman about French culture, and she describes that there are classes in France for female executives who are going to the U.S. to work, in which they are warned not to feel disliked because workmates don't make passes at them, or ask them out to lunch or dinner, because we have a thing in the U.S. called "Sexual Harassment" which is a serious offence in which men can lose their jobs.
Bewildered French female execs in France apparently expect flirting on site as friendly ackowledgement, and don't understand why this doesn't occur stateside. There are equivalent classes for American men who go over, in which they are instructed that it is RUDE not to comment on EVERY woman's looks (favorably of course), and it is customary on starting a new job to ask out EVERY woman in the office, no matter how young or old, so that no one feels left out. So I think it's clearly cultural.
If someone online feels ok to call you "gorgeous", why be offended? And yes, /. is a nerd haven full of guys who aren't getting laid enough, no surprises there. The point is, Women's sexuality can be a form of power, not a handicap. Of course, no one likes persistent advances by someone who is undesirable; gay guys and lesbians cringe at the advances of opposite sex come-ons, as straight people can react to the advances of same-sex come-ons, etc.
But in a verbal discourse, and one where people develop on-line personas, especially when sexuality is part of the celebrity profile (sex toy reviews etc.) Why not encourage what seems to be genuine affection? The angry jerks who truly are sexists deserve their rebukes, and you might find you have more sympathetic males out there to call them on their BS.
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Posted by: Elmowilcox on Apr 16, 2006 11:41 AM
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Posted by: medstudgeek on Apr 16, 2006 1:22 PM
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Also most political discussions eventually bring up European social democracy as an alternative. Cry0fan's posted on there and was actually pretty enlightening for me.
They're not chauvinist so much as sex-starved.
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Posted by: Steven Wanzell on Apr 16, 2006 6:09 PM
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In terms of its being sexist, we must keep in mind the obvious: that the entire world is (still) dominated by males, and, unfortunately, most women still prefer it that way, or buy the absurd myth that male supremacy is the "natural order". Personally, I think women make better leaders than men, if we consider "leadership" to be an activity of organization and administration, rather than one of conquest.
Women can't be Barbie, AND be politically and economically equal to men. Their fate as a collective entity IS in their own (over-manicured) hands. It's very much like the gay rights movement. Now that it seems to be fighting seriously for equal representation under the law, rather than the "right to cross-dress", those rights are becoming a legal reality. Their redefinition of self has led them to fight for what really matters.
Similarly, only when the majority of women themselves no longer accept and make excuses for their willing misteatment, marginalization and subjugation, will the two sexes exist on an equal par.
Steven Wanzell,
artist/activist/ex-American
www.wanzellarts.com.ar
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Posted by: gnash on Apr 16, 2006 10:05 PM
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They may not know, but they are confused and un-impressed.
Thought on this: One of the best ways to be seen on equal footing and not have your work be judged on your gender is to not play the gender card when one doesn't like criticisms. On a general journalistic 101 tip - it is also a good idea not to fabricate events in your story in an attempt to get back at the critic. I know this (like Annalee and Xeni) but at least one just doesn't get it (Violet Blue).
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Posted by: JoshuaLudd on Apr 18, 2006 10:37 AM
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Posted by: eneva on Jul 17, 2006 12:24 PM
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I am not particularly impressed by the fact that feminists are always declaring war on behaviour which is probably as old as the human race itself. One IS free to just move along. And no, I will not stop calling a gorgeous nerd a gorgeous nerd when I see one... I would be just simply stating facts! If women on the net won't call the (rare?) nerd hunk a hunk, it's their problem entirely; they're the ones who won't be dating that guy for sure. Instead, they will become bitter old maids who spend the rest of their lives alone, posting on alternet about what asses men are...
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