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The Study of Sex
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Most of the students in the class are themselves black and mostly female. They range in age from late 20s to early 30s, and between 50 and 60 people take the class when it's offered several times a year. Most students identify as heterosexual. As far as Baham knows, it is the only course in the country specifically on African-American sexuality. For today's lecture, Baham and his guest field questions about black female sexual agency, the involvement of black people in alternative sexual communities and even representations of pleasure and orgasm.
Contrary to some students' expectations, the 10-week course is not a sexual "how to." Baham's challenge is to get students to step out of their comfort zones, as they cover topics such as BDSM, black LGBT issues, sex work, media hype around the "down low," marketing of black female bodies on television, representations of black sexuality in pornography, interracial sexuality and black male patriarchy.
Rethinking what's natural
Students enroll in the course with a variety of ideas about sexuality, Baham says. Among his students, he finds that "certain things are considered taboo because they're considered things that white people do. For example, gay and lesbian identity is considered white, introduced to blacks during slavery and not organic to Africa. Religiosity also comes up; sexual practice is conflated with religious prerogatives."
Representations of black sexuality, especially black female sexuality, in popular culture are also an issue. "They're very aware that their sexual bodies are objectified and commodified," Baham says. "And there are clearly demarcated lines between [women who are] virgins and sluts. [The students'] sexual self-perception is bounded by race, gender and religiosity. Every erotic activity that they're engaged in becomes a contested cultural terrain, where [they're] fighting the legacy of colonialism."
For one of the class assignments, Baham has the students conduct a mini-ethnography. He asks students to interview people whose sexuality is different from that of their own. "So, if they're heterosexual and vanilla, they go to the Folsom Street Fair (an annual leather community event in the nearby city of San Francisco) and chat with people," he says.
"I'm not trying to indoctrinate them. I'm not trying to stop them from looking to the Christian church every time they have sex. I'm looking to get them to think critically about what they do and what they think is 'natural.'"
The color of sexuality studies
The existence of Baham's course itself -- and its high enrollment numbers -- indicates a departure from the norm in the field of sexuality studies. Rita Melendez is a professor in the Human Sexuality Studies Department at San Francisco State University and a research associate at the school's Center for Research on Gender and Sexuality. Both at sexuality studies conferences and in her own classroom, she often finds that she is one of a handful of people of color. Most of her colleagues are white, as are most of her students.
The field of sexuality studies is small but growing, having emerged from an interdisciplinary social sciences arena. Academics and theorists dating back to Freud popularized the notion of studying human sexual behavior, and its development has been shaped by everything from the early psychologists to the birth of feminist theory, from the advent of HIV/AIDS to the creation of women's and gender studies, and more.
Melendez contends that "when you study sexuality, race and ethnicity are pivot points. Who you study and what you find will be influenced by race. There needs to be a lot more people of color doing sexuality studies." Sexuality studies has immediate relevance to communities of color, she argues, because of historical and contemporary intersections between sexualized racism and racialized sexism, and because of the ways in which sexuality can be a particular source of joy for persons of color as well.
Race "hasn't been dealt with very well" in sexuality studies, Melendez says. Despite the fact that many people of color are interested in the topic, "there has been mainly a large group of white men and women in the field of sexuality. A lot has to do with the word 'sexuality'; it gets associated with white people." Melendez finds that when the word "sexuality" gets added to a course title, people of color don't enroll.
Part of that word-association has to do with the fact that many white sexuality researchers are researching people of color. For example, Melendez says, most research being done today on people with HIV is done on people of color with HIV. For that reason, a notion prevails that sexuality studies is something that white people do and something that people of color have done to them. This paradigm sets up a power dynamic that can leave people of color dissociated from the sexuality research field.
Another reason for the low numbers of students of color in sexuality studies courses may have to do with the way race plays out in the mostly white classroom. "I spend all day talking about sexuality. I can say anything in my classes, and nobody will be shocked. But when [I] start talking about race, it often becomes a sensitive subject for my students," Melendez says. "When we really start talking about what race means, we get uncomfortable. Students tend to think that if you know somebody's race, you know a lot about them. I think that's not true. Everybody experiences race and ethnicity differently. If you're white, does that mean we can presume to know everything about you? It's really important to de-teach [my sexuality studies students] about race. [I] constantly try to bring race and ethnicity into the conversation."
When she was in graduate school at Columbia University in 2002, Melendez witnessed firsthand the degree to which many other people of color share her interest in sexuality studies. She was involved in the development of a program at Columbia called MOSAIC, which was intended to get undergraduate students of color involved in the field. By offering minischolarships, conducting weekly seminars and bringing the students to conferences such as the ones held by the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (a leading national sexuality studies organization), MOSAIC was able to engage students of color and legitimize their preexisting interest in sexuality studies.
Melendez believes that sexuality studies need to embrace students of color by creating more structural programs, like MOSAIC, and more courses that acknowledge and examine the intersections of race and sexuality, like Baham's African-American Sexuality. "It's vital that more people of color enter the field, but I don't think that's going to happen until people make a concerted effort." This effort, she says, could include sexuality studies programs working to get more students of color into their classes; it could also entail black or other ethnic studies programs, including classes on sexuality in their roster, and it could mean an academywide effort to destigmatize the word "sexuality" itself.
Race, sex and power
Baham's time in the classroom goes a long way towards meeting all three of those goals. But the real revolution comes from within.
At the beginning of the course, Baham says that students always come in with a "pseudo-scientific" notion. "The question that they want answered is: Why are people gay?" Baham says. "I get them to understand that asking 'why' comes from a particular privileged position of power," namely that of heteronormativity.
Baham also gets the students to look at the notion "that black gay men are the biggest health risk in the black community. What about cocaine, heroin, unsafe sex among heterosexuals?" In getting students to critically examine topics such as internalized and externalized homophobia, Baham encourages analysis of the ways in which students personally construct their own sexualities.
Finally, the course ends with a look at BDSM. "We've had this motif that runs through the course: It's called power," Baham says. "I ask the students: How about if we play with power? How about if we play with violence? How about if we play with slavery? I talk about BDSM as a political act. [In BDSM], all the issues with gender roles, slavery, violence and power, all of these come to a head. I deal with it as a potentially very mature way for people to resolve issues that develop from the sexual persona, such as pain, loss, mistrust."
Baham starts by talking about spanking or being spanked as an example of what BDSM can entail. He'll often bring in a guest speaker from the BDSM community. Through these discussions, the students are able to see the potential for BDSM to be, as he puts it, "a redemptive and spiritual act." His students often mention having a slight interest in the topic, but that they don't know what it is and think that it's a "white thing." Despite this, students report that the idea of "doing things that are aggressive or submissive is exciting. There's a tremendous amount of interest, but real lack of information on it," Baham says. "When I talk about trust and safe words, and they see it's not people getting together willy nilly and beating the crap out of each other, they can understand it. Only later do we talk about the more extreme forms of BDSM, such as race play."
Baham often overhears his students tell their friends, "Man, you wouldn't believe what we do in that class!"-- which he takes as a compliment.
What does the future hold for Baham's African-American Sexuality and for Melendez' desire to see more people of color studying and researching sexuality? In CSU, East Bay's Ethnic Studies Department, Baham and colleague Luz Calvo have proposed the creation of an entire departmental program to focus on the gender and sexuality of people of color. The African-American Sexuality course would become part of that program along with similar courses.
Melendez dreams of the day when academics will work to make sure that "young people of color know the importance of studying sexuality, that it's not just fun and games, but that it deals with really important issues that are of concern to many communities of color" such as HIV/ AIDS, intimate partner violence, pregnancy and birth control, the rights of same-gender loving individuals, and sexual agency and the right to pleasurable experiences. "If I had my way," she concludes, "sexuality studies would take over the entire university, because everything relates to sexuality."
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Posted by: Orwells_nightmare on Mar 14, 2006 5:47 AM
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I am a Christian, and I must take issue with this litany of filth you call an articel. Nekkid bodies, leather, women and men cavorting with each other shamelessly? It fair turns my stumach to even read about such things. my goodwife had palpitations. She's in the other room right now, laying down with a wet cloth and a back massager.
Don't get me wrong, I love all God's children, even faggits,(lov the sinner, hate the sin) but S-E-X is not a right, it's a responsibility. It has only two purposes; procreation and guilt. Wer not supposed to enjoy it, going around penetrating everyone in sight, grinding away like humping, growling, sweatty animals in the field, tearing at each other with nails and teeth, moaning and screaming out our ecstisy for man and God to hear.
In the name of Christian decency and humility, I demand that this foulness be removed from Alternet immediatly, else your soul be stripped from your body and burn in the firy sulphur lakes of Hell for all time. God bless you.
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Posted by: eastcoker on Mar 14, 2006 6:52 AM
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I would like to see this class taught alongside Family Life in high school and in the health department of every junior college. Especially in America where people of color are exoticized by white people. I liked what you said that knowing a person's race does not mean you know a thing about them. And that issues of power still haunt the African American community.
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As a black woman who has been rather revolutionary in her sexuality, I'm rather disheartened by the short shrift this story has garnered. I guess that whites on both sides of the political fence are so used to seeing things from their own cultural biases that other voices simply do not matter. And I'm not interested in hearing why a white person wouldn't be welcome in such a class when black students take general human sexuality courses every day in this country. The point is about stepping outside of one's comfort zone and seeing the world in a new way or hearing the stories of those who have been traditionally powerless.
However, I don't lose hope, since it's obvious this course is serving a bigger purpose - which is helping blacks understand and deal with their own sexuality - in essence, to own it and to take it out of the hands of a racist society that keeps us from claiming our right to be fully and healthy sexual beings.
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Posted by: AdamSelene40 on Mar 14, 2006 11:28 AM
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When you cross c sexology with ethnic studies you've got TWO topics the undergrads about which undergraduates would rather lecture than listen.
Elephants in the room:
SEXOLOGY: has been the 'redheaded orphan' of the psychology department since the 1860s. How do you legitimize tit today?
FEMINISM-- black women don't trust it, black men don't approve of it.
GBLT LIFESTYLE -- When you've said"on the down low" you've said it all. Having defined black strength as 'black manhood' for 60 years -- Now what?
THE BLACK SEXUAL MYTH : The whole slave system needed everyone involved to believe Africans were a little less like people and a little more like beasts. (Now, an underlying truth and foundation for this myth is: Black men DO, on average, have larger penises than White men, AND sexual manipulation IS a useful survival tool for captives to use against their oppressors.)
HIV/AIDS -- it's not comfortable to think of needle addicts, and whores as being 'our children.' Grass roots black leadership has done virtually nothing GOOD about safer sex and harm reduction strategies ... and now is following the money into the Meth is Death HIV/AIDS program -- as, for that mater, are the seronegative CSW elite in the GBLTQQetc Community.
SEXWORK -- has Asian and Eastern European immigration made anything better ?
INTERRACIAL DATING: Men can, women shouldn't??
The perception that gay-friendly, woman-empowering, demythologyized sexuality studies are 'a White thing' isn't all that nutty; but that point of view also leads in the direction of thinking that The Englightenment should be regarded as a "White Thing." Whether that point of view is particularly useful to contemporary Black undergraduates, is perhaps one of the points of having a Black Studies Department in the first place.
One thing is sure: black undergraduates are probably NOT going to accept information about the interaction of sexuality, gender, race, role and class as it affects black communitiesfrom white people -- and possibly not even when white people can overhear the discussion.
Meanwhile, if the black pulpit doesn't start accepting some 'white' values about safer sex, harm reduction, and women's empowerment ... their kids are going to go on having an inexplicably high HIV infection rate -- crystal meth or no crystal meth.
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For those who are so called 'Christian', did you forget that God gave you this body? Don't you think knowledge about it and it's powers would be a healthy thing? Look at some of the clergy who have affairs with parishioners, or rape young alter boys.
In the early 1980's I took a number of sex based classes at Rutgers University. 'Sexual Seminar', 'Sexual relationships', 'Sexuality and the Family', 'Sex and Society'. My mother was raised not to talk about sex at all, and I wanted to be educated on the subject, in all ways, as I was engaged to be married, and also studying Sociology. These classses were not just about the Act of Coitis, but also about how it effects relaionships of all kinds. Couples, families, politics. People gain pleasure from sex, but it is also used as a tool to get what we want. It touches many areas of life. It often pits women against men, friend against friend. It is something denied to Catholic Priests, but not Protestant ministers, or Rabbis. Why? There are definititely books about sexuality, all kinds, from Hetero, to Homo, to Bi, Masturbation etc. University presses are a great place to explore for titles that may have what area of sexuality you are interested. Studying it, just like sex education in high schools does NOT make people want to go out and try it. If anything, it makes people more aware, and thus more careful about their choices. When something is forbidden or given a scary label, that's what people will wantt o try! When will America learn that SEX is NOT a bad word! Just the opposite! Think about it, and try to so this without preconceived notions of what such a class entails. Look into it. Become educated, and look at the texts used in these classes. You'll be enlightened, I promise.
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