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The Politics of Breastfeeding

By Keely Savoie, AlterNet. Posted August 10, 2005.


Is breast always best? Conservative cultural mores are clashing with generational shifts in attitudes towards mothering.

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When Barbara Walters commented recently that being seated near a breastfeeding mother on a flight had made her "very nervous," the remark set off a torrent of so-called "lactivist" events around the country, at which breastfeeding mothers, their babies, and their supporters staged public "nurse-ins."

Their view is that breastfeeding is a natural, honorable act and should be no more controversial than sipping a latte or noshing on a sandwich in a café. After all, they argued, babies need to eat, and breast milk is one of the healthiest choices mothers can make for their infants.

Walters' comment landed her in a political hornet's nest, where increasingly conservative cultural mores butt up against generational shifts in attitudes toward mothering and women's roles, resulting in a new front of the culture wars.

Is Breast Truly Best?

For mothers of new babies, few issues bring the personal closer to the political. What was once a very private decision about where, when and how to feed a baby has become fraught with the incendiary politics that divide this country.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that mothers breastfeed exclusively for the first six months of an infant's life, then continue for another six months as they introduce other foods, and thereafter for "as long as mutually desired." But that recommendation is based solely on nutritional and other health benefits -- for both mother and baby -- and excludes consideration of other issues that may prevent mothers from breastfeeding.

A number of medical factors might prevent women from breastfeeding, including an assortment of serious conditions -- being HIV positive, using certain drugs, or having a baby with galactosemia (an inability to process a component of breast-milk) are a few of them.

But perhaps the more common reasons not to breastfeed are pragmatic. In addition to the fact that many women are just uncomfortable breastfeeding their babies, many U.S. companies only offer up to 12 weeks of unpaid maternity leave.

So it may be the lack of acceptance of nursing mothers and accommodations for them -- both in public and in the workplace -- that lead many American women to give up nursing well before the recommended timeframe ends.

Breastfeeding: Shifting Trends

While breastfeeding was the de facto choice for virtually all new mothers up until about 60 years ago, at that time new mothers were rarely in public, much less in the workplace.

With the introduction of baby formula and the increasing number of women in the workplace, the popularity of breastfeeding declined by 50 percent between 1946 and 1956. By 1967, only 25 percent of newborns were being breastfed at the time of their discharge from the hospital.

In the last decade, however, the trend has reversed. In 2003, the last year for which statistics were available, 70 percent of new babies were being breastfed, up from about 50 percent in 1990, thanks largely to "lactivists" and increased public education about the nutritional benefits of breastfeeding.

But while breastfeeding has some undeniable health and economic benefits, some believe that breastfeeding proponents have fostered a new orthodoxy about motherhood that does more harm than good.

Frank Furedi, a professor of sociology at the University of Kent, recently took "breast-feeding zealots" to task for turning the choice to breastfeed into a moral mandate. He contends that women who bottle-feed have been made to feel like second-rate parents.

Breastfeeding advocacy groups, however, see their role as simply one of education. Mary Hurt, a spokesperson for La Leche League International, believes that any choice is the right choice as long as it's well-informed, and that the guilt associated with formula-feeding comes from regret when mothers are not armed with all the facts. "We don't find guilt in formula-feeding mothers who have made an informed decision," she says.

Breastfeeding on the Legislative Front

Today, many people occupy a middle ground in the breastfeeding debate. Whatever choice women make, they say, it should be a personal one that suits both mother and child. And whatever the mother's decision, it should be supported as much as possible.

La Leche League International and similar groups advocate legislative changes to ensure that any choice a mother makes is entered into freely, without the restrictions imposed by decency laws or lack of facilities; they have some legislators on their side.

In the last decade, lawmakers have proposed a number of laws to protect the right to breastfeed in public, but they vary from state to state and are often confusing, poorly understood, or inadequately enforced. Thirteen states have no laws at all to protect breastfeeding mothers.

In May, Representative Carolyn Maloney, D-N.Y., made breastfeeding a federal issue when she introduced language to amend the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to protect the right to breastfeed in public for new mothers. (She also proposed creating a performance standard for breast pumps.)

A health bill that has been introduced in the Senate by Senator Tom Harkin, D-Ind., would promote breastfeeding accommodations at work.

In the meantime, more and more companies are realizing that voluntary support for breastfeeding in the workplace can have a positive effect on the bottom line. For example, breastfed children tend to have fewer illnesses, so policies that promote breastfeeding would reduce absenteeism among new parents (who are able to and choose to breastfeed) and lower health care costs by an estimated average of $400 per baby over the first year. Advocates also contend that these policies improve employee loyalty, morale, and productivity.

The real bottom line? Mothers who make the breastfeeding choice should not have to run the gauntlet of legal restrictions and social recriminations.

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Keely Savoie is a freelance writer living in Brooklyn, New York.

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Posted by: ulmster on Aug 10, 2005 3:13 AM   
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probably barbara walters wasnt breast-fed by her mother.. is there not much people left who still think that breast-feeding is humane? it's just nature

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» RE: silly.. Posted by: Kat144
1960
Posted by: Blabdy on Aug 10, 2005 4:02 AM   
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My baby, born in the midwest US in 1960, was breast fed. This was the preference in my subculture. But for many others it was considered disgusting and worse. A friend -delivering a baby the same month as I- suffered not only an induced delivery for the convenience of the Dr but also attempted sabotage: a maternity nurse at the hospital slipped her hormone to dry up her milk. She barely recovered from that and was able to nurse. There was a sense in those days that not only were we not modern if we nursed our babies, but we were somehow dirty or immoral. I suspect that it was the immorality of 'exposing' a real breast out of its stiff uplift bra -even to such a slight degree- that was discomfiting. The other development of the time was natural childbirth... again something quite odd --stupid, even-- to most people maturing in the fifties. And to have the father witness the delivery: shocking!

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» RE: 1960 Posted by: dracorix
why?
Posted by: mazel on Aug 10, 2005 4:41 AM   
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I wonder, did anyone ask Barbara Walters why she was uncomfortable? I find it rather comical that this woman, who has probably seen more of the world than most of us even aspire, would become "nervous" being in the proximity of a breastfeeding baby. So what was it about this peaceful scene disturbed her, the breast, the baby, or the possibility that this baby might consequently spit up all that breast milk onto Barbara's $20,000 Armani travelling suit?

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Intolerence
Posted by: Lizmv on Aug 10, 2005 6:30 AM   
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It continues to amaze me that there is so much intolerence in the US today. What is it that is driving women in so many different ways. In the early days of the women's movement there was so much hope that women could overcome ALL of our differences and come together as it seemed men never would be able to. But we have just grown further apart! Ladies! We need to support each other and accept that each of our choices are valid no matter how I might personally feel!

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» RE: Intolerence Posted by: radicalmum
» RE: Intolerence Posted by: Lizmv
Barbara, grow up!
Posted by: malika on Aug 10, 2005 6:38 AM   
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Having breastfed all three of my children, the first in 1975, I learned to get used to and ignore the immature reactions of some people around me as I nursed in public. I was discreet, a master of the blanket cover. No-one ever had to confront me about a naked breast spilling out for all to see. But there was always the sense in people's looks that something sexual was going on under the blanket. This is the way we were socialized: breasts are sexual, not functional. But a hungry baby doesn't see it that way, and I've always felt that a hungry, screaming baby is more of a distraction in a public place than a contented, breastfeeding one. I wonder: which would Barbara Walters have preferred? How about the others on the plane? Today, I'm fortunate to have a daughter who breastfeeds, and who has the confidence to feed her daughter wherever she needs to. Recently, we were in a doctor's office waiting room when my daughter needed to nurse, and much to our amusement, women (these were young, some pregnant, in this OB/GYN's office) seemed to be anywhere from uncomfortable to horrified. People, grow up! And if you say you care about children, act like it!

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» RE: Barbara, grow up! Posted by: dracorix
ignorance
Posted by: Hairball61318@aol.com on Aug 10, 2005 6:47 AM   
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I have 2 children that I breastfed for 2 years each. I enjoyed that time in our lives tremenously. I know of very few moms who breastfed as long or as enthusiasticly as I did. Mostly what I have observed in moms that I have come in contact with, is ignorance of how to breastfeed. An un willingness to educate themselves on the subject, and a lack of support and information from their doctors. For me, reading "The Womanly Art" by LaLeche League gave me all the informational tools I needed to be sucessful at it. What new moms don't understand is that it is difficult at first. Sore nipples, difficlty latching on, and a long list of other obsticals, make it hard for a first time mom to get the nursing relationship off the ground. What new moms don't understand is that most difficulties can be overcome if you have the correct information. It also helps NOT to have a well meaning relatve or friend hovering over you with a bottle wanting to feed the baby formula at the first sign of difficulty. My wish is that EVERY expectant mom would read "The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding" BEFORE the baby arrives. That book changed my whole attitude toward breastfeeding. I don't see how any one could read that book and still want to bottle feed. The truth is formula is bad for babies. My kids were and are Much healthier than all their bottle fed friends. Doctors and hospitals are bribed into pushing formula the same way they are bribed by drug companies into pushing drugs. I wish that LaLache League had the advertizing budget that formula companies have because new moms DO NOT get the proper information unless they go out of their way to seek it out. Then they have to overcome the nasty attitudes of an ignorant society. Barara Walters needs to check herself and keep her yap shut about something she knows nothing about! Same goes for everyone else who has never breastfed a baby or is not a well informed medical professional.

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» RE: ignorance Posted by: hirondelle
Lactivists
Posted by: AprilH on Aug 10, 2005 7:31 AM   
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I think it's nursing mothers who need to get a grip, frankly. There's an element of exhibitionism at work here..no, not the exhibition of a breast, but a "look at me! I'm nursing my baby right here in public! I'm special!" kind of exhibitionism.

Yes, breast feeding is natural. So are a lot of other bodily functions I could name. Doesn't mean they should be done in public.

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» RE: Lactivists Posted by: Belle
What's all this about breasts?
Posted by: jalowe1957 on Aug 10, 2005 7:41 AM   
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It never ceases to astonish me how a bodily organ that provides nutritional sustaince to infant children still has everyone nervous. I have no problem with a woman nursing in child in public, but those who don't like it should join a Geshalt group and get over themselves.

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Breastfeeding IS ALWAYS BEST
Posted by: WitchyNy on Aug 10, 2005 9:17 AM   
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Our world has become so distanced from Reality. Breastfeeding is best for a baby because it provides the perfect balance of perfect food and anitbodies for a baby. It is the right temperature, always ready and always clean.

In addition, it provides the baby with loving attention from the MOTHER.....mothers should not work. They already have a job...their BABY.... This sounds so politically incorrect and anti-feminist because who can afford to think this way? Only the rich....

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» mothers should not work. Posted by: Olympiada
discomfort
Posted by: grateful on Aug 10, 2005 9:20 AM   
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My sister has proudly breastfed her son for the past 15 months, and when I have children, I know I will have a helper to aid me when and if I encounter difficulties. My boyfriend gets slightly uncomfortable when she nurses, but he simply leaves the room or averts his eyes and we tease him about it, it works out for everyone, especially my nephew.
P.S. If it wasn't for the La Leche league my mother would have given up on nursing my sister 28 years ago, it's not easy, but it's worth it.

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controversy/polarization
Posted by: gargirl on Aug 10, 2005 9:22 AM   
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I can't believe this is still considered controversial. I breastfed all 3 of my kids and am happy as can be that I did. I had a lot of support from my mom, sisters, friends, doctors and the wonderful folks at WIC.

Breast feeding is natural and healthy for both mothers and babies and should be allowed and encouraged everywhere. Anyone who is uncomfortable with it should just relax and ask a few questions. The more one knows about the benefits of breatfeeding I think the more they will be motivated to overcome their discomfort. That said, we need to support and encourage ALL mothers.

Not every mother chooses to breastfeed. I think those who choose to formula feed for whatever reason deserve our respect and our support. The polarization of this issue is bad for ALL women. We are all mothers doing our best to care for our babies in a complex world. Obviously there are benefits that breastfeeding gives that formula cannot match, but mothers who choose to formula feed are NOT child abusers. We should not judge each other until we've walked a mile in each others shoes.

~Gargirl

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» Believe it. Posted by: HeidiLockwood
There's nothing wrong with Barbara's reaction
Posted by: valbevill on Aug 10, 2005 9:35 AM   
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It comes out of her environment, just like the rest of us. She didn't say that it was inappropriate for the woman to be nursing in public, just that it made her feel uncomfortable. Those are her feelings and she is entitled to them.

I nursed my children for 6 months each and I hated every time I had to do it in public. Thank god for fitting rooms and dark tinted windows on my car!

It will take time before folks are accustomed to seeing and doing this and we all just have to be patient and make sure the laws are supportive.

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Private vs. Public Decisions
Posted by: Brew on Aug 10, 2005 9:44 AM   
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I commend AlterNet for addressing the important topic of breastfeeding, but I take issue with author Keely Savoie's conclusion to the question "is breast truly breast?"

She appears to agree with the position that the decision to breastfeed is a personal one and a mother should be supported in whatever she decides. However, breastfeeding is not a private decision comparable to what religion to impart to a child. Instead, the fact that infant formula's detrimental health effects (e.g., increased ear infections, increased incidents of diarrhea and constipation, increased rates of diabetes and obesity) make breastfeeding a critical public health issue. No one would hesitate to publicly chastise a pregnant woman for choosing to smoke, and in the same vein, no one should hesitate to be intellectually honest about the hazards of a mother choosing to formula feed solely because they "just uncomfortable."

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» RE: Private vs. Public Decisions Posted by: HeidiLockwood
» RE: Private vs. Public Decisions Posted by: HeidiLockwood
ol' can't quit smilin' Barbara?
Posted by: mendomama on Aug 10, 2005 10:06 AM   
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I, like so many other moms, take this issue seriously. I breastfed both my kids 'till they were almost two. My mother breastfed ALL SIX of her kids - and went to work, too! She has been my hero in this cause. She was one of few activists in the La Leche League in the 70's in Southern California. She helped young, inexperienced mothers learn the benefits and joys of breastfeeding our children. She has always made it clear to all of her kids that it is a natural thing to do.

I have experienced the "Barbara Walter's type" many times. Some were strangers, some not. Most of the discomfort that people have with it stems from a bit of ignorance mixed with an upbringing that makes them uncomfortable about their bodies, period. Considering the immense amount of plastic surgery ol', can't quit smilin' Barbara has endured, I'd venture to say that for her it stems from being uncomfortable about her body in it's natural state. Boobs are for babies - and yes, they're supposed to start sagging, wrinkles show we've lived, and that piece of floppy skin under your arm? NEWS FLASH! - everybody gets that. My point being, that anyone that is so uncomfortable with the natural state of their body that they attempt to nip and tuck themselves into perfection, isn't someone whose opinion I take seriously, on the issue of what our bodies do naturally.

No mother should have to lock herself away in shame in order to save others the discomfort of having to see for themselves what breasts were intended for. If someone believes that breastfeeding is somehow dirty, or sexual in nature, then they are the perverted ones. As for those who just find it "uncomfortable", well they need to get over it, or look the other way.

As for the notion lightly grazed over referring to women that bottlefeed feeling like second-rate moms, I think this is silly. I've known women that were unable to breastfeed. Mostly due to a lack of information, when there was no milk coming out the first couple of days, they quickly gave their child a bottle, thinking they were starving. The others had physical reasons, either theirs or the child's. Frankly, if I make another mom feel insecure about her choice to give her baby a bottle, I think that's a good thing. Maybe the next child she has, she will rethink the subject. I wouldn't guilt trip a mom who'd already made that choice, but I would try to talk a pregnant friend out of it.

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Breast Feeding not for everyone
Posted by: bookwoman on Aug 10, 2005 10:55 AM   
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I was a total disaster at breast feeding. My first child, born in 1967, did not do well because I did not do well. At three weeks, she was crying all the time, was 2 ounces below birth weight, and I was so sore, my stomach turned each time she cried to be fed. I found out later, from a cousin who is a maternity nurse, that some women just can't breast feed and should accept that fact, be thankful for formula and get on with their child raising. Also, breast feeding advocates should leave them alone and not make them feel like failures.

Our doctor immediately put her on formula. She gained 7 ounces in a week, and everyone was much happier.

I get really upset when I hear groups such as the La Leche League tell mothers that they are doing terrible things to their baby when they don't breast feed. Ms Hurt may not push breast feeding above all other forms of feeding, but many of these groups do lay on the guilt and make young inexperienced mothers feel as if they are damaging their babies by not breast feeding. Accelerated release (24 - 48 hours after delivery) also has contributed to many first mothers not having the balanced advice and support they need when a breast feeding crisis strikes. I was in one of the first groups of children raised on formula; my children were also raised on formula and so were my grandchildren. So far, we are all very healthy and have not shown the terrible debilitating childhood diseases which are threatened by proponents of breast feeding.

On the other hand, I thank God for my doctor who, after that first Pediatric checkup, told me to buy formula on my way home and give my child her first decent meal in her lifetime. I wonder how many other mothers have fought on, trying to breast feed, when they should have changed over to formula, and I wonder how many babies have suffered because of this because their mother's lack of milk caused "a failure to thrive" diagnosis.

We need to be as supportive to mothers who don't want to breast feed as we are for those who do and can.

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What was Barbara afraid of?
Posted by: iamsenstiveyellow on Aug 10, 2005 11:21 AM   
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An exploding breast? Seriously Barbara. If some mother is breastfeeding her child it is an act of innocense, not incense.

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Mammal Definition
Posted by: NonnyO on Aug 10, 2005 12:03 PM   
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From The American Heritage Dictionary:

mammal: n. Any of various warm-blooded vertebrate animals, including human beings, marked by a covering of hair on the skin and, in the female, milk-producing glands. [< Lat. mamma, breast.]

mammary: adj. Of or relating to a breast or milk-producing organ. [< Lat. mamma, breast.]

The worst thing that ever happened to American women a few decades ago was when they believed doctors who said bottle feeding was best. NOT. Breast feeding is best - natural immunity, mother-child bonding, fewer childhood illnesses... etc. The second dumbest thing was saying it was good for babies to cry. My grandmother was a midwife and she said it was not good for babies to cry; a baby doesn't cry for no good reason and when it cries, it should always be picked up.

That bit of bad medical advice to bottle feed babies came at a time when the movies started sexualizing women's breasts as sex objects, property of men during sexual activities. Wrong!

Mother Nature gave women breasts for only one reason: to feed babies. Usually the only time a baby has a problem with mother's milk is if the mother eats the wrong foods that make a baby gassy. A mother has to eat the best foods for her baby so her milk does not upset her baby's system. If that means eliminating gassy foods for a while, so be it.

To those who have prudish attitudes about seeing a woman's breast in public when she's nursing a baby, the most natural act in the whole world: Get over it! See women's breasts for what they really are: a way to nourish the next generation. Women's breasts are NOT sex objects for men, no matter what movies and slick ads try to sell us otherwise.

True, some women can't nurse babies. I have a couple of relatives who had 'inverted nipples' and couldn't feed their babies naturally, but had to resort to bottle feeding. They always wished they had been able to nurse their babies.

But, whenever and wherever, in public or in private, breast feeding babies is the most natural and most healthy way of nourishing the next generation.

It's men who need to get over the idea that breasts are sex toys, and women need to stop listening to men who give bad information and listen to their own bodies and nurse their babies when they can.

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» RE: Mammal Definition Posted by: NonnyO
We're Entitled to be Uncomfortable
Posted by: zarabeth on Aug 10, 2005 12:07 PM   
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I entirely agree with the person who said that Barbara Walters was entitled to her feelings. I was raised in the 50s by very modest parents. Nudity was never acceptable, and I never was comfortable with it in any way. I've always shied away from public swimming where I would have to undress in front of other women, and gym class was sheer torture for me. I've always worked and never had children, so I have no personal experience with breastfeeding. (Even babies make me uncomfortable!)

I have nothing against breastfeeding, and I note the research that finds that it produces healthier babies. I'm glad it's become easier for people to do, but being in the presence of breastfeeding makes me feel uncomfortable and it always will.

Have some considerations of others' feelings. People who are so intolerant of others who experience of discomfort over what they're doing are just the same as those who don't tolerate it in the first place. Take a look around you. Not everyone has to believe the same things, not even all women.

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That is incredibly ignorant
Posted by: NthnBrazil on Aug 10, 2005 12:14 PM   
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It is very easy to pass these kinds of judgements when you have zero facts about the situation. A breastfed baby needs to eat often (more often than a bottle fed baby). Why should nursing mothers recluse themselves so they can feed their baby "discretely" sometimes as often as every 30 minutes?

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» sorry Posted by: NthnBrazil
Too "balanced"
Posted by: M. on Aug 10, 2005 12:18 PM   
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There is nothing great about a balanced discussion of the merits of good and evil.

Not breast feeding is hardly evil, but presenting this issue as a matter of neutral choice about which we should have no opinion really missrepresents the science of the matter.

There are a few very rare medical reasons to avoid breastfeeding. The vast majority of nonbreastfeeding and shortened breastfeeding results from failure to support a behavior that has powerful health benefits for the child.

Reducing this to a matter of supporting whatever choice a woman happens to make, as long as it is "informed", puts it in the wrong framework.

We don't support "informed" smoking... we tolerate smoking because we know we can't stop it... but we don't reduce the choice to a neutral one about which we have no opinion.

Or, for example, feeding your child massive amounts of sugar every day is a choice, even perhaps a "right", but it is not one that opinion writers or public health officials should feel compelled to be neutral about. It has health consequences for the child.

There are strong scientific reasons to have an opinion about the choice to breastfeed, and the choice not to breastfeed.

Since the choice not to breastfeed is influenced by nursing unfriendly hospitals, stigmatizing social attitudes and above all the absence of maternity leave, these should not be treated as neutral factors that lead to reasonable choices, but as problems that influence women to make a decision that is almost always counter to their baby's best interests.

Breastfeeding matters. In the end it is a choice, but it is not a choice without consequences, or a choice that we as a society should have no opinion about.

I find this articles rendering of the issue in terms of "freedom of choice" to be shallow and uninformed.

The fact that people are free to make choices that may negatively impact the long term health of their children, does not mean that we are therefore freed of our obligation to distinguish between better and poorer choices.

The science of child health stringly supports prolonged breastfeeding and it's about time our society, our workplaces, and, yes, opinon writers did so as well.

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Walters didn't say what the article says
Posted by: joannav on Aug 10, 2005 1:56 PM   
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I watched Walters on the View and she said she was being misquoted and that a man sitting close by was the one who was uncomfortable by the breast feeding. Figures, due to the fact that breast feeding was looked down on for so long. Some men just don't understand what those breasts are ultimately for.
Walters also said she felt the woman should cover herself. I have no problem with that, I did it myself. Consideration for others is always best, especially when you are doing something as beautiful as breast feeding your child. You don't want any nervous or hostile energy flowing your way.

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I dont care
Posted by: ILoveyou on Aug 10, 2005 2:02 PM   
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I personally dont care whether a woman is breast feedingor not. I think its up to the individual whether they want to, and at the same time if people dont like it then they are free to move somewhere else. This issue isnt important to me. Its not enough to make me run out and vote for a liberal politician. I dont mind breast feeding mothers, I just dont like liberalism!

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Support the Mother, But Not Necessarily the Decision
Posted by: hovawart on Aug 10, 2005 3:37 PM   
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"whatever the mother's decision, it should be supported as much as possible"

Many make this mistake and confuse supporting and respecting the individual with enthusiastically supporting every decision she or he makes. Most formula feeding decisions are made because of misinformation, and all formula feeding invokes costs--health, economic, and emotional--for the family. Clearly it is only a "good" decision in those very rare cases where medically necessary. However, most people make their decisions based on the best information they have at the time. Parents are not bad because they have been given bad information. We have to be able to separate the victimization of families, who are denied correct information or purposely given false information, yet act in good faith, from the behavior of those corporations, health professionals, and others who provide bad information for their own ends or because they do not care.

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milk
Posted by: john henry on Aug 10, 2005 4:36 PM   
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the baby that breast feed for one year will be healther an they will be standing alot longer that nonbreast feeded child this was proven by isreals miltary about 15 or 20 years ago now if the mother is working in a clean place an she has not used a hole lot of make up that is high in chemicals an she has watched the chemicel in her food for all of the resign of this stuff is in her fat to make milk . breast feed babys will run long an fight longer boys or grils will out perform all ours in the log haul

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education is the key
Posted by: DanaH1976 on Aug 10, 2005 7:25 PM   
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For the woman who tried to breastfeed and quit because of soreness and thinking that her baby wasn't getting enough milk, don't feel bad. You may not have gotten good advice and guidance.

Excessive pain during nursing is usually caused by improper positioning of the baby, which also may cause the baby to not effectively pump out the milk. Believe it or not, most doctors and nurses are untrained in breastfeeding support and don't have a clue how to help a nursing mother. A good lactation consultant or La Leche League leader can help the new mother learn to nurse correctly - it's not an instinctual behavior! You have to learn how.

I was a La Leche League leader for a few years when my kids were little. I can't tell you how many times new moms called the house crying because they were having a hard time. I'd go over there and usually (not always) leave behind a much happier mom and baby. Sometimes all they needed was encouragement; other times it was an adjustment in technique. Even then, nursing didn't work for every mom, and we tried to be supportive of the choices they made.

My point is that new mothers should take advantage of help from people with more experience before giving up on breastfeeding. Having a small baby is hard enough without also having to teach yourself a new skill.

I encourage women to go to La Leche League meetings while they're pregnant. They'll hear about the advantages of breastfeeding, overcoming difficulties, dealing with your other children and family members, the question of nursing in public, and so on. They give out lots of literature on how to do things. The yearly membership is like $30 but you don't have to join, and it's not a cult or anything like that. To find a group near you, go to http://www.lalecheleague.org.

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Breastfeeding in the thirties
Posted by: xiaogao on Aug 11, 2005 6:43 AM   
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I am interested in the writer's assertion that new mothers were seldom seen in public 60 years ago. I am wondering what she bases this assumption on , because my 75 year-old father has told me that during the thirties and forties, it was quite common to see women publicly nursing their babies.

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In our culture breasts are for selling cars, not nourishing babies
Posted by: drSooz on Aug 11, 2005 11:47 PM   
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As a caseworker in the 80's in a local welfare office I have the unpleasant memory of offering a pregnant client information on La Leche Leage, only to hear her boyfriend say, "If you do that I'll never touch you again." To which I was dying to reply, "YOU SHOULD BE SO LUCKY!!" I had to bite my tongue til it bled to remain silent. I discreetly nursed all four of my kids anywhere I went and only once got a negative reaction. I gave them a piece of my mind, as well as a brief "flash" just to be mean. It's our culture, it's how we're raised. (on TV) We're constantly subjected to the double standard of "breasts sell cars, but don't show yours or you're a slut", and we insist that the milk intended for the newborn of another species is necessary for our good health... go figure...

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lawmakers have proposed a number of laws to protect the right to breastfeed in public,
Posted by: Olympiada on Aug 19, 2005 6:04 PM   
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You know I breast fed my child for two years and for reasons of modesty chose to keep it private but I can not believe we live in a country that requires laws to protect nursing mothers. That is plain ridiculous. Now that is misogynist. I do not usually use that word. But to deny a woman the right to feed her child in public? That is insane. La Leche League is a wonderful organization. They helped me get started as a mother. I chose to become a mother out of love but let me tell you being a mother in this country is not easy thing. I was not raised to become a mother. It is the hardest thing I have ever done, raise a child, a girl. And now I am a single mother. This country is not for mothers. It is horrid.

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In the workplace????
Posted by: Kat144 on Sep 1, 2005 8:12 PM   
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Why in the world are women bringing little babies to work?

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