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The Gospel On Gay Marriage
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But hot-button issues like same-sex marriage can't be cast aside at a time when influential religious leaders are rallying the troops for a war against a minority group already suffering the pain of discrimination. Chuck Colson has trumpeted the battle cry by saying that the "number one cultural priority of Christians" should be "stopping the spread of same-sex marriage" and that "pastors, priests, and clergy of all denominations should be leading the charge."
Before dismissing the religious right, progressives may find it helpful to learn more about them -- particularly that group the media lump together as "the evangelicals," a term that has been hijacked from its original meaning of "good news." Because of this, many people now associate the term with wealth, political power, militarism, judgmentalism, intolerance, and an arrogance that is totally contrary to the spirit of the gospel (and contrary to those who retain the original meaning of "evangelical").
The hope of finding open-mindedness within the religious right may seem futile, especially since its prominent spokespersons claim they are being persecuted for their faith whenever their particular constellation of values is questioned. Back in 1985, when the religious right first began increasing its cultural and political influence, I wrote an article suggesting that instead of viewing the conservative Christian movement as a monolithic entity, we need to recognize at least four major categories within the movement:
- Aggressive Combatants, who mobilize their followers to go to battle against whatever they consider to be the current threat (most recently, same-sex marriage);
- Loyal Followers, who consider the Combatants to be their religious authorities, buying their books, tuning in to their broadcasts, accepting their interpretations of the Bible, and responding to their fundraising pleas;
- Thoughtful Questioners, who were drawn to the movement by its emphasis on a personal relationship with God and the importance of the Bible in their lives but are not convinced that all issues are settled or that all the answers are already in;
- Hurting Strugglers, sincere believers who earnestly practiced their faith and followed the rules they had been taught, yet were faced with some circumstance that turned their well-ordered world upside down -- a divorce, a gay child, a pregnant teenager, domestic violence, mental illness, job loss, bankruptcy, a suicide in the family.
What progressives need to recognize is that Thoughtful Questioners and Hurting Strugglers may be more receptive to new ideas than is often realized. Even some Loyal Followers may move over into one of these categories at some point. But to communicate with them, it's important to first acknowledge how much their religion matters to them and then seek out areas of common concern and mutually held values.
Second, an awareness of alternative approaches to biblical interpretation can help progressives resist the temptation to ridicule sincere people of faith as unenlightened "Bible thumpers."
In applying these principles to the same-sex marriage question, the right and left can find common ground in recognizing the human need to belong and the desire for legally conferred kinship status on chosen, committed life partners. We can affirm the message of marriage supporters in their valuing and promotion of marriage, while at the same time challenging the notion that including gays and lesbians in marriage would make heterosexual marriages weaker.
Might not opening marriage to gays instead add weight to the importance of monogamy and the idea that love, commitment and sex belong together in the legally recognized relationship called marriage?
Might not same-sex marriage therefore strengthen the institution as a whole?
Listening to the moving stories of gay and lesbian couples who have longed for the recognition, rights and responsibilities of marriage in their 10, 20, or even 50 years together could counter unfounded conspiracy theories such as James Dobson's charge in Marriage Under Fire that most gays and lesbians don't really want to be married but are actually advancing a gay marriage initiative as part of a 60-year plan to destroy the family.
The right has also framed the religious aspects of the debate by dogmatically asserting that the "Bible condemns homosexuality" -- a statement accepted unquestioningly, repeated in the media, and asserted even in political discourse. Progressives seem to have no way to respond except to toss out the Bible as irrelevant, which turns off many religious people immediately and plays into the hands of those who want discrimination built into the constitution.
It's important for people of faith to know that the Bible doesn't condemn "homosexuality." Neither the term nor the concept was known in biblical times.
Sexual orientation, whether homosexual or heterosexual, has been shown by scientists to be a natural disposition -- a normal variant like handedness. In the few Scripture verses mentioning same-sex acts, the emphasis is on gang rape, exploitation and idolatry. Nothing is said about loving, committed, same-sex relationships. Faulty translations have muddied the waters further.
People of faith on the left and on the right need to find ways to communicate about such matters. Only then can we reach out to one another with open arms rather than tensed muscles or raised fists.
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Posted by: daniel1982 on Jun 16, 2005 2:42 AM
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Oh come on.. No matter what side of the debat you're on, I think we can all agree on the fact that the Bible is not a fan of homosexuality in ANY setting. If you believe otherwise, you're reaching for something that isn't there.
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Posted by: titotitotito on Jun 16, 2005 5:34 AM
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"You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination"
"If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them."
"For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due."
"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God."
"[T]he law is not made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners, for the unholy and profane ... for fornicators, for sodomites, ... and if there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine. ..."
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Posted by: Pepper on Jun 16, 2005 5:42 AM
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I believe its because we have moved away from true moral values and deep cultural and religious standards that kept us from becoming pure animals and made us moral, wise, thoughtful and caring people. To me, that is almost all gone and government has promoted that movement away from those very structures that helped us to retain our "humanity".
Homosexuality is something I don't understand so I won't really comment on it. I don't know if its inherited or nurture.
What I do know is there are many more serious problems in sexual exploitation that should be addressed and are not.
If you have ever heard of the "Franklin Scandel" you would know that child sexual exploitation reached the highest levels of our government rightup to the White house back in the 80's under Bush Sr. (I still have copies of the articles in the Washington Times) and it was so bad that it made Monica Lewinski seem normal. Now there is a 2nd Bush in the White House and it appears this problem has reemerged from his fathers time.
Why aren't the fundamentalists screaming about our children?
Why aren't they cleaning out Washington DC of all the houses of prostitution that have 15 year old boys working there whose services are being used by the powerful men of Washington?
That is what I want to hear outrage over. This other issue just appears to be a distraction to cover up the real evil that pervades the White House currently. Just my Humble opinion.
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Posted by: chitijdth on Jun 16, 2005 6:06 AM
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It is only when either side decides it is their right or mission to impose their beliefs on the other side that democracy fails. A non-believer may feel gay marriage should be permissible, but does not try to force believers to enter such unions. A non-believer may feel that a woman has a right to choose abortion, but does not try to force believers to have abortions. It is only those in the right wing of the Christian Evangelicals that presume to foist their beliefs on everyone else. This is the true danger to a democratic society. This is precisely what fundamentalists in any of the religions – Muslim, Christian, or Jewish – are attempting to do, and it is amazing that so many only see the dangers of theocracy when it is practiced by another religion.
I don’t feel the need to have a dialogue with those who disagree with me, but I do feel the need to protect my rights as well as theirs.
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My point is, we need to get past trying to talk to these fundamentalists and go after the future generations. Lets start teaching them tolerance and pluralism. Despite strong resistance to the Civil Rights movement, the youth of that generation were reached (mostly) and big gains were made. Most of the old timers of that generation still hold their narrow bigoted beliefs--but they're dying off. So will the fundamentalist Christians of today. Lets go for the next generation and leave them behind.
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Posted by: thirdmg on Jun 16, 2005 9:09 AM
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Far more important is what the religious right never mentions about other events in the story, such as Lot's willingness to offer his daughters up for gang rape, or the acts of incest between Lot and his daughters. If this is a passage about moral condemnation of gays, as the religious right would like us all to believe, notice that God never says a word of condemnation against Lot for these other acts, which are all clearly and seriously immoral. It seems that the religious right sees only what it wants to see.
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Posted by: Sojourner on Jun 16, 2005 9:43 AM
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Any religion that can teach us about how to make love last will be the religion of the future. I believe that the statistic that heteros are marrying later is a promising sign, but I doubt that organized religion can take any credit.
When Freud began to treat individual disfunction as a symptom of family disfunction, he had his finger on the pulse. But who knows what love is, except that it is many different things? The power of human sexuality is incredible.
Somehow we have muddled through, but currently we are outstripping our resources and our systems of remediation. If we ever come to understand was sex is, will we also understand what love is?
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Posted by: bonapartist on Jun 16, 2005 11:41 AM
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Personally I am not very religious and have moderately low opinion of Christian churches but I do recognize their social role and prominence. This looks to me as yet another ploy of progressives (read atheist/agnostic liberals) to beat the Christianity over the head with a club.
In all honesty I have nothing against gays and their rights but I have a low opinion of anyone whose primary definition of self starts with describing a sexual preference. I always felt it was kind of degrading to the individuality, after all only humans can think while the sexuality is pretty widespread among different species. I prefer to look at the individual and sexual practices are his/hers private matters and I have no right to poke into them.
Argument about the Bible being actually gay friendly because homosexuality isn’t particularly mentioned is a prime example of sophism. Bible, as any religious text for that matter, can be interpreted in different ways. However all the religions that trace their roots from the Old Testament (Jew, Christians and Muslims), and their numerous denominations, for centuries interpreted that homosexuality was an unnatural sexual practice covered under the sin of sodomy. I am not saying I agree with it but I am stating the facts.
Interestingly enough those religions and denominations and sects spawning from them were often at bloody odds but never questioned this particular element. So now, after a few thousand years, one interested group finds a fresh interpretation of the Bible. Fair enough, however non - religious persons, who usually have little knowledge of the Bible, mostly advocate this interpretation. Their main intellectual justification comes mainly from the ranks of defrocked priests and pastors who are, in essence, apostates to their faiths. There are always exceptions but for every theologian advocating gay friendly approach there will be at least ten who oppose it. Everybody is free to choose its side but the voice of majority is pretty clear on this issue.
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Posted by: bmikkelsen on Jun 16, 2005 11:41 AM
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What the leaders of this movement have cashed in on is peoples' longing for easy, clear-cut, black and white answers. They do this with a talent at 'cutting and pasting' whatever they can find in the Bible to support their point of view, often taken out of context. The truth is there is nothing easy, clear-cut or black and white about the Bible, but by dismissing it out of hand as religious crap, we are feeding millions of well-meaning people to the right-wing religious wolves.
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Posted by: canuckistani on Jun 16, 2005 12:19 PM
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Any group that claims to have a monopoly on truth and fact are liars. Rejecting does not mean that you become a god-less evildoer. Quite the contrary, it allows you to be open to any idea, accept many versions of the same story and live a rather peaceful life actually. As well, it's uncommonly refreshing to do acts of altruism for the sake of the acts, rather than for the sake of doctrine. This does not mean that you are 'alone' in this world. It does not preclude the existence of God. But if God exists, surely you are made to find him/her/it on your own, not through inherited text and borrowed ideology?
I wish you peace and good luck on your decision
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Posted by: Tubeguru on Jun 16, 2005 1:20 PM
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There are however many passages about loving relationships and loving one's fellow human beings. Perhaps they should focus on those...
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Posted by: LMNOP on Jun 16, 2005 3:36 PM
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OK, now that I've learned more about them, can I dismiss them? Look how weak their religion is that it allows the overwhelming majority of them to be selfish, antidemocratic, antiegalitarian, intolerant, hateful, murderous hypocrites while thinking that they are moral. Certainly, if the Universe has one or several creators that still exist, have great power, are aware of and interested in our lives and have a sense of morality with which we can identify, then they could not have written a book as powerless to guide lives as the book that Christians claim comes from such a source.
If the book was anything more than an outdated, ancient mythology, if there was a creature anything like the one their book describes, one who would drown most of the human race for missing the mark, then he would have surely scorched America by now if not the whole world.
And wouldn't an infinitely intelligent entity write a book that was undeniably the work of a divinity. The bible reads EXACTLY like what you would expect primitive people to write. Be good and you'll get infinity goodness for infinity and a million of time. Be a bad boy and get infinity squared badness for an infinity of infinities of time. Grow up!
And how about those 'prophecies'? When the lamb of a thousand feet of clay meets the golden eagle with the lion's head then fire will consume the nation of iniquity for a thousand thousand moons and earthquakes will tremble...or something just as meaningless. Puh-leeze! When an entity with knowledge of the future wants to make a convincing prediction, it'll be at least as good as the one made in the movie "Frequency" when Dennis Quaid's son 'prophecies' the outcome of game five of the as yet unfinished 1969 World Series from 1998:
"Well, game five was the big one. It turned in the bottom of the 6th. We were down 3-0. Cleon Jones gets hit on the foot - left a scuffmark on the ball. Clendenon comes up. The count goes to 2 and 2. High fastball. He nailed it. Weis slammed a solo shot in the 7th to tie. Jones and Swoboda scored in the 8th. We won, Pop."
That's convincing. Nah, I'm gonna dismiss them anyway.
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Posted by: ljsullivan1166@earthlink.net on Jun 17, 2005 1:19 AM
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Biblical scholars who operate with intellectual freedom have known for at least a century that the Bible is the work of humans, not God. With that knowledge, based on sound reasoning and evidence, our Scriptures can be put into the context of a type of literature that is really universal. Far from taking anything away from it, the true riches of the Bible can be uncovered.
Essentially the two main ways of reading this work is 1) literally, the old way; and 2) metaphorically/historically, which makes much more sense of it. Learning that allowed me to focus and to recognize the many contradictions and discrepancies that allow all kinds of conflicting ideas to co-exist in the uncritical mind.
Jesus is the one I chose to follow, as best I can, because he boiled down all the laws and rules to this: "Love the Lord your God with your whole heart and mind and soul and strength, and your neighbor as yourself." He also gave us the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." Over and over and over again, he taught that all those other rules were unnecessary; in fact, he was cited many times by the 'purity cops' for breaking their rules -- like 'no work on the Sabbath'. To that he replied, "The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath." The principle behind this statement is: "The Law was made for man, and not man for the Law." In other words, the Law was a general guideline. If you have to break one or the other, break the law rather than the man.
To those who brought him a woman 'caught in adultery' and who challenged him to see if he would enforce 'the Law of Moses' and order her stoned to death, he replied: "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone." They all melted into the woodwork. Then he gently sent the woman on her way -- "Go, and sin no more." Yes, adultery was, and is, a sin; but it is readily forgiven.
That is the difference between Jesus and Paul.
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Posted by: pappy1 on Jun 17, 2005 2:17 AM
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It seems that it's high-time that we wrench the right's collective nose out of our collective crotch and turn our attention to really important matters.
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Posted by: revchad on Jun 17, 2005 6:31 AM
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I concur that being gay is more fluid than we think and the idea of choice or inborn is limiting. If we have learned anything from bisexuals and transgender folks it is that our sexuality is heavily complex. Isn't this what the Kinsey Institute is all about also. But, my point is that if any of us were to talk about sexuality with someone from the religious right and not talk about sexuality as God's gift, then I think we lose an upper hand because they are much more articulate than most of us. Regardless of whether or not there is a great deal of choice to being gay, my belief is that God creates each of us uniquely. However, as someone who is heterosexual, I have power and privilege because I don't even have to think twice about my sexuality. I am attracted to women...period. For others, this is more complex, but they lose power and civil rights in this country if they explore that because this does not fit with the framework of the those in heterosexist power. I agree sexuality is more complex and beautiful than any of us can imagine, but to frame it as God's gift is to allow the debate to have a human face. Otherwise, the religious right make it into an "issue," and create an "other" out of our sisters and brothers in the gay community. I would rather affirm God's gift to them and give them the support they need....this is all from a theological and biblical perspective in countering the religious right.
Now, for those of you who want resources. I would turn to four or five different people. The first place I would go is to read Mel White's autobiography "Stranger at the Gate." He was a ghostwriter for Falwell and Dobson and others. He came out as a gay man and they betrayed him. It is his story, but there is also some stuff on scripture in there. In other cases, turn to John Boswell's work, Walter Wink, Peter Gomes' "The Good Book", or the book "We were baptized too." I would also suggest the website www.soulforce.org, which is an interfaith group seeking to counter the hate of the right. I have protested with them at the Southern Baptist convention before (my wife is a recovering Southern Baptist.) Keep up your hard work and fight for peace and justice in this world. Contact me anytime at revchad1@earthlink.net
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Posted by: mstenger on Jun 17, 2005 10:00 AM
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Also, for those of you who just don't get it when it comes to gay people, here are some facts:
1)Gay people are a part of the "birds and bees"
2)It isn't just about sex, stupid.
3)We don't fall in love by choice any more than straight people do.
4)The one choice we do make is supposed to be guaranteed by our country and that is "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."
5)We pay the same or more taxes than straights and get fewer benefits
6)Those of you who hate me and refuse to learn about me and see me for the human being with dignity that I am make my life FREAKING MISERABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GAWD!!!!!!!!!! I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE DAY WHEN YOU FREAKING IDIOTS FINALLY DO GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh yeah...A good website out there for a new perspective on things is religioustolerance.org and also hrc.org.
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Someone once said that if you’re going to use the Bible to hit somebody over the head, you’ve got to keep it closed. Some people keep both Bibles and minds closed. Without really studying the Bible, they may either use verses as weapons based only on what they’ve been told the Bible says, or they may dismiss the Bible as irrelevant without even knowing what they are dismissing.
It’s important that we respect each other enough to engage in dialogue. That was what David G. Myers (a social psychologist) and I hoped to encourage when we wrote our new book, “What God Has Joined Together? A Christian Case for Gay Marriage (HarperSanFrancisco). We want people to consider the topic of gay marriage calmly, thoughtfully, and in a spirit of love and humility. We addressed the biblical and theological issues about homosexuality, the scientific evidence about sexual orientation, and psychological information about the “longing for belonging” and how that human need relates to the gay marriage question. We especially tried to find areas of common concern about marriage and family upon which religious conservatives and progressives might agree, hoping to reach out to those in the “muddled middle”-- and then go on from there.
Few people mentioned my article’s point that people won't be open to progressive causes if they feel ridiculed for what they value most highly -- their religious faith. Bible-bashing will just push the Hurting Strugglers and Thoughtful Questioners back into the hands of the right’s most extreme leaders, who warn them that a war is being waged against Christianity and they must take action to protect the schools, the airwaves, the judiciary, marriage, and indeed the nation. Last Sunday’s Washington Post quoted pollster Cornell Belcher as saying that “faith voters” worry about their economic situation and about their children. “They’re not the crazy, right-winger extremist voters. They’re the moms and pops." They could help bring about positive change if we're willing to respect the importance of their faith.
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These four categories are positively insulting -- both to Christians and to the reader's intelligence. The reductionist explanation of Biblical treatment of homosexuality is redundant and oversimplified given that Biblical literalism is a very young movement in the church anyway (less than a century old).
Anybody who tried this at home with their Christian friends is likely to get whacked upside the head with a Bible and rightly so. It has no consideration for the Christian perspective whatsoever (which is not to justify homophobia among Christians nor in any way bolster their position on gay marriage, which is diametrically opposed to my own).
But, c'mon....do you really want a religious conservative to read a few Molly Ivins articles and now decide they know you better than you know yourself?
If you want to understand what Christians think, why don't you try talking to them? They put on their pants one leg at a time just like the rest of us. If you run across a rude or unpleasant Christian (an "aggressive combatant" *eye roll*), then I suggest you just move on and find some nicer friends.
All garbage like this does is confirm Christian suspicions that the left doesn't and never will understand them and justify their fears of the "liberal media".
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Posted by: NoPCZone on Jun 19, 2005 10:14 AM
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Acceptance of or belief in the God of the Bible is a binary decision. It is emphasized that there is ONE way, ONE truth, ONE provision-- all other paths lead away from God's intended path for humankind. Either Jesus Christ was and is exactly who He said He was/is or was a fraud/madman. That's not my take, that's EXACTLY what the Bible claims.
The Bible makes God's view of homosexuality very clear-- it is a sin. That said, it is also clear that it is forgivable. Having homosexual tendencies is not a sin-- acting on them is. Doing so in the full knowledge of God's word is sin both in commission and knowing rejection of God's disapproval.
The Bible teaches that the Christ-follower is to extend grace, mercy and peace to ALL people. The Church (the collective body of Christ-followers) and each Christian is charged with being a living reflection of Jesus Christ. That precludes hate-mongering or advocating the same against homosexuals.
The Church is instructed to discipline anyone who persists in sin. As repentance from known sin is a necessary component of salvation, continued homosexual practice would preclude membership in any local fellowship. Otherwise, practicing homosexuals are welcome to worship and fellowship but cannot join a local church until they have disavowed and turned from this practice. The same would be true of any other persistent lifestyle sin such as adultery.
In conclusion it comes down to this:
1- The Bible teaches that homosexual practice is a sin.
2- Homosexuals are to be welcomed into the fellowship of believers (the Church) but clearly instructed that such conduct is a sin.
3- Continuing unrepentant homosexual practice precludes formal membership, as continued practice of a sin is a sin unto itself.
4- Homosexual practice by a church member should result in church discipline that could result in withdrawal of membership in the local body.
5- Homosexual people, within and outside the church, are to be loved and extended grace, mercy and peace as are all people.
That's what the Bible says. Take it as you will.
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Although they don't seem to be as hateful as some of these kinds of sites, they have invited their readers to visit AlterNet with a web link, and some of those people have felt free to inject their often inflammatory opinions into our conversation.
They, too, allow for readers to register and post on their site. I'm certain that they won't mind our contributions there since they haven't minded sending their readers here.
And, oh yeah, let them know that you'll be chanting and meditating for them just as they have informed us that we will be in their prayers. It should be received in just about the same way. One good turn deserves another.
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Not to mention that the present majority far too often resorted to name-calling and direct insults. Including invoking such charming images as the Third Reich and KKK. Now, in Europe you can get imprisoned for calling someone a Nazi. Then again, as Euro social democrat, I have problems understanding some finer points of American liberalism. Thank you for showing it to me, it was truly enlightening.
In case the present company missed it, most of the dissenting comments were polemical and made for what was taken as a discussion ground. Congratulations on being able to gang upon any dissenter, this kind of language will definitely entice moderates to join your cause and see your points on the issue. I know, I know, the fault is in me, I expected a civilized conversation.
I strongly support all interested parties to visit www.christianitytoday.com and similar sites.
Please do tear each other apart - you truly deserve each other.
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Faith.
It what makes the bible worth reading, even if it's for amusement.
And to my earlier harsh remarks about making gay marriage a crime, to those offended, I sincerley apologize. I also have my reactionary knee-jerk opinions and I am far from perfect. As you know. I've tried to tone down my rhetoric since that first and second insensitive posted comments. I meant no serious harm, yet I do feel bad about huritng anyones feelings. I am not a bigot, just different than you. I wish no harm to anyone. May you all have peace.
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Don't straight people considering marriage - particularly ones in fundamentalist faiths that don't believe in divorce - deserve some assurance that their intended is also straight? Until gay people are free to marry one another, many of them will continue to marry straight people.
Meanwhile, running a Google search for "Was Jesus Gay?" will give you a glimpse of the theological debate now raging.
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Oh come on.. No matter what side of the debat you're on, I think we can all agree on the fact that the Bible is not a fan of homosexuality in ANY setting. If you believe otherwise, you're reaching for something that isn't there.
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"You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination"
"If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them."
"For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due."
"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God."
"[T]he law is not made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners, for the unholy and profane ... for fornicators, for sodomites, ... and if there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine. ..."
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I believe its because we have moved away from true moral values and deep cultural and religious standards that kept us from becoming pure animals and made us moral, wise, thoughtful and caring people. To me, that is almost all gone and government has promoted that movement away from those very structures that helped us to retain our "humanity".
Homosexuality is something I don't understand so I won't really comment on it. I don't know if its inherited or nurture.
What I do know is there are many more serious problems in sexual exploitation that should be addressed and are not.
If you have ever heard of the "Franklin Scandel" you would know that child sexual exploitation reached the highest levels of our government rightup to the White house back in the 80's under Bush Sr. (I still have copies of the articles in the Washington Times) and it was so bad that it made Monica Lewinski seem normal. Now there is a 2nd Bush in the White House and it appears this problem has reemerged from his fathers time.
Why aren't the fundamentalists screaming about our children?
Why aren't they cleaning out Washington DC of all the houses of prostitution that have 15 year old boys working there whose services are being used by the powerful men of Washington?
That is what I want to hear outrage over. This other issue just appears to be a distraction to cover up the real evil that pervades the White House currently. Just my Humble opinion.
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It is only when either side decides it is their right or mission to impose their beliefs on the other side that democracy fails. A non-believer may feel gay marriage should be permissible, but does not try to force believers to enter such unions. A non-believer may feel that a woman has a right to choose abortion, but does not try to force believers to have abortions. It is only those in the right wing of the Christian Evangelicals that presume to foist their beliefs on everyone else. This is the true danger to a democratic society. This is precisely what fundamentalists in any of the religions – Muslim, Christian, or Jewish – are attempting to do, and it is amazing that so many only see the dangers of theocracy when it is practiced by another religion.
I don’t feel the need to have a dialogue with those who disagree with me, but I do feel the need to protect my rights as well as theirs.
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My point is, we need to get past trying to talk to these fundamentalists and go after the future generations. Lets start teaching them tolerance and pluralism. Despite strong resistance to the Civil Rights movement, the youth of that generation were reached (mostly) and big gains were made. Most of the old timers of that generation still hold their narrow bigoted beliefs--but they're dying off. So will the fundamentalist Christians of today. Lets go for the next generation and leave them behind.
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Far more important is what the religious right never mentions about other events in the story, such as Lot's willingness to offer his daughters up for gang rape, or the acts of incest between Lot and his daughters. If this is a passage about moral condemnation of gays, as the religious right would like us all to believe, notice that God never says a word of condemnation against Lot for these other acts, which are all clearly and seriously immoral. It seems that the religious right sees only what it wants to see.
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Any religion that can teach us about how to make love last will be the religion of the future. I believe that the statistic that heteros are marrying later is a promising sign, but I doubt that organized religion can take any credit.
When Freud began to treat individual disfunction as a symptom of family disfunction, he had his finger on the pulse. But who knows what love is, except that it is many different things? The power of human sexuality is incredible.
Somehow we have muddled through, but currently we are outstripping our resources and our systems of remediation. If we ever come to understand was sex is, will we also understand what love is?
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Personally I am not very religious and have moderately low opinion of Christian churches but I do recognize their social role and prominence. This looks to me as yet another ploy of progressives (read atheist/agnostic liberals) to beat the Christianity over the head with a club.
In all honesty I have nothing against gays and their rights but I have a low opinion of anyone whose primary definition of self starts with describing a sexual preference. I always felt it was kind of degrading to the individuality, after all only humans can think while the sexuality is pretty widespread among different species. I prefer to look at the individual and sexual practices are his/hers private matters and I have no right to poke into them.
Argument about the Bible being actually gay friendly because homosexuality isn’t particularly mentioned is a prime example of sophism. Bible, as any religious text for that matter, can be interpreted in different ways. However all the religions that trace their roots from the Old Testament (Jew, Christians and Muslims), and their numerous denominations, for centuries interpreted that homosexuality was an unnatural sexual practice covered under the sin of sodomy. I am not saying I agree with it but I am stating the facts.
Interestingly enough those religions and denominations and sects spawning from them were often at bloody odds but never questioned this particular element. So now, after a few thousand years, one interested group finds a fresh interpretation of the Bible. Fair enough, however non - religious persons, who usually have little knowledge of the Bible, mostly advocate this interpretation. Their main intellectual justification comes mainly from the ranks of defrocked priests and pastors who are, in essence, apostates to their faiths. There are always exceptions but for every theologian advocating gay friendly approach there will be at least ten who oppose it. Everybody is free to choose its side but the voice of majority is pretty clear on this issue.
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What the leaders of this movement have cashed in on is peoples' longing for easy, clear-cut, black and white answers. They do this with a talent at 'cutting and pasting' whatever they can find in the Bible to support their point of view, often taken out of context. The truth is there is nothing easy, clear-cut or black and white about the Bible, but by dismissing it out of hand as religious crap, we are feeding millions of well-meaning people to the right-wing religious wolves.
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Any group that claims to have a monopoly on truth and fact are liars. Rejecting does not mean that you become a god-less evildoer. Quite the contrary, it allows you to be open to any idea, accept many versions of the same story and live a rather peaceful life actually. As well, it's uncommonly refreshing to do acts of altruism for the sake of the acts, rather than for the sake of doctrine. This does not mean that you are 'alone' in this world. It does not preclude the existence of God. But if God exists, surely you are made to find him/her/it on your own, not through inherited text and borrowed ideology?
I wish you peace and good luck on your decision
Jason
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Posted by: Tubeguru on Jun 16, 2005 1:20 PM
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There are however many passages about loving relationships and loving one's fellow human beings. Perhaps they should focus on those...
TG
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Posted by: LMNOP on Jun 16, 2005 3:36 PM
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OK, now that I've learned more about them, can I dismiss them? Look how weak their religion is that it allows the overwhelming majority of them to be selfish, antidemocratic, antiegalitarian, intolerant, hateful, murderous hypocrites while thinking that they are moral. Certainly, if the Universe has one or several creators that still exist, have great power, are aware of and interested in our lives and have a sense of morality with which we can identify, then they could not have written a book as powerless to guide lives as the book that Christians claim comes from such a source.
If the book was anything more than an outdated, ancient mythology, if there was a creature anything like the one their book describes, one who would drown most of the human race for missing the mark, then he would have surely scorched America by now if not the whole world.
And wouldn't an infinitely intelligent entity write a book that was undeniably the work of a divinity. The bible reads EXACTLY like what you would expect primitive people to write. Be good and you'll get infinity goodness for infinity and a million of time. Be a bad boy and get infinity squared badness for an infinity of infinities of time. Grow up!
And how about those 'prophecies'? When the lamb of a thousand feet of clay meets the golden eagle with the lion's head then fire will consume the nation of iniquity for a thousand thousand moons and earthquakes will tremble...or something just as meaningless. Puh-leeze! When an entity with knowledge of the future wants to make a convincing prediction, it'll be at least as good as the one made in the movie "Frequency" when Dennis Quaid's son 'prophecies' the outcome of game five of the as yet unfinished 1969 World Series from 1998:
"Well, game five was the big one. It turned in the bottom of the 6th. We were down 3-0. Cleon Jones gets hit on the foot - left a scuffmark on the ball. Clendenon comes up. The count goes to 2 and 2. High fastball. He nailed it. Weis slammed a solo shot in the 7th to tie. Jones and Swoboda scored in the 8th. We won, Pop."
That's convincing. Nah, I'm gonna dismiss them anyway.
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Posted by: Michiganman on Jun 16, 2005 4:16 PM
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Posted by: ljsullivan1166@earthlink.net on Jun 17, 2005 1:19 AM
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Biblical scholars who operate with intellectual freedom have known for at least a century that the Bible is the work of humans, not God. With that knowledge, based on sound reasoning and evidence, our Scriptures can be put into the context of a type of literature that is really universal. Far from taking anything away from it, the true riches of the Bible can be uncovered.
Essentially the two main ways of reading this work is 1) literally, the old way; and 2) metaphorically/historically, which makes much more sense of it. Learning that allowed me to focus and to recognize the many contradictions and discrepancies that allow all kinds of conflicting ideas to co-exist in the uncritical mind.
Jesus is the one I chose to follow, as best I can, because he boiled down all the laws and rules to this: "Love the Lord your God with your whole heart and mind and soul and strength, and your neighbor as yourself." He also gave us the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." Over and over and over again, he taught that all those other rules were unnecessary; in fact, he was cited many times by the 'purity cops' for breaking their rules -- like 'no work on the Sabbath'. To that he replied, "The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath." The principle behind this statement is: "The Law was made for man, and not man for the Law." In other words, the Law was a general guideline. If you have to break one or the other, break the law rather than the man.
To those who brought him a woman 'caught in adultery' and who challenged him to see if he would enforce 'the Law of Moses' and order her stoned to death, he replied: "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone." They all melted into the woodwork. Then he gently sent the woman on her way -- "Go, and sin no more." Yes, adultery was, and is, a sin; but it is readily forgiven.
That is the difference between Jesus and Paul.
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Posted by: pappy1 on Jun 17, 2005 2:17 AM
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It seems that it's high-time that we wrench the right's collective nose out of our collective crotch and turn our attention to really important matters.
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Posted by: revchad on Jun 17, 2005 6:31 AM
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I concur that being gay is more fluid than we think and the idea of choice or inborn is limiting. If we have learned anything from bisexuals and transgender folks it is that our sexuality is heavily complex. Isn't this what the Kinsey Institute is all about also. But, my point is that if any of us were to talk about sexuality with someone from the religious right and not talk about sexuality as God's gift, then I think we lose an upper hand because they are much more articulate than most of us. Regardless of whether or not there is a great deal of choice to being gay, my belief is that God creates each of us uniquely. However, as someone who is heterosexual, I have power and privilege because I don't even have to think twice about my sexuality. I am attracted to women...period. For others, this is more complex, but they lose power and civil rights in this country if they explore that because this does not fit with the framework of the those in heterosexist power. I agree sexuality is more complex and beautiful than any of us can imagine, but to frame it as God's gift is to allow the debate to have a human face. Otherwise, the religious right make it into an "issue," and create an "other" out of our sisters and brothers in the gay community. I would rather affirm God's gift to them and give them the support they need....this is all from a theological and biblical perspective in countering the religious right.
Now, for those of you who want resources. I would turn to four or five different people. The first place I would go is to read Mel White's autobiography "Stranger at the Gate." He was a ghostwriter for Falwell and Dobson and others. He came out as a gay man and they betrayed him. It is his story, but there is also some stuff on scripture in there. In other cases, turn to John Boswell's work, Walter Wink, Peter Gomes' "The Good Book", or the book "We were baptized too." I would also suggest the website www.soulforce.org, which is an interfaith group seeking to counter the hate of the right. I have protested with them at the Southern Baptist convention before (my wife is a recovering Southern Baptist.) Keep up your hard work and fight for peace and justice in this world. Contact me anytime at revchad1@earthlink.net
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Posted by: mstenger on Jun 17, 2005 10:00 AM
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Also, for those of you who just don't get it when it comes to gay people, here are some facts:
1)Gay people are a part of the "birds and bees"
2)It isn't just about sex, stupid.
3)We don't fall in love by choice any more than straight people do.
4)The one choice we do make is supposed to be guaranteed by our country and that is "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."
5)We pay the same or more taxes than straights and get fewer benefits
6)Those of you who hate me and refuse to learn about me and see me for the human being with dignity that I am make my life FREAKING MISERABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GAWD!!!!!!!!!! I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE DAY WHEN YOU FREAKING IDIOTS FINALLY DO GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh yeah...A good website out there for a new perspective on things is religioustolerance.org and also hrc.org.
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Posted by: Letha Dawson Scanzoni on Jun 17, 2005 3:35 PM
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Someone once said that if you’re going to use the Bible to hit somebody over the head, you’ve got to keep it closed. Some people keep both Bibles and minds closed. Without really studying the Bible, they may either use verses as weapons based only on what they’ve been told the Bible says, or they may dismiss the Bible as irrelevant without even knowing what they are dismissing.
It’s important that we respect each other enough to engage in dialogue. That was what David G. Myers (a social psychologist) and I hoped to encourage when we wrote our new book, “What God Has Joined Together? A Christian Case for Gay Marriage (HarperSanFrancisco). We want people to consider the topic of gay marriage calmly, thoughtfully, and in a spirit of love and humility. We addressed the biblical and theological issues about homosexuality, the scientific evidence about sexual orientation, and psychological information about the “longing for belonging” and how that human need relates to the gay marriage question. We especially tried to find areas of common concern about marriage and family upon which religious conservatives and progressives might agree, hoping to reach out to those in the “muddled middle”-- and then go on from there.
Few people mentioned my article’s point that people won't be open to progressive causes if they feel ridiculed for what they value most highly -- their religious faith. Bible-bashing will just push the Hurting Strugglers and Thoughtful Questioners back into the hands of the right’s most extreme leaders, who warn them that a war is being waged against Christianity and they must take action to protect the schools, the airwaves, the judiciary, marriage, and indeed the nation. Last Sunday’s Washington Post quoted pollster Cornell Belcher as saying that “faith voters” worry about their economic situation and about their children. “They’re not the crazy, right-winger extremist voters. They’re the moms and pops." They could help bring about positive change if we're willing to respect the importance of their faith.
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Posted by: JesseBC on Jun 17, 2005 7:47 PM
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These four categories are positively insulting -- both to Christians and to the reader's intelligence. The reductionist explanation of Biblical treatment of homosexuality is redundant and oversimplified given that Biblical literalism is a very young movement in the church anyway (less than a century old).
Anybody who tried this at home with their Christian friends is likely to get whacked upside the head with a Bible and rightly so. It has no consideration for the Christian perspective whatsoever (which is not to justify homophobia among Christians nor in any way bolster their position on gay marriage, which is diametrically opposed to my own).
But, c'mon....do you really want a religious conservative to read a few Molly Ivins articles and now decide they know you better than you know yourself?
If you want to understand what Christians think, why don't you try talking to them? They put on their pants one leg at a time just like the rest of us. If you run across a rude or unpleasant Christian (an "aggressive combatant" *eye roll*), then I suggest you just move on and find some nicer friends.
All garbage like this does is confirm Christian suspicions that the left doesn't and never will understand them and justify their fears of the "liberal media".
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Posted by: NoPCZone on Jun 19, 2005 10:14 AM
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Acceptance of or belief in the God of the Bible is a binary decision. It is emphasized that there is ONE way, ONE truth, ONE provision-- all other paths lead away from God's intended path for humankind. Either Jesus Christ was and is exactly who He said He was/is or was a fraud/madman. That's not my take, that's EXACTLY what the Bible claims.
The Bible makes God's view of homosexuality very clear-- it is a sin. That said, it is also clear that it is forgivable. Having homosexual tendencies is not a sin-- acting on them is. Doing so in the full knowledge of God's word is sin both in commission and knowing rejection of God's disapproval.
The Bible teaches that the Christ-follower is to extend grace, mercy and peace to ALL people. The Church (the collective body of Christ-followers) and each Christian is charged with being a living reflection of Jesus Christ. That precludes hate-mongering or advocating the same against homosexuals.
The Church is instructed to discipline anyone who persists in sin. As repentance from known sin is a necessary component of salvation, continued homosexual practice would preclude membership in any local fellowship. Otherwise, practicing homosexuals are welcome to worship and fellowship but cannot join a local church until they have disavowed and turned from this practice. The same would be true of any other persistent lifestyle sin such as adultery.
In conclusion it comes down to this:
1- The Bible teaches that homosexual practice is a sin.
2- Homosexuals are to be welcomed into the fellowship of believers (the Church) but clearly instructed that such conduct is a sin.
3- Continuing unrepentant homosexual practice precludes formal membership, as continued practice of a sin is a sin unto itself.
4- Homosexual practice by a church member should result in church discipline that could result in withdrawal of membership in the local body.
5- Homosexual people, within and outside the church, are to be loved and extended grace, mercy and peace as are all people.
That's what the Bible says. Take it as you will.
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Posted by: LMNOP on Jun 19, 2005 11:44 AM
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Although they don't seem to be as hateful as some of these kinds of sites, they have invited their readers to visit AlterNet with a web link, and some of those people have felt free to inject their often inflammatory opinions into our conversation.
They, too, allow for readers to register and post on their site. I'm certain that they won't mind our contributions there since they haven't minded sending their readers here.
And, oh yeah, let them know that you'll be chanting and meditating for them just as they have informed us that we will be in their prayers. It should be received in just about the same way. One good turn deserves another.
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Posted by: bonapartist on Jun 19, 2005 2:48 PM
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Not to mention that the present majority far too often resorted to name-calling and direct insults. Including invoking such charming images as the Third Reich and KKK. Now, in Europe you can get imprisoned for calling someone a Nazi. Then again, as Euro social democrat, I have problems understanding some finer points of American liberalism. Thank you for showing it to me, it was truly enlightening.
In case the present company missed it, most of the dissenting comments were polemical and made for what was taken as a discussion ground. Congratulations on being able to gang upon any dissenter, this kind of language will definitely entice moderates to join your cause and see your points on the issue. I know, I know, the fault is in me, I expected a civilized conversation.
I strongly support all interested parties to visit www.christianitytoday.com and similar sites.
Please do tear each other apart - you truly deserve each other.
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Posted by: apodopa on Jun 19, 2005 5:30 PM
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Faith.
It what makes the bible worth reading, even if it's for amusement.
And to my earlier harsh remarks about making gay marriage a crime, to those offended, I sincerley apologize. I also have my reactionary knee-jerk opinions and I am far from perfect. As you know. I've tried to tone down my rhetoric since that first and second insensitive posted comments. I meant no serious harm, yet I do feel bad about huritng anyones feelings. I am not a bigot, just different than you. I wish no harm to anyone. May you all have peace.
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Posted by: Geni on Jun 19, 2005 8:27 PM
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Don't straight people considering marriage - particularly ones in fundamentalist faiths that don't believe in divorce - deserve some assurance that their intended is also straight? Until gay people are free to marry one another, many of them will continue to marry straight people.
Meanwhile, running a Google search for "Was Jesus Gay?" will give you a glimpse of the theological debate now raging.
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