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My friend Derrick called a few days ago. Weve both gone our separate ways since the days of serving lunch to hungry mobs of soccer moms and senior citizens in a department store café. Me, I got a gig in the non-profit world. Derrick works two jobs and goes to school, and, more and more often these days, is dispatched to drill – weekend trainings for the Marine Corps reserves.
When I left my job at the café, I gave Derrick my number, and told him to call me if he was called to go to Iraq.
Our lives arent exactly parallel, Derricks and mine. Hes a black guy who grew up in a lesser-known town off the San Francisco bay Im a white girl from the Colorado suburbs. Derrick busts his butt to help out his sister, and his mom, but you never hear him talk about it. Hes much more excited to tell you about the latest, greatest comic book or demonstrate the new things his cell phone can do. Hes good-natured and a little crazy, which is probably why we hit it off. But I wouldnt exactly call us close.
After Derrick broke the news that he would be going to Iraq all roads are headed that way is what a lieutenant colonel unofficially told him – I sat down on the concrete steps behind my workplace and thought about the parents, brothers, sisters, wives, husbands, high school teachers, coaches, cousins, ex-girlfriends, professors, and entire communities that feel the impact when a young soldier is sent to Iraq. I wondered about the degree of separation how many people in the U.S. have a connection to someone whos in Iraq, is going to Iraq, was wounded in Iraq, or lost his or her life in Iraq? How long before we all do?
I live in a progressive city, and have mostly radical friends. We make a point to protest the war in Iraq with bumper stickers and T-shirts and we show up to meetings, protests and actively work to bring down the man by questioning things like the military industrial complex. It might be hard for my crew of friends to remember that a lot of the U.S. soldiers serving and dying in combat are our peers. Peers. Most of my friends are under 25, which means a significant number of them graduated from high school the same years we did, or later. Put a uniform on someone and they suddenly seem older, sure. But chances are, whether the soldiers serving in Iraq are pro-Bush or Pro-Kerry (or neither), theyd all probably all rather be home reading comic books and talking on cell phones.
My generation wasnt there to see soldiers returning from the Vietnam War to protest and shouts of baby killer, – a word I now associate with the anti-abortion contingent. And we might be too busy mobilizing against the School of the Americas or fighting sweatshops to get caught up in the socio-political history of recent wars, but were pretty clear about one thing: being anti-war doesnt have to mean being anti-troops.
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The median age of soldiers in Vietnam was 20-21. This time around, the average is slightly higher. But for the most part, the people who fight wars are like me young, ambitious, hoping to do something meaningful with their lives. They might want careers or jobs outside the armed forces, they might want (or already have) families. They might just want to come home and see a hip hop show.
Unfortunately, some soldiers dont get that chance. 1,101 U.S. soldiers have died in Iraq since the beginning of combat (as of Oct. 18, 2004) according to icasualities.org. Nearly 60 percent of those soldiers were 25 years old or younger 637 soldiers. Thats roughly 1,250 moms and dads. About 25% of those troops are married, so thats about 160 spouses. Then theres the brothers, sisters, uncles, cousins
you get the idea. Yes. It could be worse, and, as the Bush administration is constantly reminding me, major combat operations of the past have seen much higher casualty rates. But Im not seeing the grief in the media. And when glimpses do get through, I dont have a frame of reference for that grief.
My generation of activists knows that war is bad, and we know its bad to kill innocent civilians. But we were born during the Reagan administration. We didnt watch our friends coming home in boxes during Vietnam most of us dont even really remember the first Gulf War. And, thanks to Bush, et al, we arent allowed to see the coffins now. The Pentagon and Department of Defense are strictly enforcing a directive that prohibits media coverage of flag-draped coffins and teary-eyed families. We dont see paraplegic 20-year-olds who used to be star athletes, either, which allows us to see the war in abstract terms. We might feel safe discussing Iraq using words like neo-imperialism, globalization and familial vendetta. But I have to wonder, if more of us saw the impact this war was having on the lives and families of people our age in this country, would we be less likely to judge a person on the street wearing fatigues?
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A lot of people, like Lance Cpl. Michael David Gomez, of the U.S. Marine Corps, enlist in the armed forces with parental consent at 17. Michaels sister Marta, a teachers aide from Gualala, Calif., remembers her brothers initial enthusiasm for the military:
He said to me that he absolutely LOVED being a Marine, Marta told me recently in an email. He said they are like a huge family and he had finally found the love and embrace that he had wanted from our parents and in school, but didn't fully get.The military offers housing, a chance to travel the world, funds and scholarships for college, tax-free shopping, in addition to the validation and sense of belonging a lot of young people need but dont get elsewhere. When the threat of guerilla warfare and RPGs seems unlikely, its no wonder so many young people enlist in the armed forces.
Since its 2003 debut, Taking It to the Streets has shown up at MTV's Spring Break, BET's Spring Bling and various NAACP functions This spring, Taking It to the Streets is planning to storm gatherings like Miami's Calle Ocho festival, Black College Reunion in Daytona, Fla., the Black Heritage Fest in New Orleans and the Puerto Rican Day Parade in New York.Incidentally, once youre in the service, hip hop is out. Bill Holland of Billboard reported last year that hip hop acts and Black and Latino performers were far less likely to be asked to entertain the troops on United Service Organization celebrity tours to Iraq. This is interesting, as the percentage of African Americans, Latinos and other people of color in the military is higher than their respective civilian populations.
Nicole Makris, 24, works for the SPIN Project and is a regular contributor to Hyphen Magazine. She is also the associate Publisher for LiP Magazine.
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