Ditching the Lipstick-and-Panties Pitch
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It's election season, and single women are all the rage these days. Pick up your local newspaper or turn on the TV, some reporter will be carrying on about the "Sex in the City" vote. What a difference four years and one close presidential election can make.
Rarely have so many matters of such profound significance been at stake in an electoral decision: the war in Iraq; a massive budget deficit; employment; abortion rights; the moral status of the United States in the world. So it is no wonder that a flock of energized political activists is wooing single women's votes.
And we can indeed make a difference in November. According to the Women's Voices Women Vote project, we could have delivered Al Gore the 2000 election if we just showed up at the voting booth. Sixty-eight percent of married women showed up to vote, compared to just 52 percent of the women who were divorced, widowed, or had always been single.
The combination of startling statistics and the usual need to anoint a new election year demographic has proved irresistible. The media instantly came up with catchy monikers: Sex and the City demographic, lipstick liberals etc. Pollsters like Kellyanne Conway offered advice on how to get us to the polls: "Pretend it's a hair appointment we would not miss." A rash of new organizations with names like Axis of Eve and Running in Heels sprang up across the nation, offering colorful thongs emblazoned with slogans like "Lick Bush" and "Bush Free Zone." Using clever marketing in the service of the deadly serious goal of changing the course of the country, these groups have indeed been successful at attracting attention of both the media and single women.
Yet as a progressive single woman, I am troubled by this kind of hype. The lipstick and panty pitch trivializes and caricatures the very people liberal-leaning activists are out to recruit. To begin with, single women are not all nightclub-hopping twenty-somethings; two-thirds of them are 30 or older. And even those who are young have more pressing concerns than their panties. These women skew toward the lower end of the economic spectrum and are often single moms. They are more worried about making a decent living, having affordable health care and providing for their retirement than missing their manicure.
Yet our politicians continue to view single women as immature pleasure-seeking sybarites or, worse, don't see them at all. Here's Rep. Deborah Pryce, an Ohioan who chairs the House Republican Conference, on why we overwhelmingly vote Democrat:
The political difference between single woman and married women is simple. Married women begin families and look toward their future in terms of physical security, homeland security, and financial security ... and I think President Bush is much more attractive in terms of keeping our children safe and our homeland free from terrorist attack. The Democrats will probably hang their hats on the abortion issue when it comes to single women – that's the group to which that issue is most important.It's that "simple": Married women care about the good of the nation and the family; single women are only interested in getting rid of their unwanted pregnancies.
Bella M. DePaulo is writing a book about the place of singles in contemporary American society.
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