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Promise Keepers: Christian Men's Movement Making a Comeback?

By Bill Berkowitz, AlterNet. Posted July 7, 2009.


The Promise Keepers -- a conservative men's group -- is focusing on women, the poor and Jews.

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If it seems like it was another century, that’s because it was: almost twelve years ago Promise Keepers – then the most visible and audacious of Christian men’s organization – brought nearly one million men to Washington, D.C. to a rally called “Stand in the Gap.” The organization was hotter than the Jonas Brothers are today; okay, well maybe not that hot. The more men – and we are not talking “girly men” here – the Denver, Colorado-based Promise Keepers brought out to football stadiums and sports arenas around the country, the more buzz-worthy it became. And the more buzz-worthy it became, the more the mainstream media glommed onto its every move. The more the mainstream media publicized its work, the more its leadership crowed about its successes.

However, not long after unveiling ambitious plans for growing its operations, the organization imploded; leaders left – including PK founder, former University of Colorado head football coach, Bill McCartney -- staff was laid off, events were cancelled, and the organization’s ambitious goals were deeply downsized. While in 1996, more than 1.1 million men participated in events at stadiums across the country, by 2006, only 132,000 attended 18 conferences.

According to the Associated Press, “Tax forms … show[ed] steadily declining gifts, grants and contributions … - from $15 million in 2002 to $9 million in 2005, the most recent year for which figures are available.”

For some, the only visible evidence that the organization actually existed was a Promise Keepers mug or key chain buried in a trunk in the garage. Or, perhaps one might be able to hustle up a dog-eared copy of New Man, the group’s flagship publication.

Promise Keeper makeover?

"It's not about changing Promise Keepers. We're just calling men to rally around the righteous as the days get more difficult." – Bill McCartney

In September of last year, AP reported that Coach McCartney had returned to the organization as chief executive officer and chairman of the ministry. The group also announced that former Promise Keepers executive Raleigh Washington would serve as the organization’s president. During his time away from PK, McCartney founded an organization called “The Road to Jerusalem,” whose purpose, the Los Angeles Times reported in 2006, was “to hasten the end times.” “The Bible says Jews will be brought to jealousy when they see Christians and Jewish believers together as one — they’ll want to be a part of that. That’s going to signal Jesus’ return,” he pointed out.

Now, twenty years after its founding, Promise Keepers is gearing up for a 20th anniversary celebration scheduled for July 31- August 1 at Folsom Field on the campus of the University of Colorado in Boulder. According to its website, Promise Keepers will be “returning to its roots,” by holding a one-time-only day-and-a-half conference titled “A Time to Honor.”

And, “For the first time, men and women are invited.”

“This year we are calling men to bring the women in their lives. To celebrate our 20th year of ministry, we are called to do three things: honor our wives, daughters, and sisters, be a tangible blessing to the poor and oppressed, and embrace our Messianic Jewish brothers as our spiritual fathers in the faith.” Although the price of the event is $59.00, PK announced its intention not to turn anyone away, making registrations available for “what you can afford.”

In a letter to supporters, McCartney pointed out “that God has called PK on an extraordinary journey of change in 2009. … [during which] we'll see the beginnings of the greatest move of God in our lifetimes -- a move God showed me recently after a five year pursuit to learn his will.” According to McCartney, the goal is “to revisit three key priorities embraced by the first century church. These priorities are also embraced in the Seven Promises of a Promise Keeper”:

* Proverbs 31:31: They celebrated virtuous women at the city gates. We expect men to invite thousands of women to "A Time to Honor." This will be powerful. We need to rally around women and raise the bar for what it is to be virtuous. The next generation must have a true model for womanhood.

* Acts 2:43-48: They shared their resources equally. As the days get more difficult, the church that is truly anointed will be one that opens its arms to the less fortunate. We want to catalyze men to serve the poor, the oppressed and the needy through their local church.

* I Corinthians 4:15: Honoring the Spiritual Fathers of the Faith. Paul said that though we may have countless teachers in the faith, we will not have many fathers. And he became our father through the Gospel. We want to honor the Jewish Believers who are the spiritual fathers of our faith.

"The ministry has been on a downward spiral. Our staff and our resources are really limited," said McCartney. "We felt like we wanted to have all hands on deck for the Boulder event, and we feel like it will relaunch the ministry."

“It certainly seems that the PK are using their 20th anniversary as an opportunity to revive the men's movement, seen most prominently in their reference to Proverbs 31, one of the key verses of Scripture cited by members of the self-described Christian "patriarchy" movement, which advocates strict adherence to biblical gender roles,” Kathryn Joyce, the author of “Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement” (Beacon Press, 2009), told AlterNet.


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Satan is coming! Hide under your beds!
Posted by: Spot on Jul 7, 2009 12:29 AM   
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"The book chronicles 1,900 years of how Satan has done everything possible to divide Jewish and gentile believers"

Who would have thought that Satan was also called The Pope?

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I'm wondering...
Posted by: adp3d on Jul 7, 2009 2:00 AM   
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...which woman in Sen. Ensigns life will he bring along? But seriously, this group would have more credibility if it was to turn to real worldly problems by using the strength of its numbers to force legislation that would help families in this time of economic depression.

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How do Promise Keepers Force Compliance from Wives?
Posted by: Bright Penny on Jul 7, 2009 3:36 AM   
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It is my understanding that Promise Keepers are supposed to go home from their inspiring meetings and tell their wives that they are so sorry that they have not done their duty and been the man of the house and forced their wives to be submissive to them as they are submissive unto God.

I asked a Promise Keeper once how they were supposed to deal with wives who received this announcement with gales of laughter and just kept laughing. He became angry and said that he "hoped that the women would listen to reason." I said, "No, you have not answered my question. Do you beat them into submission or kill them if they just keep laughing." He turned on his heel and walked away, and I never did learn how their position as head of the house with submissive, Stepford-like wives was to be achieved if the Promise Keepers were ignored or resisted.

Can you imagine what a chill this would put on a personal relationship that had previously been a loving and equal partnership?

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» It's self evident Posted by: wolfgangmo75
lighthouses are more useful than christian movements or churches
Posted by: masthead on Jul 7, 2009 4:03 AM   
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One hand wielding a hammer...
Posted by: Deke on Jul 7, 2009 4:22 AM   
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...accomplishes more than ten thousand hands clasped together in prayer.

There is no god. Humanity cannot advance until we acknowledge that.

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» RE: One hand wielding a hammer... Posted by: fred_53_99
» RE: One hand wielding a hammer... Posted by: Sister_Lauren
Jesus walked around with 12 dudes
Posted by: fred_53_99 on Jul 7, 2009 5:36 AM   
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Jesus walked about , preached to the the lowely. He healed the sick , fed the hungry. Then he died for the sins of the world.
Now all this was done without a stadums, rallies.or mega churches. No one was turned away. While dying on the cross, he was still forgiving those who killed him and the muderer who was nailed next to him. Do you see any of this is these folks?

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» RE: Jesus walked around with 12 dudes Posted by: Sister_Lauren
The Beast Reawakens
Posted by: nha16 on Jul 7, 2009 6:33 AM   
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Humanity will never purge itself of this element that is a mix of superstition and violent dissatisfaction. Of course we are doomed because of the self-fulfilling prophecy of this emotionally underdeveloped group. They intend to destroy the world, and they've got a pretty good start.

I sincerely wish that their God would just take them all to "heaven" now so the rest of us could get to work on saving our abused home. I've come to despise these ignorant bullies and all their idiotic superstitions.

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» RE: The Beast Reawakens Posted by: Aquinas
Uber-xtians can never be "friends with the Jews"
Posted by: zooeyhall on Jul 7, 2009 6:47 AM   
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Jewish people are deluding themselves when they somehow think they can form an alliance with right-wing "end times" types of xtians such as the Promise Keepers.

To the "Rapture Ready" crowd, Jews are only a component to bring about the twisted end-of-the-world "philosophy" that these nuts indulge in. They are a means to an end to bring about God's Own Kingdom on Earth.

Like one of these xtian millenialists once told me: "We need the Jews back in Israel to fulfill prophecy. Jesus can burn 'em up afterwards!"

To the Promise Keepers, Jews are only on this earth to be converted to Jesus. Woe to those who refuse.

P.S. I was brought-up an ELCA Lutheran, but I am currently inactive in the church.

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Good Lord!!!
Posted by: Birdland on Jul 7, 2009 7:38 AM   
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..."hasten end times"??? Is that what McCain meant when he sang, "bomb,bomb,bomb,bomb,bomb,Iran? These folks are true believers of the NeoCon death wish for this planet and they do everything they can to destroy any and all who don't believe as they do. Christ was a man of peace and love, so who or what is it they worship?

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» RE: Good Lord!!! Posted by: fred_53_99
They are "messianic Jews"
Posted by: tulugaq on Jul 7, 2009 7:41 AM   
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The "rabbis" cited in this article are actually ministers to "messianic Jewish" congregations.

As a VERY secular Jew myself, I am offended -- indeed, sickened -- by these so-called "messianic Jews" who are neither. They are supposedly Jews who have "seen the light" and accepted Jesus as their messiah. In other words, Christians. They maintain the language of Judaism, but practice something subversively other.

I have an in-law who is a member of one of these congregations. She was never Jewish.

I have to go throw up now.

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» What's your point? Posted by: tulugaq
» RE: What's your point? Posted by: Aquinas
» Not true Posted by: BreeMass
» RE: Not true Posted by: DaBear
No Longer Quivering ‹(ô¿ô)›
Posted by: deni_haven on Jul 7, 2009 8:39 AM   
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"We need to rally around women and raise the bar for what it is to be virtuous. The next generation must have a true model for womanhood."

As a "Proverbs 31" woman who submitted to my husband's "headship" ~ hoping and praying that through my obedience, he would become a true leader of our home ~ worthy of the respect and honor he demanded from me and the children ~ until my oldest daughter just could not live within the restraints of "true womanhood" and tried to kill herself ~ this statement just pisses me off.

No Longer Quivering

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WE'RE COMING UNGLUED !
Posted by: VZEQICVA on Jul 7, 2009 8:47 AM   
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Sarah Palin, Abortion parties now this. The whole idea is nothing more that a way to gather people for reasons that are unclear. By hiding it under the Religon Umbrella, they avoid taxes. We seem to have an over abundance of Americans with time on their hands. They are self absorbed and in need of feeling important. At a time when hate groups are very real, I have some questions here and one request. The organization's by laws should be public information and published along with names of donors, trustees, etc. before they get permission to hold any events regardless of their stated "noble purpose". Thanks, ANNA

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I really wish...
Posted by: BreeMass on Jul 7, 2009 9:50 AM   
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...that if Christians (not all, just a small segment) wanted to recruit Jews to their ranks, they would just be honest about it instead of spouting this "messianic Jew" nonsense. You are either Jewish or Christian and you can't be both.

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faux manhood
Posted by: DaBear on Jul 7, 2009 1:15 PM   
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The whole PK movement is a sham thing... it's part of the whole evangelical urge to create an alternative world in which to live and it comes from a place of emotional impotence and incompetence, just like all fundie religionist endeavors.

Any kind of gendered essentialist movement has a limit, however, even the "secular" kind. I've learned a ton from mythopoetic male essentialists in this era of gender redefinition and (hopefully) reconstruction, but it's still limited and limiting. It's the 21st century and so much more is required for a decent, fully enlightened gender reconstruction.

On a side note: The arguments up thread about "messianic Jews" and that they're xtians is about as intelligent as those that argued for the "drop of blood" criteria for native people. jeebus frak, it's time to get rid of such stupidity. Ethnicity is ethnicity, and it's so way overblown these days, so mellow out and deal with it.

Instead, judge the "messianics" on their lens and their focus... amongst the ethnically Jewish element in the Messianic community there is a growing minority that are going away from the Xtian lens and focus and reinterpreting and reconstructing their movement with a Jewish lens and focus, even to the point where the "jesus/Yeshua" element is rather muted if not excised from their rubric. They're just NOT a monoculturally Xtian hyrbid group anymore.

The bottom line really is, why is everyone so concerned with who is Other.... it's the 21st century, time to recognize reality, we are ALL US. Period.

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» Who is a Jew? Posted by: tulugaq
"power keepers"
Posted by: BettynotWilma on Jul 7, 2009 2:42 PM   
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Using biblical teachings and interpretations to keep women in a role of submission...oy!

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» Touche Posted by: MartianBachelor
How can I get in on this scam?
Posted by: hurricane hugo on Jul 7, 2009 8:45 PM   
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any advice would be appreciated. thx!

#@!

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It'll never end
Posted by: willymack on Jul 7, 2009 9:25 PM   
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As long as orgainzed religions are given a tax-free ride, shelded from scrutiny and criticism, and accorded undeserved respect and deference, they'll be a threat to what the Founders sought, namely a SECULAR society without any interference from ANY religious group. The First Amendment is as much about freedom FROM religion as it is freedom OF religion. This is stated, free of any ambiguity or ifs, ands, or buts. If you don't like it, you can always leave. There's no Iron Curtain here, yet.

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God says it is OK to question Him.... so go for it.
Posted by: carl baydala on Jul 7, 2009 9:26 PM   
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I have often wondered why Christians are so faithful and so dutiful to their leadership. How does something like that happen I often ask myself? The best answer that I can provide is that the indoctrination of children by Christian leaders is so good that it produces non-thinking and subservient followers. Believing in God in America therefore, implies a certain amount of loyalty and trust to those people in authority. That is why American politicians like to pretend that they are Christians so as to gain the confidence of the gullible electorate. Can we blame the sad state of America and its image in the world on the Christians themselves? No, but we can certainly point to one problem in the nation that needs repair before conditions will change for the better. What about the old maxim about don't believe everything you see and hear? Do they teach these things in the Christian schools? Apparently not. Men like George Bush honed in on the evangelical Christian, for example, because he knew that they were easy pickins. If you are a Christian and want your country to succeed don't you think it would be in your best interest to question the authorities in your life once in a while? I would call that self-reliance and believing in one's self before anything else. Even God would probably say that that is OK, so go for it before it is too late already.

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Beware
Posted by: chirho33 on Jul 7, 2009 9:41 PM   
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As it is written: beware the Promise Keeper for he is a dangerous and spiteful man. More of the same evangie-fundie nonsense but each incarnation becomes more and more subversive. Do not be fooled: Promise Keepers is firmly rooted in misogyny and homophobia. What men, in general (and "christian" men, in particular), do not get is that in the natural order of things, men serve one purpose and one purpose only: procreation. Otherwise, a wise woman can do anything else a man can do, which makes men pretty useless in the natural order of things.

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» Congratulations Posted by: St. Luke
Can't Be
Posted by: jadedhope on Jul 8, 2009 10:50 AM   
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If they're promise keepers they can't be Republicans.

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Socialism?
Posted by: jadedhope on Jul 8, 2009 10:52 AM   
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Acts 2 sounds an awful lot like socialism. Can't have that.

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OH PLEASE
Posted by: osd on Jul 10, 2009 11:36 AM   
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So how can so many insecure sack draggers come out of an era of having control over the world for the last 2000 plus years? These men are scarey people. Abusive, controlling, never be happy with there lot in life unless they are obeyed. Enough will never be enough. If they wish to meet there maker they should cut there own throats and make the trip. These are the same kind of scary men that kill there children and wives then kill themselves. I wish they did not feel the need to be so controlling that they have to take everyone in there lives with them when they decide to checkout.

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Numen, Old Men
Posted by: supersensible on Jul 31, 2009 8:32 PM   
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See "Numen, Old Men: Contemporary Masculine Spiritualities and the Problem of Patriarchy" for an extended critique of how men's ministries like PK are operating these days: http://tinyurl.com/desl9s

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