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Why Zerlina Maxwell Is Almost Right About Teaching Men Not to Rape

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Written by Tara Murtha for RH Reality Check. This diary is cross-posted; commenters wishing to engage directly with the author should do so at the original post.

Last week, Democratic strategist, writer, and rape survivor Zerlina Maxwell went on The Sean Hannity Show and argued that men and boys should be trained not to rape. Maxwell was viciously attacked by conservatives following her appearance. But if there's any problem with Maxwell's argument, it's not that it went too far -- it's that it could have gone even further.

"I don't think we should be telling women anything. I think we should be telling men not to rape women and start the conversation there for prevention," Maxwell said on Hannity's show. "You're talking about it as if there's some faceless, nameless criminal, when a lot of times it's someone that you know and trust."

"Women need to know that these situations arise," responded Hannity, apparently unaware that women know all too well that rape is a constantly looming threat. It affects our decisions on a daily basis: when and where to jog, when to walk with our keys in between our knuckles, and when to hop out of a cab a block from home if the driver gives us the creeps.

Maxwell was on the show to address the newest twist in the ever-misinformed public conversation about rape. The subject was the role of firearms in rape prevention on college campuses -- a hot topic since the Colorado state legislature has been wrestling with HB 1226, a proposed bill that would ban concealed weapons on campus. ( The sponsor spiked the bill after the hubbub surrounding Maxwell's appearance.)

Maxwell argued that, while problematic on a several levels, the argument that women can prevent rape by packing heat is primarily a failure because it is not rooted in the reality of campus rape.

"I want women to be able to protect themselves, yes, but I want women to not be in this situation," said Maxwell.

"Knowing there are evil people, I want women protected, and they've got to protect themselves," responded Hannity.

Maxwell doubled down: "Tell men not to rape."

Glenn Beck's The Blaze called her argument "bizarre." But it's disingenuous to suggest that women must choose between being armed or being raped. Saying that a woman should be able to pack heat for self-protection is one thing. But self-defense is not the same thing as rape prevention -- and carrying a gun certainly doesn't guarantee defense against rape.

"If firearms are the answer, then the military would be the safest place for women," said Maxwell. "And it's not."

For her audacity, Maxwell received a torrent of abusive tweets. These Twitter users said she should be gang-raped and that her throat should be slit. They called her a "nigger." Many others simply insisted on perpetuating a false, twisted representation of her argument: Zerlina Maxwell believes women should be raped instead of using a gun on a rapist.

So it's come to this: We now must add carrying a gun to our victim-blaming checklist. "She wasn't carrying a pistol; she must've wanted it."

As if that list wasn't already long enough.

Maxwell is right, of course. The only problem with her argument is that it didn't go far enough. For men and boys to be taught not to rape, they have to first learn what rape is.

 

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