Teach Your Children Well: Men Must Be Leaders in Changing the Culture of Abuse
We have seen much -- and much-deserved -- criticism of the mainstream media coverage of the Steubenville rape verdict. Some reporters, notoriously, have focused on what "good students" the convicted young men are and what "bright futures" had been squandered by their actions. While these may have been misguided analyses of the verdict, the outrage stems from the fact that such comments are part of a broader social narrative.
The lack of discourse and concern for the future of the Steubenville victim points to a deeper social problem; it's a double-down on blaming the victim. Even identifying her as the "accuser" positions her as the one who was imposing upon her assailants. The reality is that her future and her life have been tragically altered by the actions of several boys. She deserves the love and compassion of us all who hope for a just and loving society.
The future of the perpetrators was tragically altered by their own actions. They must own that.