Right-wing Focus on the Family's Chilling New Agenda on "Marriage Defense"
Written by Vyckie Garrison of No Longer Quivering for RHRealityCheck.org - News, commentary and community for reproductive health and justice.
So ~ the "refocus" of FOTF is shifting away from opposing same-sex marriage and instead focusing on making it more difficult to obtain a divorce.
Does anyone else think this is scary? ... and I was seriously pissed when I read Jim Daly's remark, "... so it's not just 'we don't like each other any more.'" WTF? What woman is ever so flippant about divorce?
Truthfully ~ filing for divorce for me did mean a major step down financially ~ my income and assets took a huge hit ~ and we actually were already living close to poverty level before the divorce. BUT ~ IT WAS SO TOTALLY WORTH IT!!!!!! I'll take poverty over abuse any day.
If FOTF and similar "pro-family" organizations succeed in reducing the Christian divorce rate to 5% ~ that's going to represent a huge increase in misery for a lot of Christian wives who are already seriously oppressed in their "traditional" marriages ~ with husband as patriarchal head of the home and wife as subservient "helpmeet."
These women do not need divorce to be more difficult ~ it's already almost impossible to leave an abusive marriage when it's supposedly God's will and the domineering man is simply fulfilling his biblical role as head of the home.
Daly's thinking is that by reducing the divorce rate among Christians and holding up the "Biblical family" as the key to marriage "success," the secular world will have to admit that God's way is truly the best way ~ and somehow, that's supposed to convince gays to repent of their deviancy, I guess. Ugh. As though the only reason gay people are gay is because they've never seen a long-lasting heterosexual marriage. ... Read more