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Breaking: Turns Out Women Are Complex Beings

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What we learned from watching the Super Bowl: women are frigid, scoldy bitches, unless you drink beer. What we learn from most media analysis of studies of women's (waning?) libido is often -- if less uncreative and nasty -- equally reductive.

How refreshing, then, to read, in yesterday's Washington Post, about Daphne Miller, M.D.'s thoughtful consideration -- and successful treatment -- of her 47-year-old patient's complaint of waning desire. Her point, however, is not her success; it's that when it comes to finding a "cure" for stalled libido (exercise? counseling? drugs?) one woman's mrrrrrrow! is another's meh. Dr. Miller writes: "A woman's sexual experience depends on a complex interplay of her neuroendocrine system, her multiple sex organs and any number of social circumstances, and it stands to reason that there might be many places where the process can go awry." In other words: women are complex! Also, a unicorn! Brava.

Bonus quote from Rosemary Basson, director of the Sexual Medicine Program in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver. "Look," she explained to Miller, "if there was a drug that was so potent that it could overcome all misgivings we have about ourselves, our sexual image, our uncertainty about our sexual partners, the kids banging at our bedroom door, you could not make it legal. It would be slipped into drinks. What are people looking for?"

This article was originally published at BreakupGirl.net.