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Unprotected Sex: Abstinence Education's Main Accomplishment
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It was about then that social conservatives -- fed up with sex, drugs, rock 'n' roll, divorce, Roe v. Wade, women surging into the work force and who knows what else -- began organizing politically to stamp out all this threatening change. They failed. But eventually they did succeed in imposing their prescription -- abstinence-only sex education that studies have repeatedly shown doesn't work -- on the one group of sexually active people most in need of hard information and least likely to respond to harangues: teenagers.
It is widely known that teenage birth and pregnancy rates, which dropped dramatically between 1991 and 2005, are now climbing. By tracking changes in reported contraceptive use among sexually active high-school students, researchers at Columbia University and the Alan Guttmacher Institute, which studies sexual health, have identified as the leading culprit a drop in the use of birth control -- specifically condoms. The team studied trends in teen sexual activity and contraceptive use between 1991 and 2007. During most of this period, the level of sexual activity reported by teenagers in routine surveys overseen by the Centers for Disease Control remained largely unchanged. But during a crucial period -- identified in the study as between 1991 and 2003 -- the use of condoms rose dramatically, climbing from 46.2 percent in 1991 to 63.0 percent in 2003. Then a perceptible decline in the use of condoms began, with 61.5 percent of students reporting condom use in 2007. "These behavioral trends are consistent with the 2006 and 2007 increases in the teen birth rate," the study published in the July issue of the Journal of Adolescent Health says. "They may well portend further increases in 2008."
The decline in contraceptive use may cheer those who have promoted faith-inspired school curriculums that refuse to even mention birth control and, in some cases, specifically emphasize that condoms can fail. True enough.
But now we have sad and clear evidence that political foolishness among adults is leading to foolish and harmful behavior among kids. Who could reasonably want more teen pregnancies, more abortions among teenagers, more unmarried mothers, more babies born with greater health risks and with the sorely limited economic prospects that burden the children of young, single mothers? No one would dare promote such a policy. Yet these are the results of our recent national sex-education policy, which was based on religious faith, not science, and put political gamesmanship ahead of public health.
President Barack Obama's budget would eliminate funding for abstinence-only education programs that show no results in changing teenagers' behavior. That's a proper step, but only a first one. The same researchers who documented the drop in condom use link the decline in part to waning public concern about transmission of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. The clear increase in the proportion of teenagers using condoms came during years when public health and media messages about the dangers of HIV were at a height. The more recent trends, the researchers write, "may suggest faltering of HIV prevention efforts among U.S. youth." That is a dire warning of tragically diminished futures and early deaths among a generation that shouldn't be condemned to such suffering.
In the past few months, we've experienced near hysteria over swine flu and almost constant media attention to scares about tainted food. These are genuine health hazards -- but they aren't necessarily deadly, nor do they affect nearly as many people in the United States and around the world as does AIDS. The difference, of course, is that you get HIV from having sex or using drugs intravenously, not from unwittingly eating a bad burger or sitting next to a flu carrier.
You can argue, based on hard data, that when it comes to teenagers and sex, good policy and genuine leadership get better results than moralizing or ignoring signals that an upsurge in HIV infections may emerge. The tragic lesson of the earliest days of the AIDS pandemic is that squeamishness is no substitute for common sense.
Marie Cocco's e-mail address is mariecocco(at)washpost.com.
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This is a strong statement and I'd like to
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Our First Amendment as now interpreted is increasingly toxic to our society. Hate-mongers and religious charlatans thrive on it. War-mongering is a full-time job for hundreds of right-wing broadcasters. Scare-mongering and fraud are a full-time job for hundreds of religious broadcasters. No wonder our country just doesn't work anymore.
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I think they just don't see it that way. If more teenagers promise to abstain, the religious right succeeds. That's all they need. They want the symbolism, the ceremony, the string rings or the daughters promising to remain Dad's property until God sends a good man to take ownership.
If the statistics are then changed by a good number of those teenagers breaking the promises (surprise) and having unprotected sex and getting diseases and pregnancies and abortions, those are simply the failings of individuals straying from the path.
I'm sure that in their mind, "abstinence" works very well. It is irrelevant to them that so little abstinence is actually taking place.
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Ted Bundy's wife: "I want sex"
Ted: "You mean WITH somebody?"
Too bad a lack of intellgence isn't directly proportional to sterlity; the dumber you are, the more likely that you can't procreate.
The next best thing is EDUCATION, something sadly lacking in a nation of proud, arrogant ignoramuses.
Of course, this is being resisted by religion-besotted nitwits and their stooges, the rethugs.
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Yes it is true that the ONLY 100% safe method of Birth Control is Abstinence . However the spirit is willing but the Flesh is weak and for those times an alternative is needed . It is unfortunate that many religious leaders would seem to hold the idea that those engaging in illicit sex should be PUNISHED . They oppose Gardasil because it may encourage teen age sex . Here's a CLUE fellows being a teen ager encourages teen age sex . In fact today there is frequently preteen sex as kids mature earlier and earlier
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I'm not against teaching abstinence, but I am against teenagers, especially those women of color, not being taught about their bodies and about diseases that they could get. Over 50% of Latinas become pregnant before 20. I'm all for doing what you want with your body, but when the statistics are that high in comparison to other so-called ethnic groups, that's ridiculous. It really upsets me that so many girls give up on school and furthering their education because they have a child. And no, I'm not saying having children at an early age is all bad, but think of the woman's choices and struggles afterwards. Many women don't regret their kids (and they shouldn't) but they do wish they would have waited until they were secure.
There are too many times I have seen the girls at my high school struggle just to graduate because they had to work, take care of their child, and go to school. This is not a coincidence, or just about our culture. It is about the lack of education regarding our sexual health in not only low-income schools, but even in "good" schools. Parents need to stand up for better sex ed, for their kids' sake.
In many Latino families, having a child is a norm expected before age 20. I have been asked when I would be getting married and having a child. I usually answer with "Well...after I get my PhD". What saddens me is that because I am a Latina, other Latinos don't automatically assume that I will wait to have children after I get my education. Is this all to blame on the Latino culture? No, because even if some parents did not have that expectation, they could inadvertently expect to remain in the short end of the stick when it comes to their children's health.
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I took both grade 5 classes on a boat trip and some a the kids were laughing at a condom floating in the water.. The other class has a younger teacher... maybe 40... and for his sex ed classes he just calls in a public health nurse who talks to them about the need for deoderant and frequent bathing.
So a kid from that class sez."whats that?'
Another kid sez, "It's a condom"
So the first kid repeats... "what's that"
That, unfortunately is the level of sex education most people can expect for their kids.
I live in a mostly Catholic/Anglican community.. and in the 20 or so years I have been doing extensive sex education I have only had one complaint. A couple wanted to meet with me and the principal because I had been talking about condoms in class... they were very shocked. My boss excused herself and came back 5 minutes later with a copy of the health ed curriculum. She handed it to them, let them look at it for a few minutes and then excused herself.
A lotta my curriculum includes lies you will be told by your friends. They will tell you they have more experience than you do, they will tell you everyone is doing it, they will tell you that they only want sex to show how much they love you, and they will tell you that you don't need to worry about condoms.. And at least 90% of all of it is lies.
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» It doesn't work
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» It did for me but then I was different I suppose.
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This is a strong statement and I'd like to
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» Just google it. The studies are numerous and conclusive
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Posted by: Moonray on Jul 2, 2009 4:28 AM
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Our First Amendment as now interpreted is increasingly toxic to our society. Hate-mongers and religious charlatans thrive on it. War-mongering is a full-time job for hundreds of right-wing broadcasters. Scare-mongering and fraud are a full-time job for hundreds of religious broadcasters. No wonder our country just doesn't work anymore.
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» how do you separate the wheat from the chaff?
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» Real problem is religious manipulation
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» RE: eal problem is misinformation is protected speech
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» RE: eal problem is religion is divide the world and conquer, any questions?
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» Anti-human?
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» Good post jmmartin, nice to hear from those who 'get it'.
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Posted by: MT512 on Jul 2, 2009 7:24 AM
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I think they just don't see it that way. If more teenagers promise to abstain, the religious right succeeds. That's all they need. They want the symbolism, the ceremony, the string rings or the daughters promising to remain Dad's property until God sends a good man to take ownership.
If the statistics are then changed by a good number of those teenagers breaking the promises (surprise) and having unprotected sex and getting diseases and pregnancies and abortions, those are simply the failings of individuals straying from the path.
I'm sure that in their mind, "abstinence" works very well. It is irrelevant to them that so little abstinence is actually taking place.
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Ted Bundy's wife: "I want sex"
Ted: "You mean WITH somebody?"
Too bad a lack of intellgence isn't directly proportional to sterlity; the dumber you are, the more likely that you can't procreate.
The next best thing is EDUCATION, something sadly lacking in a nation of proud, arrogant ignoramuses.
Of course, this is being resisted by religion-besotted nitwits and their stooges, the rethugs.
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Yes it is true that the ONLY 100% safe method of Birth Control is Abstinence . However the spirit is willing but the Flesh is weak and for those times an alternative is needed . It is unfortunate that many religious leaders would seem to hold the idea that those engaging in illicit sex should be PUNISHED . They oppose Gardasil because it may encourage teen age sex . Here's a CLUE fellows being a teen ager encourages teen age sex . In fact today there is frequently preteen sex as kids mature earlier and earlier
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I'm not against teaching abstinence, but I am against teenagers, especially those women of color, not being taught about their bodies and about diseases that they could get. Over 50% of Latinas become pregnant before 20. I'm all for doing what you want with your body, but when the statistics are that high in comparison to other so-called ethnic groups, that's ridiculous. It really upsets me that so many girls give up on school and furthering their education because they have a child. And no, I'm not saying having children at an early age is all bad, but think of the woman's choices and struggles afterwards. Many women don't regret their kids (and they shouldn't) but they do wish they would have waited until they were secure.
There are too many times I have seen the girls at my high school struggle just to graduate because they had to work, take care of their child, and go to school. This is not a coincidence, or just about our culture. It is about the lack of education regarding our sexual health in not only low-income schools, but even in "good" schools. Parents need to stand up for better sex ed, for their kids' sake.
In many Latino families, having a child is a norm expected before age 20. I have been asked when I would be getting married and having a child. I usually answer with "Well...after I get my PhD". What saddens me is that because I am a Latina, other Latinos don't automatically assume that I will wait to have children after I get my education. Is this all to blame on the Latino culture? No, because even if some parents did not have that expectation, they could inadvertently expect to remain in the short end of the stick when it comes to their children's health.
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I took both grade 5 classes on a boat trip and some a the kids were laughing at a condom floating in the water.. The other class has a younger teacher... maybe 40... and for his sex ed classes he just calls in a public health nurse who talks to them about the need for deoderant and frequent bathing.
So a kid from that class sez."whats that?'
Another kid sez, "It's a condom"
So the first kid repeats... "what's that"
That, unfortunately is the level of sex education most people can expect for their kids.
I live in a mostly Catholic/Anglican community.. and in the 20 or so years I have been doing extensive sex education I have only had one complaint. A couple wanted to meet with me and the principal because I had been talking about condoms in class... they were very shocked. My boss excused herself and came back 5 minutes later with a copy of the health ed curriculum. She handed it to them, let them look at it for a few minutes and then excused herself.
A lotta my curriculum includes lies you will be told by your friends. They will tell you they have more experience than you do, they will tell you everyone is doing it, they will tell you that they only want sex to show how much they love you, and they will tell you that you don't need to worry about condoms.. And at least 90% of all of it is lies.
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