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Reproductive Justice and Gender

The Naked Truth About Stripping: Reality and Fantasy Are Poles Apart

By Bernadette Barton, On The Issues Magazine. Posted August 20, 2008.


Our culture and media are obsessed with strippers. But in real life women who dance for a living inspire rabid sexism.
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Every semester I assign my undergraduate students in my gender and sexuality courses a class project on the media. They bring examples of music videos, television shows, commercials and MySpace pages to class and analyze the content for what it tells us about inequality in our society.

If you've been watching any media images of young bodies, you know that lean, taut, sculpted female bodies are more "hot" than ever. It was this past Spring (2008) in my Sex Industry class, when I was watching perhaps the tenth video representation of anonymous female bodies writhing on stripper poles that it forcefully occurred to me that my book should be selling better. One of a handful of academic studies of exotic dancers, published with a reputable press, written (I think modestly) in an accessible voice, Stripped: Inside the Lives of Exotic Dancers (New York University Press, 2006) ought to be a best seller.

Exploring the Erotic

My book explores the exciting aspects of exotic dancing and the toll it takes over time. Frankly, I found my topic inherently interesting and, unlike many researchers, never got sick or bored of it.

Researching and writing Stripped, I examined the mundane parts of working as an exotic dancer: How do they eat a meal if they aren't supposed to leave the club? How do they get up and down the stage if they are intoxicated and the floor is wet? What do they do with tampon strings? I heard the thrilling and unexpected: What is it like to make $500 for five minutes of work? How is it that several women felt spiritual when they dance? I listened to the abusive -- what happens when a customer calls her a "dirty whore" -- and the ways dancing compromises family relationships by making partners jealous, the costs of hiding the work from Mom and worrying about the kids.

But, it was watching how Stripped was publicly received that taught me something new about our culture: it is way more sexist than I realized, and I had had a pretty bleak attitude starting out.

The Culture of Female Sexuality

Probably like most authors, I had inflated expectations when my book first emerged. I had hoped for reviews in Publisher's Weekly and the New York Times Book Review. I anticipated talk shows, radio programs and book tours.

But my book, like most academic work, did not make a huge splash, and I resigned myself to the relative obscurity most writers experience. However, while placing myself in the company of other well-received scholars whose work travels in small circles is comforting to my ego, such analysis does not do justice to the bigger picture of how our culture constructs female sexuality.

Watching all those images of strippers that the students were dutifully bringing in class after class for our cultural analysis presentations made me wonder if my book's low sales might have to do with more than the usual yawn in reception that most sociological studies receive.

Researching exotic dancers, I learned much about the funny, intelligent, risk-taking capacities of women who step outside the narrowly constructed bounds of respectable femininity in U.S. culture. I poked my head inside the strip bar to understand what it's like to be an exotic dancer in a society that both reviles and fetishizes the perfectly toned body and naked breasts on a pole.

But, after my local newspaper did a story on my upcoming book, I learned that the curiosity, empathy and respect I felt for dancers, and what their lives tell us about the rotten economic deals women face in a sexist society, was a minority perspective.

The local piece was posted to Fark.com (for its "freak" value I suppose) and received more than 54,000 hits. Unfortunately this was almost a full year before Stripped's publication date and did little for sales. There were 414 comments on the article with many saying something like the following: "The truth about strippers is that they are naked. Talk to a stripper for 3 minutes and you'll be just as much of as expert as this woman. I can't believe people get crap like this funded."


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Bernadette Barton (Ph.D. University of Kentucky 2000) is a member of the Department of Sociology, Social Work and Criminology at Morehead State University. Her research and teaching interests include sexuality, gender, popular culture, qualitative methods and the sex industry.

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Posted by: Uriahz on Aug 20, 2008 8:04 PM   
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You'd have done better if your book came out at the same time your internet popularity peaked. Makes a big difference.

Also, it could be that your book was not sufficiently anti-sex work to properly appeal to the anti-pornography crowd, while not being sufficiently fresh and insightful to appeal to the sex-positive crowd, all while clearly not being sufficiently sensational to appeal to the crowd who's looking for nonfiction with a side of titillation. Or maybe it's just too academic, which is to say boring, whatever its subject matter or intelligence. If you're looking for sales success, having a clear target audience and crystal clear snappy writing is totally key. Not to mention your marketing campaign. One article? Come on, you have to generate some controversy if you want to move product!

2300 copies isn't too bad for an academic book. Nothing wrong with being an academic, btw.

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I beg to differ!
Posted by: stellabloo on Aug 21, 2008 8:34 AM   
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Look, tell your students that I have 60,000+ views on youtube in less than a year - and without wearing makeup or taking my clothes off!

OK I'm going to be very frank here because I do believe - as a mother of young girls - that this oversexualization of the female body has got to stop. The billions we spend on "beauty" along with trillions spent on the war obviously need to go elsewhere - we need to get our priorities straight early on.

Which is why I am going to say that I was a stripper once, and my life now - my family, my beautiful children, my career, the skiing, the music, my good health - is a direct consequence of twenty years of sobriety. For all those who still struggle, you do have the power to change your life completely.

I can hear the cries of outrage now but this you should know: alcohol prohibition was repealed because science and Seagrams proved to your government that alcohol made for a more manageable (read: brain-dead) citizen. Give it some thought ;.)

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Gender and sexuality course?
Posted by: countingdaisies on Aug 21, 2008 9:59 AM   
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Is this really necessary? I mean, in college? For a credit?

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» RE: Gender and sexuality course? Posted by: countingdaisies
Life of strippers not all about exploitation
Posted by: nfamous on Aug 21, 2008 4:05 PM   
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Give me a break. Yes a few strippers struggle to feed their children, pay the rent and work their way through school. That is by far the exception and not the rule. The rule is this. Most strippers just want the extra money. They have day jobs which pay everything but it doesn't leave them with enough disposable income to indulge their consumerist behavior. And as we all know women make 80% of shopping decisions in this country. (Or maybe you didn't know). Others of them just like the attention they get from men. Others just do it because they like being naked. They are exhibitionists and it's an aphrodisiac. Others even do it for drugs. Any way you look at it I rarely hear strippers complaining about living in a sexist patriarchal society. Many strippers find boyfriends in the strip club and some even set up prostitution "parties" after the clubs close for 200-500 dollars.

So to characterize all strippers as oppressed by men or all men as oppressors of strippers is quite one-sided. What about the lonely guy that blows his entire check thinking a stripper is going to call him the next day but never does. He is as much a victim as a stripper. Why? Because they both have a choice not to do it. Greed is a far cry from necessity. Maybe that's why this lady's book didn't sell. It just got it wrong.

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Who were you really writing this book for?
Posted by: Kilantra on Aug 21, 2008 6:53 PM   
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"time might be better spent discovering a cure for cancer, entering politics, fighting poverty or researching renewable energy sources than obsessing endlessly about their bodies." Your time could have been spent in these pursuits as well rather than lamenting the poor sales of your book. Are you aware of the pressures of girl culture from a society that TEACHES that a woman's value is in her sexual attraction. To combat that enforced ministry you would have to have the foundation of powerful parenting in self worth. Not so common these days. And if young girls choose poor examples as their leaders, who are the exemplars, Bush?

And we musn't overlook the admiral quests that you suggest above could also be done for 'recognition'. Motive is always the thing to look for in ourselves and others.

A lesson for all of us is that our bodies are not our Selves. Not just girls.

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Some people hang on to their fantasies as hard as other people hang on to their guns
Posted by: hagwind on Aug 23, 2008 5:52 AM   
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Interesting article as far as it goes -- but I understand why it stops where it does: exploring the connections between fantasy and reality is a huge project, and maybe sexism is one of the things that happens when fantasy expectations collide with reality? I think that's why it can be so hard for people, even (maybe especially) feminists, to talk about any kind of sex work: our fantasies -- which range from "downtrodden exploited female" to "paragon of liberated sexuality" -- get in the way and we can't let them go.

"Don't mess me up with facts," in other words.

What got me to read the article was the teaser on the AlterNet digest: "Our culture and media are obsessed with strippers. But in real life women who dance for a living inspire rabid sexism." "But"? Does someone think it's surprising that obsession and sexism coexist?

I live in a place that's renowned as a summer resort but is still managing to hang on to year-round existence. Summer people and tourists come here with their fantasies about what the place is like, and many, many of them get testy or even nasty if you contradict what they want to see. If I had five bucks for every time I've been told (sometimes politely, sometimes not) that I should be grateful to the summer people and the tourists because otherwise I wouldn't have a job -- hell, I could move somewhere else. I also understand why the summer people and the tourists think we're all happy, grateful "locals": because sooner or later we all realize we're wasting our breath trying to explain what it's like to live here year-round, so we just stop trying. I've never been a sex worker, but I have a hunch they experience something similar.

Too bad about the slow sales of the book. Did it come out in trade paperback, or only in hardcover? Hardcovers, especially university press hardcovers, can be pricey.

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The reason for stripping is not the point (Going to buy your book :)
Posted by: syvani on Aug 23, 2008 11:54 AM   
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It doesn't matter why women are stripping. The point is that there is a demand for it so a supply is provided. As for the money, it may pay better than working at Mcburger, but don't for one second believe that these women are making enough to retire on the hill.
Outside of the major metropolitan areas it is even further away from glamour than one could imagine.

For a change, let's focus on the majority male consumers of this profession. Why are there so many men dropping their money to see naked women? Are they single and can't find a mate? If they have a mate are they bored of her or is she holding out? Is their mate not as attractive?
Why does society consider these women "whores" etc? What about the person who pays to see them?

My parent's old school idea was that a man had a whore in streets and the mother of his kids at home. In my family there are 4 children and I think that is about the same amount of times my mother had sex with my father hence my dad cheating etc.

After feeling like enjoying sex was something to be shameful about, I came out of my shell and decided that I had EVERY RIGHT to enjoy sex and initiate it without feeling like a "whore".
If men spent half as much time wanting other women they can't have on the women they actually do have, they might find that women can enjoy sex and be naked and sexy like anyone being paid for it.

I know however that for some going to strip clubs is not always about wanting something else. I know that it can be about the fantasy the illusion etc. and more and more I know that women are also frequenting strip clubs for the same reasons even with their significant others.

I am a woman and I like going to strip clubs because I enjoy seeing naked bodies and I enjoy watching some of the dancing. I try to drag my husband to go with me but for him going to strip club means you are paying someone to pretend to like you.

So to those who comment saying a stripper is just a naked whore etc etc. Ask yourself why you are going to see them? Why is our society so repressed about sexuality and have such a low view of people that show their naked bodies?
Strippers are providing a service to our society one way or another.
The work is hard both physically and mentally. They deserve as much respect for their work as the next person.

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Author makes invalid causal assumptions
Posted by: stripey7 on Aug 26, 2008 4:18 PM   
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The author thinks it's ironic that many young women are so interested in being sexy to men at the same time so many men (and women too btw) disrespect women who are sexy professionally. But I think she's in error to link these two things in the way she does.

If anything, the deplorable attitudes she describes are probably far less universal than they once were. That is what correlates with young women's increasingly willingness to openly flaunt their sexuality. They're more willing to do so because it's less stigmatized than before.

And there's no good reason for the author to assume that women's interest in pole dancing etc. implies a lack of seriousness about entering professions, civic participation etc. These are in no way incompatible, any more than other hobbies are incompatible with "serious" pursuits.

Though I'm sure she doesn't mean to, I fear that the author, by expressing a low opinion of such pursuits, actually helps perpetuate the very stigma she decries.

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the limited vision cannot inform
Posted by: zgregz on Aug 27, 2008 1:17 AM   
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Reading the article and letters about strippers revealed many folks' lack of understanding of universal truths. Almost any combination of influences factor into the person's choices. Many men are sex obsessed, some project the shame they feel onto the woman. Others of us just hate to pass up the opportunity to view the female form. I still chuckle to remember the elevator full of lunch hour office ladies back from the Chippendales act. True some women strip for the money. Last I heard this honest work did little harm that I could see, contrast that to the Cigaret company CEO -- who may be the pillar of the society -- but is responsible for 600,000 DEATHS each year. If you are irate of the idea that stripping makes it possible for young women to afford to use drugs, do you believe that moral judgement will cure that self medication? We all make choices when we trade our time for money. Is it reasonable to "prefer" one choice for the other? The stripper may fill an important service -- we do accept the miner who travels 2 miles into the earth to dig out diamonds as an honorable profession, is it if the mine kills X number of miners per year? I did know one dancer -- her family was wealthy, and she could have moved back home at any time, but her addiction to the lifestyle as a dancer was what she enjoyed. It may be the sign of an addiction, but as human beings all of us are addictable. You may enjoy food, sex, parachute jumping, whatever floats your boat. If dying your hair purple is central to your enjoyment of your life, -- NO ONE should go moralistic about it -- unless it hurts someone else. I am amazed how any one misses the point -- that people are multi dimensional -- step back, take a personal inventory, and then try to imagine all of us are the same, none of us are about ONE THING.

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Linda Lovelace
Posted by: Arlene on Aug 30, 2008 5:50 AM   
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A similar thing happened to her. When her biography titled ORDEAL came out, critics thought it would be another version of the film DEEP THROAT so there was a lot of initial interest. Instead of the grinning freak, they got a story about a woman who, despite the money and perks, had been ill-used by the porno industry. Despite an initial flurry of interest, the book tanked when the reality bias sank in. She died at an early age also.

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A couple of things....
Posted by: ShrubtheWarcriminal on Sep 14, 2008 5:18 AM   
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First:

"The men, at least, it seems would rather spend their twenty bucks on a lap dance, not a book."---I hope you are not shocked by this!

Second:

"My undergraduate female students learn that to be hot, to be a star, to be seen on YouTube, to get attention from guys is the pinnacle of their power and achievement. I labor to squeeze inside their 20-year old heads -- past the Pussycat Dolls, Tila Tequila and Rock of Love -- to introduce the radical idea that their time might be better spent discovering a cure for cancer, entering politics, fighting poverty or researching renewable energy sources than obsessing endlessly about their bodies."

People tend to chose the paths that give them the greatest rewards for the least amount of effort.

A beautiful, attractive woman is going to find it difficult to not take an easier road using this asset--such as "marrying well."

Third:

Although it may be interesting, I do not think it to surprising to find that only about 2000 people find in necessary to plop down $20 for a book to find out what the ladies do with tampon strings.

Fourth:

You went on a Shock-Jock show and were shocked by the way he treated you?!

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