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China's Sexual Blogolution

By Eugenia Chien, Pacific News Service. Posted November 12, 2005.


Lost Sparrow, Sister Lotus and other Chinese women are changing the rules between the sexes -- and prompting government censorship -- as they post intimate details of their lives online.
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The nude black-and-white photograph of the young Chinese woman is gritty and amateurish. She sits in front of her computer with her face turned away from the camera. A large potted plant obscures her waist.

"Women on the Internet are always lonely," says the caption.

The photograph and caption are from the blog of Liu Mang Yan, or "Lost Sparrow," China's latest controversial woman blogger. Liu's outspoken posts about sex include a "bedside encyclopedia" of love-making noises, broken down by the type of response it can elicit from your lover, and by geographical regions in China -- that is, how pillow-talk may sound in regional dialect or slang. She talks openly about masturbation ("I have no worldly possession, except for two vibrators") and muses about why men are afraid to say "I love you."

Liu is the latest of a string of Chinese women bloggers who have become famous, some even worldwide. They talk about sex and relationships openly, changing the dialogue between the sexes. In a culture where sexual attitudes are still oppressive, the racy details shared by the women bloggers are thrusting them into the spotlight, despite China's most recent crackdown on the Internet news media.

The China Internet Network Information Centre estimated 94 million Internet users in China in 2004, now the second-largest Internet population in the world following the United States. China has some 4 million bloggers.

"The Internet is advancing the fortunes of many other people the Communist Party cadres aren't so interested in promoting," says Rebecca MacKinnon, a veteran journalist who writes extensively on the Internet in China. She is the co-founder of Global Voice Online, a media project at the Harvard Law School's Berkman Center for Internet and Society.

"It used to be that you couldn't be a famous cultural icon in China unless some cultural officials had signed off on the lyrics for your album," MacKinnon said at a talk for the Pop! Tech conference in Camden, Maine, on Oct. 21. "Now you can get famous if you publicize the titillating details of your sex life on your blog."

Because of frank women bloggers, the conversation about sex is no longer limited to close women friends.

"Women like Liu Mang Yan want to satisfy their need for attention, but because of them, women are talking about sex with men for the first time," says Naizhu, an entertainment writer from Guangdong who started her own blog three years ago. Naizhu's blog is popular for its terse sarcasm about the entertainment business.

"Nowadays, if you're on a date with a Chinese man, the first thing that comes out of his mouth would be, 'You're not going to blog about me, are you?'" she says.

Liu Mang Yan isn't the first woman to become famous for publicly discussing her sex life. In 2003, Internet sex columnist Mu Zi Mei gained national fame for talking about aphrodisiacs and her sexual conquests. Mu became China's Carrie Bradshaw, the protagonist of the hit television show "Sex And The City." The New York Times even featured Mu in a story in November 2003.

"You can say that, for the first time, sex bloggers like Mu Zi Mei gave Chinese women equality in the conversation about sex," says Naizhu. In 2004, Fu Rong Jie Jie, or "Sister Lotus," became the icon of China's bustling Bulletin Board System (BBS), a type of online forum popular in Asia. A young woman of average looks, Sister Lotus regularly boasted about her beauty and posted pictures of herself coyly arching her back and thrusting out her chest.

China's restricted media landscape is partly responsible for the fame of these women, says Lyn Jeffery, a research director at the Institute For The Future in Palo Alto, Calif., where she is studying Asian women bloggers.

"Bloggers have so much more influence because there are a lot fewer voices in China," says Jeffery. "When bloggers get famous in China, they are covered by the Chinese mainstream media, so they become hugely popular."

In contrast to the sex-and-relationship bloggers, a larger population of educated young Chinese women bloggers is creating a global youth community where they talk about the world and their careers. Jeffery points to bloggers like Hailey Sie, who hosts a Web site about traveling, and Yan Sham-Shackleton, the voice behind the Hong Kong political blog Glutter, as examples.

Though the Internet community for women is thriving, the Chinese government is stepping up its efforts to regulate online bloggers. China's Ministry of Information Industry and the State Council on Sept. 24 released new regulations containing vague language banning sexually explicit content on the Web, which many analysts say are aimed at bloggers. Observers say the real goal of China's Internet censorship is to prevent leadership and movement rising from the medium.

Due to pressure from China's Propaganda Department, the Chinese media's coverage of Sister Lotus has mostly waned. Her publisher pulled out of a book deal this summer. Naizhu, the entertainment writer from Guangdong, wouldn't reveal her real name because state regulations prohibit journalists from being interviewed by foreign media.

But for Liu Mang Yan, the more pressing concern is her fading youth.

"When you look at my pictures, you see a woman aging," she says. "The passage of time is taunting me."

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Eugenia Chien writes for New California Media, an association of over 700 print, broadcast and online ethnic media organizations founded by Pacific News Service and members of ethnic media.

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sex talk
Posted by: xenacat on Nov 12, 2005 6:53 AM   
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Gee, women talking about sex...Wow. Unheard of. The only thing even vaguely interesting about this article is the geograghic location. What is next? A shocking expose about Asian men who talk about the weather?

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Why is this here??
Posted by: stoney13 on Nov 12, 2005 2:08 PM   
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Why is this here, people? Why can we not go through our day without being apraised of Desperate Chinese Houswives?

The city of Denver voted to legalise less than an ounce of marijauna. Not a gasp about the story was heard on Alternet! Not one!! Not on Drug Reporter. Not even a blog! I can expect the pundit press to rob us of our victories, But ALTERNET??!!!

Instead we are informed that naked Chinese women can be found on the internet. Sad. It's so sad! This must be Alternet's answer to the pundit coverage of the poor little drunken sex kitten who got lost in Aruba while getting drunk and getting her freak on with the natives! Now the pundits want us to boycott Aruba! Why? If that would have happened here there would not have been a single arrest! Who should suffer: the mother of this young lady who raised her to get drunk and act like a slut with people she didn't even know in a foreign country? Or the people of Aruba who are expected to baby-sit the children of wretched excess?

Back to the point! I'm not blind to the plight of oversexed Chinese women. I'm just saying; Why here? When we have so many more important going on right here in America that impacts our life every day in ways which this does not!!!

Oh Yea!! O thought I'ld let you know! On that Denver pot legalisation story? Alternet got scooped by both MSNBC, and Fox!!! Be ashamed Alternet!! Be very, very ashamed!!!!

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Have to Agree
Posted by: expat in tokyo on Nov 12, 2005 4:54 PM   
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If I want to hear about oversexed Chinese women I can go down to any number of websites dedicated to just that.. or for that matter go to a few of the blogs written about me..LOL..
YET.. this gets front page treatment.. YET.. The hidden massacre of Fallujah.. get relegated to back room blogs.. great work alternet.. another one of my favorite sites that SOLD OUT

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It's A Revolution - Definite Front-Page Material
Posted by: Inuyasha on Nov 12, 2005 6:49 PM   
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THIS ARTICLE HAS LITTLE TO DO WITH SEX...

What this article signifies is that a revolution has finally begun in China, which DOES affect our lives. Examples...

1) The Chinese Communist Party (CCP) invaded Tibet and took over the region. Many people were killed, tortured, raped, beaten and forced to renounce their heritage & their spiritual beliefs in Tibet - The Holy Land of the Dalai Lama.

2) The CCP & their treatment of Falun Gong practioners. Falun Gong is a spiritual path of meditations in order for one to cultivate peace, harmony, forbearance. However, because so many people began practicing Falun Gong in China, the Chinese Communist Party saw it as a threat. In consequence, 100 Million Chinese citizens were banned from practicing & following their very own spiritual belief. Millions were beaten, tortured, raped, brutally killed & forced to renounce their spiritual beliefs.

China has also sent representatives to the U.S. & other countries in order to harass the Falun Gong practitioners of those countries. The CCP is still trying to ban Falun Gong worldwide, without much success. Now, back to the article...

What this article signifies is that a huge revolution has finally begun. Millions of Chinese citizens have been repressed, oppressed & censored for decades. But until recently, both men & women have finally stepped forward & refused to become slaves to the hazardous & ludicrous thinking of the CCP. The Chinese women who blog about their sex lives is one of the numerous ways that the citizens are coming out in their own voice. The women are becoming more liberated & have become courageous enough to talk about their lives, whatever that may be. They are blogging about sex, work, global issues and politics.

Again, the article has little to do with Chinese women & sex. It is about the liberation of China as a whole from the crude Chinese Communist Party. It is about women who have been repressed for decades finding the courage to speak out. It is about the end of the Chinese Communist Party, which will occur in the near-distant future, from the way things are going now.

Censorship & repression can only happen for so long until the people voice out and liberate themselves. And that is what the article is about.

Falun Gong - www.clearharmony.net

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It's Amazing That Some Folks Didn't Get It...
Posted by: Kym525 on Nov 13, 2005 10:01 AM   
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This whole article is less about sex and more about the power of the Internet to change lives, especially in repressive countries like China. These young women are using this power to speak frankly about an issue that, just like her in the states, is supposedly the domain of men. These young women, in their own small way, are trying to reclaim their sexuality from an oppressive patriarchy and liberal men should be supporting this attampt at emacipation rather than casually dismissing it as unimportant.

What we take for granted over here in more 'free' countries, is a radical act in its own right in China and we should be celebrating and encouraging these women to speak more. We should be protesting the Chinese government's attempts at censorship rather than dismissing these women as being nothing more that 'desparate houswives'.

Frankly, I'm rather appalled (though not really surprised) about the blatantly sexist attitudes this story has engendered. Once again, men are telling women that their voices are only valuable as long as we don't make too much noise, that our issues are not as important. No wonder we've got a war-mongering loser in the White House.

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Okay, Okay
Posted by: xenacat on Nov 13, 2005 4:53 PM   
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I fully understand that Chinese women are very sexually repressed by thier culture. A few female bloggers talking about their personal experiences of sex is hardly the beginnings of a sexual revolution in China. It seems to me that we are dealing with the usual voyuerism here when it comes to women's sexuality - we are seduced into thinking that talking graphically about sex is somehow freedom/equality. Not that there is anything wrong with graphic talk - I enjoy the hell out of it myself - but jeez, please let me know when Chinese women have obtained some significant legal equality as opposed to mere blogging. God knows, we are still struggling with sexual equality in the good Ol' U. S of A. despite what our corporate controlled media tells you.

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cool.
Posted by: philosopherintraining on Nov 14, 2005 7:17 AM   
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While, admittedly, it's not exactly huge news, it's still nice to hear about people being able to speak up, and thier words have an impact. kinda validates a few aspects of life.

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China's Blogger babes
Posted by: capitalregionpeople on Nov 26, 2005 12:57 PM   
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I've been following the lady Chinese bloggers for several months now. Seems the newest is a gal named "Mu Mu." She is said to have burst upon the blogsophere in JULY, so I'm curious as to why the western world is just beginning to hear about her at the end of November. What happened to Sister Furong, anyway? Did she ever star in that cellphone movie? It's odd that in this digital "New York Minute" age that we don't get any of this China blogging news until months after it's news! AlterNet readers are welcome to check out (and leave any comments or suggestions) my blog HERE and just type the name of any Chinese blogger you may be looking for in the Technorati searchbox at the top right hand column and it will show you all the posts for that individual.

What's the big deal about all the censorship anyway? Is the Chinese government just that touchy about Falun Gong?

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Sexual Awakening in China?
Posted by: vibrators on May 25, 2006 10:50 AM   
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I'm sure the Chinese have known about sex for quite some time, judging by their population. The news is that the government has lost some control over individuals as they merge into the western economy. China manufactures almost all Vibrators and Sex Toys which is now a multi-billion dollar industry. The next sexual revolution in China will be a chain of sex stores so they can buy the products they make.

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Ways to Get In Touch With the Sexy You
Posted by: southcoast on Nov 9, 2006 9:33 PM   
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With most men complaining about not getting enough sex or being with women who
never initiate sex, it got me wondering why this is. I know that after a long
stressful day of work, running after the kids and what not; that one may not be
up for nooky, but this can’t be the reason all the time, so, I have done
abit of snooping around and have found that most of the ladies I have spoken to
‘just don’t feel sexy’. Further snooping revealed that it is
not only due to the stresses of everyday life, but they just don’t see themselves
as sexy beings!. A British study recently found that women are ten times more
likely to be unhappy with their body image than a man. That could explain the
gap in sex drives; women who have a poor body image shy away from sex. Men seem
to always be raring to go; and why not? Most do not spend time in front of the
mirror worrying about the junk in their trunks!

There was an experiment run by Marie Claire magazine awhile back where they
took two photos of a gorgeous size 14 model and made them into mobile billboards.
Both photos were identical and had no retouching done to them at all, and each
one was flanked by a different message; one read: “I think I’m fat.
Do you?” while the other read: “I think I’m sexy. Do you?”
Out of the 4,000 people surveyed; 55 percent agreed that she was fat and 66
agreed that she was sexy. These numbers are not to far off from each other and
the reason being is that what you say about yourself has a huge impact on how
others see you. If you believe that you are sexy, others will use that confidence
in making up their opinion of you, and the same goes for the negative.

Now, it’s time to snuff out those negative thoughts and see yourself for
the beautiful and sexy creature that you really are! If you don’t find
yourself sexy, why should anyone else? It all begins with you, so here are some
ideas that will help you get in touch with your sexy self.

First off, you need to take the time to pamper yourself and relax, and what
better way to do that than with a nice warm bath? Set aside an hour for yourself,
and take the time to set the mood for the ultimate bathing experience; light
some candles around the bathroom, and then use a scented oil in your bath water,
like the Kama
Sutra Oils of Love
—my personal favorites! With scents
like Vanilla Crème and Raspberry Kiss, you’re sure to feel good
enough to eat—literally! They also have Chocolate Mint oil, and mint is
known to help refresh and reenergize—perfect after a stressful day. After
your bath, these same oils can be used on your skin to moisturize and keep you
smelling yummy all day! You can top off that beautifully soft skin with a scented
dusting powder that will leave not only a glow on your skin, but an edible layer
for your and your partner’s pleasure! With several kinds available, such
as Tasty
Tickles
, Kama
Sutra Honey Dust Body Powder
and Tickle
and Taste
, you’re bound to find one that suits you.This
is the perfect time to explore your sexual self with sex
toys
.

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