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What have we become? According to Whybrow’s scientific and philosophical analyses, we’ve devolved into a nation of overindulging, overstimulated flakes addicted to easy access and instant gratification.
Dr. Whybrow argues that our seemingly interminable quest for more -- more money, more power, more toys, more cars -- has in fact become a form of clinical mania marked by symptoms such as anxiety, depression and obesity.
To avoid suffering a collective mental breakdown, Whybrow implores us to stop focusing on things and instead turn our attention to people -- family, friends and community. It's a familiar refrain, but one that clearly needs repeating: If we are to be happy, Americans must stop superficially striving, and learn to prioritize people over products.
Dr. Whybrow spoke with AlterNet from his office in Los Angeles.
AlterNet: In your book, you write that America's "migrant spirit" plays a key role in the development of our culture's mania. Can you explain that idea for those who haven't read the book?
b>The idea of American mania is that we are drawn into frenzied activity largely by instinctual strivings. This is very natural, and keeps us alive. But the migrant has this striving to an even greater degree than the average person -- if you think about what it is that drives most of us, it's curiosity, it's self-preservation, and also social ambition. These are the three fundamental aspects of what drives individuals and what drives all market societies.
In America, one of the reasons we find the market so compelling and why we're so good at it is that most of us came from somewhere else. Only 2 percent of the world's population actually moves hundreds or thousands of miles away from where they were born; most people die within 50 miles of where they were born, believe it or not.
We're a collection of survivalists; we're a collection of people who are very curious, very assertive, able to figure out what to do with little, to make the best of things, and so on and so forth.
We've built ourselves this wonderful culture -- this wonderful material pleasure palace -- and we're not quite sure how to stop. We've discovered an aberration of the human spirit a little earlier than most other countries -- but everybody's catching up, slowly.
What do you think is the scariest symptom of America's collective frenzy for more, more, more?
I think the scariest part is that we have not started to question it as a nation. Lots of individuals have started to question it, and that's partly why the book has become so popular. But we have to think through what it is that we're doing to ourselves.
Take food, for example -- instinctually we love to eat ... salt; we love fat. And much of the food that we have available to us contains those things; we just overeat and do very bad things to ourselves.
The same is true in terms of our curiosity for information. We can inundate ourselves 24 hours a day now with electronic systems, and all of these things tend to actually push us to the edge of our sociological tolerance.
People are not supposed to eat all day and take no exercise. It's very bad for the human body, and you eventually end up developing Type II diabetes. And if you don't know how to control your time and the technology in your life, you can rapidly become anxious because you worry that you're missing something.
The other thing which is very evident, though some people don't even see it as a behavioral problem, and which you read about everyday in the newspapers, is that people become essentially seduced into engaging in practices which are not good for them.
I just got an email the other day from a person that'd been caught up in the whole dot-com craziness, and [he had] done some "creative accounting" in one of the companies. He realized later -- when he was caught, and with terrible remorse -- that he'd destroyed his life.
But the idea that one needs more -- which is driven in part by social ambition -- makes many people forget the reality of the world, which is, of course, that happiness doesn't come from just material acquisition, whether that means more food, or more information, or more money. It comes from a totally different source: the way in which you spend your life with other people.
What would be the worst possible outcome if Americans continued down the path we're on right now?
Well, on the individual level, which is the way the book is pitched, we will find a rising level of these sorts of disorders that I was just talking about. But I think the greed that we see will become much more individualistic, and much less socially involved. That will begin to slowly destroy the next generation of people, because the way we learn how to live in a society is from others. And if everybody is totally individualistic, we're not going to learn.
But perhaps even more importantly, [we] will find that the economy will begin to collapse, because the signs are already out there. We are consuming too much; we're going well beyond our ability to finance it. We're the biggest debtor in the world now, and a lot of the world economy is based on American consumerism.
That can't last forever. So one of the most painful course corrections could be something very similar to what happened in the 1930s, only it would happen more slowly at the beginning.
For example, as the housing market bursts -- which everybody is beginning to think will happen soon -- most people who have high costs on their mortgages now will find that their houses won't be worth as much, and they won't be able to afford the mortgage. So there's going to be a major economic crisis in that regard. That could be a course correction that will be painful and very unpleasant for folks.
And what do you think we can do to help people understand that this consumer-mania is dangerous?
First of all, the sort of intelligent information-gathering that AlterNet provides with your website will be very helpful, because I think people do read. Americans are intelligent folks. We're not greedy, if we begin to realize that we're harming ourselves. Just as we did with smoking, we will decide to take a different course. The question is, how painful must it become before that happens?
For some individuals it's already happening. For other people, it will probably take evidence -- within their family or within their own economic circumstances -- that things have changed, before they start changing their behavior.
What I would like to see is a growing movement -- which is starting in some parts of the country -- where people realize that they can actually be much happier by living within their means. One of the ways in which we tend to go to extremes now is by purchasing things that we can't really afford and then we mortgage ourselves into the future.
There are a lot of people who are beginning to say, "You know, I don't really want to work two jobs; I don't think I need that second car." It's starting at the individual level, and once that really begins, then it will take hold.
Just let me say, parenthetically, one of the most important things about this country is the entrepreneurial spirit, and the fact that we're very creative, and we're very willing to take risks and so on and so forth. But we have to preserve that space for the seed corn of our culture, and it can only be preserved if we're prepared to have a social infrastructure that allows people to take risks and doesn't persecute them when they fall foul.
If you have an economy that is so stretched out that nobody has any savings, and everybody is busy working as hard as they possibly can just to pay the mortgage, then that is not the social infrastructure that one needs to maintain curiosity and excitement. I think that we need to do this from the standpoint of the health of the culture, and there are some people who are beginning to realize that.
For example, there's a whole movement in Vermont now to secede -- believe it or not -- from the U.S., because they believe that the lifestyle that we are perpetuating in many urban areas is destructive to the rural life. Whether this debate will go anywhere I don't know, but the fact that the debate is beginning is fascinating to me.
What is the connection there between urban vs. rural life? Do you think that this frenzy is more common and more prevalent in urban centers?
Well, the seduction is greater in urban centers. There are two things that occur to me. One, for example, is the commercial drive. It's all, of course, brought back to Wal-Mart, which happens to be the biggest commercial enterprise for the consumer in the country; in the world.
There's overwhelming evidence now that when a Wal-Mart store comes into town, that although the prices at the Wal-Mart stores are lower, it forces out so many businessmen that the local economy is actually worse off at the end, and the taxpayer is worse off at the end.
Many of the jobs provided by Wal-Mart actually end up being without benefits, so employees end up on the public purse... Somebody calculated that the average person saves $58.48 a year by shopping at Wal-Mart.
Another aspect of how our lifestyle tends to erode our culture is that people are trying extremely hard to keep up -- not only with their neighbors, but also just the two jobs they have.
There's an amazing outbreak of amphetamines across the country that you've probably heard of. It's rampant across the country now. Everybody talks about marijuana being the problem. That's not the problem -- it's individuals who are essentially hijacking their pleasure centers, trying to stay awake.
Those types of erosions will, within a generation or two, have a massive effect upon what I consider to be the crucible of the culture: the stable family and community structures, which enable people to grow up and learn how it is to behave in a normal, balanced civil society. When you begin to get large numbers of people who are addicted to amphetamines or to material goods, this fragments families.
And once the family is fragmented and the community is fragmented, the next generation grows up with no real awareness of what it is that they need to do in order to be happy. So you get onto this strange treadmill situation -- it's even a slippery slope really -- where they fall into something without even realizing it's a genuine addiction.
So for all these reasons American Mania's subtitle, When more is not enough, tries to point out that more of what we're doing is actually not going to bring us what we want.
In mania, what happens is that you shoot right past happiness into this terrible disorganized fireworks display which you have no control over. But happiness lies somewhere behind us.
You can be happy with much less information, fewer material goods, much less of the stuff that we have now. But nobody really looks in the rearview mirror -- they're all driving ahead. In fact, we need to do a U-turn, because happiness lies somewhere behind us, not down the road. More cars, more houses, etc., are not going to do it for us.
In the book you wrote about a cultural and biological mismatch that has been actually making us sick. Could you explain that?
The human genome was developed essentially over millions of years, and the only thing that distinguishes us from most other mammals is that we have much greater intelligence. The rational part of the brain that balances the instinctive part is much more developed in us than it is in other animals. That is our great advantage.
Unfortunately, we have used that advantage to create ourselves an environment, inadvertently, which actually is so pleasurable to the instinctual side of our behavior that we now are doing many things which we're not physiologically cut out to do.
Let me give you an example. People who have the most problems with weight gain here in the U.S. are people whose ancestors migrated here long before the Europeans came. So the people who have American Indian blood in their veins, particularly in South America where the Indian-European mix is greater, are the ones who, when they get onto a high-carbohydrate diet, have much more trouble maintaining normal weight, because they're used to very frugal circumstances.
In other words, their particular inheritance is that they can survive on almost nothing. And so when you then give them a high-calorie diet, there's a mismatch between the environment, their diet, and their genome. The genome hasn't changed.
We used to be in a situation where we would run for our supper and if we caught it, we'd eat it. And we had to wait until the next day [to eat again]. So we were much leaner and fitter before our present environment.
So nothing has changed in the genetics of the human being, but the environment we've created, this extraordinary affluence -- we don't really know what to do with it.
We have no experience with it; we're much better at living with scarcity than we are affluence. So the mismatch is the affluent environment with this ancient genome that grew up under scarce circumstances. Only our intelligence will help us understand how to repair that, because the genetics are not going to change fast enough to save us.
But this propensity for affluence and extravagant lifestyles depends on class, education and where you live. What other factors are involved?
All of those things, I think. The people who are more affluent and have better educations recognize many of these things, and because of their resources they're able to step back from the treadmill. But that's not true of all affluent folks. Many affluent families, in fact, drive themselves because they are highly competitive, and they drive their children in a way that schedules them and makes them "little adults," much too young.
There's a lot of evidence, for example, that anxiety in families who earn over $150,000 a year is much greater in the adolescents than it is in those families that earn the average, about $50,000 a year. So affluence does tend to produce these things, but fortunately many people who are wealthier can avoid them once they become aware of them.
The other problem is people who are not as well off. As you know, America has an extraordinary spread of riches, the broadest spread from the poorest to the richest in the world. The poorer people are those who are much more open to eating a very high carbohydrate diet and taking no exercise, and they're the ones who're getting Type II diabetes and hypertension and all the difficulties which go along with overeating. So I think there is a social difference there.
There's also something of a difference, in terms of the way people live, between the coasts. I mean, [people] in Los Angeles are much more frenetic than [people in] Vermont and New Hampshire, for example, as I try to explain in the book. So I think that where you live does tend to influence demand.
When a lot of people around you are affluent, it's natural human envy to want to be like them. And this tends to be homogenized by the way television has created this whole mythology about how people live, which of course is not the way people really live. But in the urban centers, we're constantly bombarded by advertisements for new cars, new clothes, new cell phones, new electronic gadgets. It's very difficult to resist!
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Posted by: WhatNow? on Aug 26, 2005 2:47 AM
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Take care everybody.
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Posted by: lhior on Aug 26, 2005 4:04 AM
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I don't know that it is envy as much as a perception of the norm. Zoning laws encourage this. A norm of lot size, square footage etc. define a community. How does one in those communities model a less consumptive lifestyle?
We in this country are and are surrounded by "consumers". How do we get a better sense of how the rest of the world lives and consumes and more to the point how do we create a desire to be more like them?
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Posted by: eileen_flmng on Aug 26, 2005 5:11 AM
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Hours of connections to technology; computers and cars removes us from the awe nature/creation can fill us with when we slow down, make friends with silence and go within.
When we meditate/think/reflect we become grateful for what we have and freed from desires of what we have not.
Pres. Bush's advice after 9/11 to American's who wanted to do something to help, was that they should go shoppping. Many of us did not:
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Observing the Fast
I shall keep my fast
Until I know my hunger
Called by its true name,
Not what it seems to be.
Is it comfort?
Is it pleasure?
Is it power?
Is it fame?
Anything may fill
But not all satisfies.
Endlessly feasting,
Still might I starve.
Is it healing?
Is it vision?
Is it justice?
Is it peace?
The pangs grow sharp.
Is it wisdom?
Is it faith?
Muscles tremble.
Is it hope?
Is it love?
Empty rumblings
Beg for satisfaction.
Grace names my hunger:
Oh, God!
Mary Lennard
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Posted by: Olympiada on Aug 26, 2005 6:58 AM
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So many good points were brought up. Let me see if I can address 3 like the classic college essay, before I go on my way.
Ok, the first one as stated in the title. It is good to reminded of this normalcy. I am a second generation Bay Area native, meaning my mom was born here. My daughter was born here. I still live here. It is easy to lament my lack of opportunity to travel, but really I am like most of the world's population...So that was heartening to hear.
"People are not supposed to eat all day and take no exercise"
I have to express gratitude for my parents who have been runners for my whole life and who instilled in me a practice of healthful diet and exercise. I was fortunate to have a mother who studied nutrition in the university as well as made everything from scratch and shopped in health food stores. Reading this article made me grateful for my differences...My parents always made me exercise every day when I was growing up...and got on my case about my diet if it was poor, particulary if I ate too many carbohydrates! Yep that is right...my mom would not allow it, and this was way before low-carb diets were hip.
"We're the biggest debtor in the world now" - again I was raised not to go in to debt, my parents and my paternal grandmother do not believe in that. I made the mistake of selling out my own values for a marriage, but I will never do that again. Reading this article made me appreciate my strong stand against going in to debt for my education, I refuse. I am thankful I have not been infected by this American mentality, even though I live here.
It was great to see this thoughtful, well written article. I hope I do not offend any one with my comment. I am re-sponding as I see fit. Nor do I wish to come across as bragging, for that is not my intention. It is only to tell my story.
Oly
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Posted by: grammasanity on Aug 26, 2005 7:25 AM
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More than an hour a day on the web is irritating your brain cells and taking away from real life. TV is designed to make you dissatisfied with real life so you'll buy STUFF. It used to be that 90% of Americans grew food. Now it's about 5%. That makes the other 95% dependent on the for-profit distribution system (the farmers still don't make any money). Does anybody out there feel like a kid who never learned anything important because they were too busy being entertained? Go get some seeds and start a garden (well, plan it for next spring). Wear something you made yourself. Tell your kids stories instead of puting on a dvd. LIVE, don't just watch fake stuff full of come-ons for STUFF!
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Posted by: arch_tech on Aug 26, 2005 8:32 AM
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The impact this has on the middle class, in particuar, covered in Barbara Ehrenreich's "Fear of Falling", is quite unnerving. The chasm opening up in the middle class between poverty (more likely because of the prevailing acceptablity of debt) and the upper class of secure financial levels of our society is driven by this erosion of values and social conciousness by consumerism. This leaves an unexamined acceptance of superficial appearances over a fundamental understanding of personal financial security. This will be tragic as the consequences of the vanishing social support network become apparent over the next decade.
Of interest to this psychologist might be a book which delves into this mindset, which was termed "sociopathic" in a book written in 1985 by Alexander Lowen, M.D., "Narcissism". This author was writing as an older professional, expressing serious concern about the cultural changes at the time that were fuelling a narcisisstic world view that corrupted the underpinnings of older value systems which emphasized a coherent world view grounded in financial and social realities. This was apparent even then as the absence of limits or structure which fostered a consumerism instead of focussing on the value of human relationships and structures. It very much reflected an older generational view of the post-1970 era of rebellion against constrictive cultural norms.
I agree that the post-WWII era created a massive cultural change that came out of a reaction to the rationing of war and the earlier 1930's depression that the US soldiers had grown up with, creating an incredible forward momentum during the Kennedy years to grow the country with international policies, winning the space race, and winning the race to wealth. Who knew it would come to this?
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OK, I sympathize. I can see why Dr. Whybrow would want to become an Author. Psychiatry is a depressing, underpaid profession. And then there's the jokes
"I wear this stethasope to I can sit with the other doctors in the lunchroom."
What do you call a Psychiatrist? The waste of a perfectly good physician !!
So if a Psychiatrist decides he'd rather write a superficial book about pop-sociology ... then for example about, oh, "Cognative treatiment of TeenAge Depression -- What a Parent Can Do" ... well, there's so many CSWs writing books on mental illness and what to do about it -- why not?
A Shrink's-eye view of America might be interesting ... about a useful as a Cop's-eye view ... narrowly focussed, but distorted. Neither profession is encouraged to read literature or philosophy except to find convenient labels for bad behaviors. And now, the DSM IV relieves Pschiatrists of knowing even that much Liberal Arts. In fact, these days, they are pretty much required to reject subjectivite analysis and describe their cases entirely in terms of DSM diagnostic criteria check lists and number coded pathologies.
Unbeknownst to them, over on the other side of Campus, out of sight of the pre-Med majors, the Lib Arts underdergrads have been vaporing about the evils of consumerism
"Getting and spending we lay waste our powers
"Too little in Nature we see that is ours "
-- and of over eating -- for the past 150 years at least.
Plato was sermonizing on the lazy, materialistic, over-eating lifestyle of his fellow Athenians circa 375 years BCE. ... as every Hippie and Buddhist missionary will point out, given half a chance.
Oh well. Publishing is a crazy business ... but it might make a welcome change for a psychiatrist.
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I LIKE things, I LIKE owning stuff, I'm not a punk rocker and I have no soul. If material things are all that makes me happy, thats just how I am. But being creative, artistic, and expressing my appreciation for the world makes me happy too, and I suspect that with all the talk of family and the like, artistic creativity and the like would be even more despised by this person and those who agree with him than the most excessive consumerism.
Refraining from consumption means depriving myself not only from the tools I need for artistic expression, but the manifestations of culture, such as comics, music, film, manga, anime, travel, food, information, learning, and experience.
I won't give up my freedom and my ability to artistically express myself in the name of anti consumerism, and I'll never stop being gay just to embrace right wing family values in the name of anti consumerism either. This person would probably have us return to a legally enforced "sabbath".
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I just wanted to add basically a compliment to a few thing said in regard to the powers that be and how they influence consumerism in America.
Industry and government in America require rampant capitalism to sustain the current economy. Our whole US business structure is built upon us buying stuff. But US business is now floating on air. Air that is created by the action of consumerism. If consumerism slows down enough the force of air created by that consumerism diminishes enough business will come crashing down along with the economy. Rampant capitalism requires and ever growing consumption of resources and products. Nothing is eternal and everything has limits. But capitalism ignores this fact and believes it can sustain itself.
With this in mind it is the job of industry and government to sell the idea that we need to consume all kinds of products. That competition is the only way for an economy to function. That socialistic principles do not function.
The author does not maintain that the out of control consumerism is only a result of the minds of the people thankfully. The high level of irresponsible consumerism is mostly caused by the exploitation of the natural weakness of the human mind by industry and government as it serves their purpose for creating wealth.
Sure we have a responsibility to ourselves. We make our choices but we are constantly bombarded with advertisements and propaganda to support our continued buying of objects we don't need.
This doesn't mean that we should stop buying stuff completely and join a cloistered religious group or live in communes. Please do if you wish of course. But we should ask ourselves if what we are buying is really what we need. Or is how we live our life compliant to a sustainable future for ourselves and our descendants.
To me, the authors article is just a call to question what we do. Buy that DVD if you really like the movie. But is the box recycleable if the DVD goes bad? Do you really need to own Gigli? Or is it just an impulse?
Do you want a car that doesn't use gasoline and doesn't produce pollution or do you want a hummer that gets under 10mpg at times?
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Some of the happiest people I know have a flower and herb farm that sell their products at a farmer's market.
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(1) Family and community have already degenerated. This doesn't mean that I am advocating some "traditional family". I think some changes to the family such as gender equality, equal rights for GLBT and other alternative family forms, and so forth are wonderful and important. But at the same time as these good things have been happening, we have been losing other types of ties that would be helpful and important. The definition of friendship in a 1755 dictionary was "the highest degree of intimacy," and friends today who expressed devotion, affection, or interest in shared projects in the way that is traditional would be marked as "clingy" by our current culture that sees most friendships as temporary. Meanwhile, the definition of family itself has of course changed to focus on spouse and children rather than including aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. So this process is well under way.
(2) In my life I have noticed you don't have to be attached to material things to behave in a way very similar to "materialism." Instead of going after flashy cars and houses, a lot of liberals I know go after an endless series of university degrees, or travel, or moving frequently in search of "themselves," etc. And they have no time for friends either, or for "smelling the roses" as it were, and look down on the people who value such things in much the same way as the house-and-car devotees. It's not so much that getting lots of degrees or traveling a lot is BAD, as that the people who do so so often look down on people who make the decision to make time for friends and community. They think we aren't ambitious enough, and don't realize how much they sound like somebody with a Lexus who is sneering at your reliable old Honda Civic.
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The vast majority of America feels the need to compete with the "neighbors/friends/strangers" for the perceived status that certain objects give them. I have to many friends that can't even live paycheck to paycheck. If you havn't seen them for a bit, they always tell you about all the neat new things that they purchased. I'm usually silent at times like that.
I've lived my entire life this way, some say cheaply, I say smart. I have most of the normal objects that people have but I don't go overboard and I research everything before I make a purchase to make sure its the best quality vs $$.
I got tired of working stupid jobs to pay for college and refused to take out loans so I joined the Air National Guard which payed for college. I managed to get my Bachalors & Masters degree with zero debt and without my parents paying for it either. I'm rather proud of that.
When it came time to purchase a place to live I skipped the 2500+ sf houses that everyone else was buying and instead bought a small 745 sf condo with cash I had saved up. Without children I had no need of all that space. Who wants to pay taxes, heat and cool all of that anyway?
Even a family of 4 has no need for a $30,000+ vehicle. My used 4 door, 155,000 mile Acura Integra gets me from point A to B just as well as your SUV does and MUCH more cheaply.
My life is very free BECAUSE I have no debt. Its not without its drawbacks tho. Because I am free of financial burdans, I do tend to leave jobs to easily (in Houston Texas). Its always because the owner starts lying and trying manipulate the employees. I have yet to get a job that I believe in tho I am still trying.
Just live smartly, not cheaply.
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Dr. Whybrow hit on one of the greatest reasons as to why our gluttonous culture persists: advertising. How many people realize that when they have watched four hours of television, they have actually been influenced by ONE FULL HOUR of advertising? Add to that the advertising that tumbles out of every envelope we open and every publication we read, that is plastered on thousands of billboards, storefonts, public transportation, and now private autos, and it's a miracle we're as balanced as we are.
We're being screamed at by advertisers every waking minute of every single day, and we fail to see the insanity of this because it has accumulated so gradually, much like the experiment where a frog in water will not try to escape and will end up boiling to death, if you just raise the temperature gradually enough. Our collective temperature is continuing to gradually rise as well, and like Dr. Whybrow, I fear that if we cannot bring it down, this fever will not break until it kills the patient.
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We need not return to only communion with family and friends to be happy. A bit of moderation is needed and there is a lot to be gained by exploring what our abilities and intellect can achieve when given ample freedom to choose our activities.
The real culprit in the change we see is the ability to travel and communicate rapidly. We should take advantage of this to experience other cultures and attitudes and discourse with people of widely varying opinions and experience instead of remaining mired in ancient religions and close family and clan relationships. A quick look at the red and blue states say a lot about who has achieved more freedom and what they are doing with it.
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The u turn I made today was to get rid of my cell phone and go with a simple land line. Tommorrow I don't know, but what will be your u turn for the day?
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and Father Fox [ A NEW REFORMATION www.WisdomUniversity.org] agrees that we are here to love life.
Maybe you can read Walt Whitman? He understands the soul as a lover-physical and sexual.
I think so too.
the institution just doesn't get it.
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Perhaps the poorer people can only afford a high-carb diet and because they may work 2 or 3 jobs don't exactly have the opportunity or bucks to spend quality time at the gym.
Overall the article is dead on, but this last bit was just short of racist. Classism must still be PC.
Grrrrr
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And there is plenty of other evidence: Several years ago the LA Times reported a survey of bankers and financial services personnel who had control of people's assets. The question was posed to them: If they could steal every penny from a retired couple, leaving them to die destitute, but no one would ever know, would they do it? The results of the survey were that 70% of the respondents replied that they would indeed rip off the poor senior citizens if assured they could get away with it.
According to the United States Government, in 1940, there was no resolve by the American people to help the Jews being slaughtered in the Holocaust. At this time the most hated people in the United States were Jews, even though the average American at that time had never met one.
Although it is well understood that the automobile congests and pollutes the air of every major metropolitan area in the United States, contributing to health problems of millions of Americans, and 40,000 to 50,000 people die a year in auto accidents, when given the choice to take mass transit, most Americans easily choose their cars, and, oh yeah, give me that 11 mpg SUV!
It should never be forgotten that we are a nation founded on the slaughter of an indigenous people and an economy ignited and fueled for over 200 years by the most brutal enslavement of fellow human beings known to man. We are the fruit of the poisonous tree.
Americans will not change until their greed and self absorption crush them like a bat smack on the head, but even then they will probably still just blame everyone but themselves for the choices that they made. Unfortunately for all the decent Americans, of whom there still are many, America is truly reaping what it has sown.
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Isn't that just as dangerous (and by implication from what the good doctor writes, as sick) as our consumerism? If we consume five times more than the rest of the world (say, measured individually; don't quote my numbers) then those with a five-fold growth in mouths to feed are keeping up with us -- in a way. Just a different kind of a rat race.
If you think about it, without a future, there is no present, only memories for the old, and a rat race for those with nothing yet worth remembering. Someone once wrote a book about it, in the early '70s, as "The Pursuit of Loneliness." How did "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" become loneliness?
Just asking.
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Through my early 20s, I focused on either wasting my money on material possesions or in escapist entertainment all while convincing myself that one day I would magically have affluence fall in my lap.
It hasn't happened. Why? Because I haven't had the discipline, work ethic and willingness to sacrifice to make a secure financial future for myself, that's the problem with my generation.
The only difference the middle class person and most of the so called affluent is the latter group's ability to shoulder a bigger debt load and finance fancier toys. When the economy melts down and jobs are dissappearing, most people, including the doctors and lawyers, will be a few paychecks away from a serious wakeup call.
The danger is that so many people have so little net worth.
If you were to do some homework you would find that many 'upper class people' have little savings or investments, have little or no fincancial discipline, and have no contingency plans. The middle class and poor have bought into this as well, just look at the thriving payday loan, and 'bad credit/no credit loan' industries serving the poor segments of society.
So now that I have realized that most people who look affluent are really just indebtted, I don't feel so bad.
My lack of serious debt is not because of any nose-to-the grindstone work ethic and frugality, it's mostly because I screwed my credit at a young age, and no one will grant me any. In the long run I do feel this is really for the best because now if I want something I have to save for it. I'm like a 10 yr old kid learning the value of a dollar, squirrelling away my allowance in a jar for a new bike. Well when I get my new bike, it will be mine, and I won't have paid any interest to Citigroup.
Do yourselves a favour and get rid of your credit cards, store cards and gas cards. Go back over your bank and credit statements for the last 6 months and ask yourself how much was necessary and how much, if discretionary purchases, really contributed to your life meaningfully.
Then go to the library and borrow a book, some good fiction, not a self-help book. You do remember how to read don't you?
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This was comforting to read (not that I enjoy bad news!) but it confirmed for me that I'm alright and that I'm not the only American noticing this tendency.
Just a brief story: in business settings one is often asked "How are you?" and I always answer "Ok" or "alright" because that's honestly how I feel most of the time - somewhere in the middle. But this answer is rarely good enough! Most people are never satisfied with that answer and they say things "Just ok? That's too bad." or "OK? Are you satisfied with that?" I usually just offer a pathetic smile because I am confused about when being ok became a bad thing - but this article gave me the answer!
In Scandinavia, people see the middle of the emotional scale as a good place to be and when I was living there I found that boring at times (and it is), but now I miss that calm.
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I just saw an ad on the Weather Channel this morning... instead of dialing up on your cell (which I am really getting sick of seeing people connected to) to get 'ringtones'
(which I think is one of the most pathetic examples of getting people to spend their money), you can now dial up and "GET SOME FRIENDS OR A POTENTIAL LOVER." You are guaranteed at least 10 calls from within your area to come in to your cell.
Wow! I could only think, there must be some very, very pathetically empty and greedy-ass people out there to think up this shit and that goes ditto for the ones who would actually make the calls.
What will "they" think of next to get people to part with their money and put it into "their" pockets?????
That's just outa control!!
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Must one HAVE something to know happiness?
Must one DO something to know peace?
Or can one just BE peaceful and happy?
I'm not saying that everyone needs to dump all their comforts and run off to become a monk, but rather that we are more mindful about our choices, and the impact they have on our individual and collective well-being.
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Take care everybody.
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I don't know that it is envy as much as a perception of the norm. Zoning laws encourage this. A norm of lot size, square footage etc. define a community. How does one in those communities model a less consumptive lifestyle?
We in this country are and are surrounded by "consumers". How do we get a better sense of how the rest of the world lives and consumes and more to the point how do we create a desire to be more like them?
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Hours of connections to technology; computers and cars removes us from the awe nature/creation can fill us with when we slow down, make friends with silence and go within.
When we meditate/think/reflect we become grateful for what we have and freed from desires of what we have not.
Pres. Bush's advice after 9/11 to American's who wanted to do something to help, was that they should go shoppping. Many of us did not:
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Observing the Fast
I shall keep my fast
Until I know my hunger
Called by its true name,
Not what it seems to be.
Is it comfort?
Is it pleasure?
Is it power?
Is it fame?
Anything may fill
But not all satisfies.
Endlessly feasting,
Still might I starve.
Is it healing?
Is it vision?
Is it justice?
Is it peace?
The pangs grow sharp.
Is it wisdom?
Is it faith?
Muscles tremble.
Is it hope?
Is it love?
Empty rumblings
Beg for satisfaction.
Grace names my hunger:
Oh, God!
Mary Lennard
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So many good points were brought up. Let me see if I can address 3 like the classic college essay, before I go on my way.
Ok, the first one as stated in the title. It is good to reminded of this normalcy. I am a second generation Bay Area native, meaning my mom was born here. My daughter was born here. I still live here. It is easy to lament my lack of opportunity to travel, but really I am like most of the world's population...So that was heartening to hear.
"People are not supposed to eat all day and take no exercise"
I have to express gratitude for my parents who have been runners for my whole life and who instilled in me a practice of healthful diet and exercise. I was fortunate to have a mother who studied nutrition in the university as well as made everything from scratch and shopped in health food stores. Reading this article made me grateful for my differences...My parents always made me exercise every day when I was growing up...and got on my case about my diet if it was poor, particulary if I ate too many carbohydrates! Yep that is right...my mom would not allow it, and this was way before low-carb diets were hip.
"We're the biggest debtor in the world now" - again I was raised not to go in to debt, my parents and my paternal grandmother do not believe in that. I made the mistake of selling out my own values for a marriage, but I will never do that again. Reading this article made me appreciate my strong stand against going in to debt for my education, I refuse. I am thankful I have not been infected by this American mentality, even though I live here.
It was great to see this thoughtful, well written article. I hope I do not offend any one with my comment. I am re-sponding as I see fit. Nor do I wish to come across as bragging, for that is not my intention. It is only to tell my story.
Oly
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More than an hour a day on the web is irritating your brain cells and taking away from real life. TV is designed to make you dissatisfied with real life so you'll buy STUFF. It used to be that 90% of Americans grew food. Now it's about 5%. That makes the other 95% dependent on the for-profit distribution system (the farmers still don't make any money). Does anybody out there feel like a kid who never learned anything important because they were too busy being entertained? Go get some seeds and start a garden (well, plan it for next spring). Wear something you made yourself. Tell your kids stories instead of puting on a dvd. LIVE, don't just watch fake stuff full of come-ons for STUFF!
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The impact this has on the middle class, in particuar, covered in Barbara Ehrenreich's "Fear of Falling", is quite unnerving. The chasm opening up in the middle class between poverty (more likely because of the prevailing acceptablity of debt) and the upper class of secure financial levels of our society is driven by this erosion of values and social conciousness by consumerism. This leaves an unexamined acceptance of superficial appearances over a fundamental understanding of personal financial security. This will be tragic as the consequences of the vanishing social support network become apparent over the next decade.
Of interest to this psychologist might be a book which delves into this mindset, which was termed "sociopathic" in a book written in 1985 by Alexander Lowen, M.D., "Narcissism". This author was writing as an older professional, expressing serious concern about the cultural changes at the time that were fuelling a narcisisstic world view that corrupted the underpinnings of older value systems which emphasized a coherent world view grounded in financial and social realities. This was apparent even then as the absence of limits or structure which fostered a consumerism instead of focussing on the value of human relationships and structures. It very much reflected an older generational view of the post-1970 era of rebellion against constrictive cultural norms.
I agree that the post-WWII era created a massive cultural change that came out of a reaction to the rationing of war and the earlier 1930's depression that the US soldiers had grown up with, creating an incredible forward momentum during the Kennedy years to grow the country with international policies, winning the space race, and winning the race to wealth. Who knew it would come to this?
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Posted by: aswgt@ix.netcom.com on Aug 26, 2005 8:37 AM
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OK, I sympathize. I can see why Dr. Whybrow would want to become an Author. Psychiatry is a depressing, underpaid profession. And then there's the jokes
"I wear this stethasope to I can sit with the other doctors in the lunchroom."
What do you call a Psychiatrist? The waste of a perfectly good physician !!
So if a Psychiatrist decides he'd rather write a superficial book about pop-sociology ... then for example about, oh, "Cognative treatiment of TeenAge Depression -- What a Parent Can Do" ... well, there's so many CSWs writing books on mental illness and what to do about it -- why not?
A Shrink's-eye view of America might be interesting ... about a useful as a Cop's-eye view ... narrowly focussed, but distorted. Neither profession is encouraged to read literature or philosophy except to find convenient labels for bad behaviors. And now, the DSM IV relieves Pschiatrists of knowing even that much Liberal Arts. In fact, these days, they are pretty much required to reject subjectivite analysis and describe their cases entirely in terms of DSM diagnostic criteria check lists and number coded pathologies.
Unbeknownst to them, over on the other side of Campus, out of sight of the pre-Med majors, the Lib Arts underdergrads have been vaporing about the evils of consumerism
"Getting and spending we lay waste our powers
"Too little in Nature we see that is ours "
-- and of over eating -- for the past 150 years at least.
Plato was sermonizing on the lazy, materialistic, over-eating lifestyle of his fellow Athenians circa 375 years BCE. ... as every Hippie and Buddhist missionary will point out, given half a chance.
Oh well. Publishing is a crazy business ... but it might make a welcome change for a psychiatrist.
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For moreinformation on how to drop out of the unwinnable rat race, check out "www.simpleliving.net".
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I LIKE things, I LIKE owning stuff, I'm not a punk rocker and I have no soul. If material things are all that makes me happy, thats just how I am. But being creative, artistic, and expressing my appreciation for the world makes me happy too, and I suspect that with all the talk of family and the like, artistic creativity and the like would be even more despised by this person and those who agree with him than the most excessive consumerism.
Refraining from consumption means depriving myself not only from the tools I need for artistic expression, but the manifestations of culture, such as comics, music, film, manga, anime, travel, food, information, learning, and experience.
I won't give up my freedom and my ability to artistically express myself in the name of anti consumerism, and I'll never stop being gay just to embrace right wing family values in the name of anti consumerism either. This person would probably have us return to a legally enforced "sabbath".
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I just wanted to add basically a compliment to a few thing said in regard to the powers that be and how they influence consumerism in America.
Industry and government in America require rampant capitalism to sustain the current economy. Our whole US business structure is built upon us buying stuff. But US business is now floating on air. Air that is created by the action of consumerism. If consumerism slows down enough the force of air created by that consumerism diminishes enough business will come crashing down along with the economy. Rampant capitalism requires and ever growing consumption of resources and products. Nothing is eternal and everything has limits. But capitalism ignores this fact and believes it can sustain itself.
With this in mind it is the job of industry and government to sell the idea that we need to consume all kinds of products. That competition is the only way for an economy to function. That socialistic principles do not function.
The author does not maintain that the out of control consumerism is only a result of the minds of the people thankfully. The high level of irresponsible consumerism is mostly caused by the exploitation of the natural weakness of the human mind by industry and government as it serves their purpose for creating wealth.
Sure we have a responsibility to ourselves. We make our choices but we are constantly bombarded with advertisements and propaganda to support our continued buying of objects we don't need.
This doesn't mean that we should stop buying stuff completely and join a cloistered religious group or live in communes. Please do if you wish of course. But we should ask ourselves if what we are buying is really what we need. Or is how we live our life compliant to a sustainable future for ourselves and our descendants.
To me, the authors article is just a call to question what we do. Buy that DVD if you really like the movie. But is the box recycleable if the DVD goes bad? Do you really need to own Gigli? Or is it just an impulse?
Do you want a car that doesn't use gasoline and doesn't produce pollution or do you want a hummer that gets under 10mpg at times?
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Some of the happiest people I know have a flower and herb farm that sell their products at a farmer's market.
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(1) Family and community have already degenerated. This doesn't mean that I am advocating some "traditional family". I think some changes to the family such as gender equality, equal rights for GLBT and other alternative family forms, and so forth are wonderful and important. But at the same time as these good things have been happening, we have been losing other types of ties that would be helpful and important. The definition of friendship in a 1755 dictionary was "the highest degree of intimacy," and friends today who expressed devotion, affection, or interest in shared projects in the way that is traditional would be marked as "clingy" by our current culture that sees most friendships as temporary. Meanwhile, the definition of family itself has of course changed to focus on spouse and children rather than including aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. So this process is well under way.
(2) In my life I have noticed you don't have to be attached to material things to behave in a way very similar to "materialism." Instead of going after flashy cars and houses, a lot of liberals I know go after an endless series of university degrees, or travel, or moving frequently in search of "themselves," etc. And they have no time for friends either, or for "smelling the roses" as it were, and look down on the people who value such things in much the same way as the house-and-car devotees. It's not so much that getting lots of degrees or traveling a lot is BAD, as that the people who do so so often look down on people who make the decision to make time for friends and community. They think we aren't ambitious enough, and don't realize how much they sound like somebody with a Lexus who is sneering at your reliable old Honda Civic.
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Posted by: Toff on Aug 26, 2005 11:00 AM
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The vast majority of America feels the need to compete with the "neighbors/friends/strangers" for the perceived status that certain objects give them. I have to many friends that can't even live paycheck to paycheck. If you havn't seen them for a bit, they always tell you about all the neat new things that they purchased. I'm usually silent at times like that.
I've lived my entire life this way, some say cheaply, I say smart. I have most of the normal objects that people have but I don't go overboard and I research everything before I make a purchase to make sure its the best quality vs $$.
I got tired of working stupid jobs to pay for college and refused to take out loans so I joined the Air National Guard which payed for college. I managed to get my Bachalors & Masters degree with zero debt and without my parents paying for it either. I'm rather proud of that.
When it came time to purchase a place to live I skipped the 2500+ sf houses that everyone else was buying and instead bought a small 745 sf condo with cash I had saved up. Without children I had no need of all that space. Who wants to pay taxes, heat and cool all of that anyway?
Even a family of 4 has no need for a $30,000+ vehicle. My used 4 door, 155,000 mile Acura Integra gets me from point A to B just as well as your SUV does and MUCH more cheaply.
My life is very free BECAUSE I have no debt. Its not without its drawbacks tho. Because I am free of financial burdans, I do tend to leave jobs to easily (in Houston Texas). Its always because the owner starts lying and trying manipulate the employees. I have yet to get a job that I believe in tho I am still trying.
Just live smartly, not cheaply.
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Posted by: monkeywrench on Aug 26, 2005 11:05 AM
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Dr. Whybrow hit on one of the greatest reasons as to why our gluttonous culture persists: advertising. How many people realize that when they have watched four hours of television, they have actually been influenced by ONE FULL HOUR of advertising? Add to that the advertising that tumbles out of every envelope we open and every publication we read, that is plastered on thousands of billboards, storefonts, public transportation, and now private autos, and it's a miracle we're as balanced as we are.
We're being screamed at by advertisers every waking minute of every single day, and we fail to see the insanity of this because it has accumulated so gradually, much like the experiment where a frog in water will not try to escape and will end up boiling to death, if you just raise the temperature gradually enough. Our collective temperature is continuing to gradually rise as well, and like Dr. Whybrow, I fear that if we cannot bring it down, this fever will not break until it kills the patient.
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Posted by: eaanders on Aug 26, 2005 11:13 AM
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We need not return to only communion with family and friends to be happy. A bit of moderation is needed and there is a lot to be gained by exploring what our abilities and intellect can achieve when given ample freedom to choose our activities.
The real culprit in the change we see is the ability to travel and communicate rapidly. We should take advantage of this to experience other cultures and attitudes and discourse with people of widely varying opinions and experience instead of remaining mired in ancient religions and close family and clan relationships. A quick look at the red and blue states say a lot about who has achieved more freedom and what they are doing with it.
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Posted by: ande3 on Aug 26, 2005 1:37 PM
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The u turn I made today was to get rid of my cell phone and go with a simple land line. Tommorrow I don't know, but what will be your u turn for the day?
nahurry gibber gibber...
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Posted by: eileen_flmng on Aug 26, 2005 1:52 PM
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and Father Fox [ A NEW REFORMATION www.WisdomUniversity.org] agrees that we are here to love life.
Maybe you can read Walt Whitman? He understands the soul as a lover-physical and sexual.
I think so too.
the institution just doesn't get it.
www.wearewideawake.org
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Posted by: Nheduanna on Aug 26, 2005 2:41 PM
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Perhaps the poorer people can only afford a high-carb diet and because they may work 2 or 3 jobs don't exactly have the opportunity or bucks to spend quality time at the gym.
Overall the article is dead on, but this last bit was just short of racist. Classism must still be PC.
Grrrrr
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Posted by: moenbailey on Aug 26, 2005 6:09 PM
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And there is plenty of other evidence: Several years ago the LA Times reported a survey of bankers and financial services personnel who had control of people's assets. The question was posed to them: If they could steal every penny from a retired couple, leaving them to die destitute, but no one would ever know, would they do it? The results of the survey were that 70% of the respondents replied that they would indeed rip off the poor senior citizens if assured they could get away with it.
According to the United States Government, in 1940, there was no resolve by the American people to help the Jews being slaughtered in the Holocaust. At this time the most hated people in the United States were Jews, even though the average American at that time had never met one.
Although it is well understood that the automobile congests and pollutes the air of every major metropolitan area in the United States, contributing to health problems of millions of Americans, and 40,000 to 50,000 people die a year in auto accidents, when given the choice to take mass transit, most Americans easily choose their cars, and, oh yeah, give me that 11 mpg SUV!
It should never be forgotten that we are a nation founded on the slaughter of an indigenous people and an economy ignited and fueled for over 200 years by the most brutal enslavement of fellow human beings known to man. We are the fruit of the poisonous tree.
Americans will not change until their greed and self absorption crush them like a bat smack on the head, but even then they will probably still just blame everyone but themselves for the choices that they made. Unfortunately for all the decent Americans, of whom there still are many, America is truly reaping what it has sown.
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Posted by: Sojourner on Aug 26, 2005 10:05 PM
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Isn't that just as dangerous (and by implication from what the good doctor writes, as sick) as our consumerism? If we consume five times more than the rest of the world (say, measured individually; don't quote my numbers) then those with a five-fold growth in mouths to feed are keeping up with us -- in a way. Just a different kind of a rat race.
If you think about it, without a future, there is no present, only memories for the old, and a rat race for those with nothing yet worth remembering. Someone once wrote a book about it, in the early '70s, as "The Pursuit of Loneliness." How did "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" become loneliness?
Just asking.
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Posted by: 404080 on Aug 26, 2005 10:52 PM
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Through my early 20s, I focused on either wasting my money on material possesions or in escapist entertainment all while convincing myself that one day I would magically have affluence fall in my lap.
It hasn't happened. Why? Because I haven't had the discipline, work ethic and willingness to sacrifice to make a secure financial future for myself, that's the problem with my generation.
The only difference the middle class person and most of the so called affluent is the latter group's ability to shoulder a bigger debt load and finance fancier toys. When the economy melts down and jobs are dissappearing, most people, including the doctors and lawyers, will be a few paychecks away from a serious wakeup call.
The danger is that so many people have so little net worth.
If you were to do some homework you would find that many 'upper class people' have little savings or investments, have little or no fincancial discipline, and have no contingency plans. The middle class and poor have bought into this as well, just look at the thriving payday loan, and 'bad credit/no credit loan' industries serving the poor segments of society.
So now that I have realized that most people who look affluent are really just indebtted, I don't feel so bad.
My lack of serious debt is not because of any nose-to-the grindstone work ethic and frugality, it's mostly because I screwed my credit at a young age, and no one will grant me any. In the long run I do feel this is really for the best because now if I want something I have to save for it. I'm like a 10 yr old kid learning the value of a dollar, squirrelling away my allowance in a jar for a new bike. Well when I get my new bike, it will be mine, and I won't have paid any interest to Citigroup.
Do yourselves a favour and get rid of your credit cards, store cards and gas cards. Go back over your bank and credit statements for the last 6 months and ask yourself how much was necessary and how much, if discretionary purchases, really contributed to your life meaningfully.
Then go to the library and borrow a book, some good fiction, not a self-help book. You do remember how to read don't you?
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Posted by: philame on Aug 27, 2005 6:37 AM
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This was comforting to read (not that I enjoy bad news!) but it confirmed for me that I'm alright and that I'm not the only American noticing this tendency.
Just a brief story: in business settings one is often asked "How are you?" and I always answer "Ok" or "alright" because that's honestly how I feel most of the time - somewhere in the middle. But this answer is rarely good enough! Most people are never satisfied with that answer and they say things "Just ok? That's too bad." or "OK? Are you satisfied with that?" I usually just offer a pathetic smile because I am confused about when being ok became a bad thing - but this article gave me the answer!
In Scandinavia, people see the middle of the emotional scale as a good place to be and when I was living there I found that boring at times (and it is), but now I miss that calm.
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Posted by: fedupamerican on Aug 27, 2005 9:44 AM
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I just saw an ad on the Weather Channel this morning... instead of dialing up on your cell (which I am really getting sick of seeing people connected to) to get 'ringtones'
(which I think is one of the most pathetic examples of getting people to spend their money), you can now dial up and "GET SOME FRIENDS OR A POTENTIAL LOVER." You are guaranteed at least 10 calls from within your area to come in to your cell.
Wow! I could only think, there must be some very, very pathetically empty and greedy-ass people out there to think up this shit and that goes ditto for the ones who would actually make the calls.
What will "they" think of next to get people to part with their money and put it into "their" pockets?????
That's just outa control!!
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Posted by: churchofone on Aug 30, 2005 12:26 PM
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Must one HAVE something to know happiness?
Must one DO something to know peace?
Or can one just BE peaceful and happy?
I'm not saying that everyone needs to dump all their comforts and run off to become a monk, but rather that we are more mindful about our choices, and the impact they have on our individual and collective well-being.
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