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Why Is the Media So Obsessed With Horrifying Images of African-American Mothers?

With Michelle Obama in the White House, I expected a resurgence of the Claire Huxtable stereotype. Instead, hideous depictions of abusive, irresponsible black moms are everywhere.
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Bad black mothers are everywhere these days.

With Michelle Obama in the White House, consciously and conspicuously serving as mom-in-chief, I expected (even somewhat dreaded) a resurgence of Claire Huxtable images of black motherhood: effortless glamor, professional success, measured wit, firm guidance, loving partnership, and the calm reassurance that American women can, in fact, have it all.

Instead the news is currently dominated by horrifying images of African American mothers.

Most ubiquitous is the near universally celebrated performance of Mo'Nique in the new film Precious. Critically and popularly acclaimed Precious is the film adaption of the novel Push. It is the story of an illiterate, obese, dark-skinned, teenager who is pregnant, for the second time, with her rapist father's child. (Think The Color Purple in a 1980s inner-city rather than 1930s rural Georgia)

At the core of the film is Precious' unimaginably brutal mother. She is an unredeemed monster who brutalizes her daughter verbally, emotionally, physically and sexually. This mother pimps both her daughter and the government. Stealing her daughter's childhood and her welfare payments.

Just as Precious was opening to national audiences a real-life corollary emerged in the news cycle, when 5-year-old Shaniya Davis was found dead along a roadside in North Carolina. Her mother, a 25-year-old woman with a history of drug abuse, has been arrested on charges of child trafficking. The charges allege that this mother offered her 5-year-old daughter for sex with adult men.

Yet another black mother made headlines in the past week, when U.S. soldier, Alexis Hutchinson, refused to report for deployment to Afghanistan. Hutchinson is a single mother of an infant, and was unable to find suitable care for her son before she was deployed. She had initially turned to her own mother who found it impossible to care for the child because of prior caregiver commitments. Stuck without reasonable accommodations, Hutchinson chose not to deploy. Hutchinson's son was temporally placed in foster care. She faces charges and possible jail time.

These stories are a reminder, that for African American women, reproduction has never been an entirely private matter.

Nobel Laureate, Toni Morrison, chose the stories of enslaved black mothers to depict the most horrifying effects of American slavery. In her novel, Beloved, Morrison reveals the unimaginable pain some black mothers experienced because their children were profitable for their enslavers. Enslaved black women did not birth children; they produced units for sale, measurable in labor contributions. Despite the patrilineal norm that governed free society, enslaved mothers were forced to pass along their enslaved status to their infants; ensuring intergenerational chattel bondage was the first inheritance black mothers gave to black children in America.

As free citizens black women's reproduction was no longer directly tied to profits. In this new context, black mothers became the object of fierce eugenics efforts. Black women, depicted as sexually insatiable breeders, are adaptive for a slave holding society but not for the new context of freedom. Black women's assumed lasciviousness and rampant reproduction became threatening. In Killing the Black Body, law professor, Dorothy Roberts, explains how the state employed involuntary sterilization, pressure to submit to long-term birth control, and restriction of state benefits for large families as a means to control black women's reproduction.

At the turn of the century many public reformers held African American women particularly accountable for the "degenerative conditions" of the race. Black women were blamed for being insufficient housekeepers, inattentive mothers, and poor educators of their children. Because women were supposed to maintain society's moral order, any claim about rampant disorder was a burden laid specifically at women's feet.

In a 1904 pamphlet "Experiences of the Race problem. By a Southern White Woman" the author claims of black women, "They are the greatest menace possible to the moral life of any community where they live. And they are evidently the chief instruments of the degradation of the men of their own race. When a man's mother, wife, and daughters are all immoral women, there is no room in his fallen nature for the aspirations of honor and virtue…I cannot imagine such a creation as a virtuous black woman."


Melissa Harris-Lacewell, an associate professor of politics and African-American studies at Princeton University, is completing her latest book, Sister Citizen: A Text for Colored Girls Who've Considered Politics When Being Strong Isn't Enough.
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Writer-For-Yeshua
Posted by: Writer-For-Yeshua on Nov 30, 2009 2:38 AM   
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Thanks to the author for this article. I'm with you 100% to do all possible to remove the unfair and bogus stigma that's associated with Black motherhood. The fact is that Black women in general have always had to do more for their race than any other. This stigma that is superimposed on their fine and noble achievements stems from the black chattel slavery era in the good ole U.S.A.! However, as an informed and realistic Black man, I don't see any profit in trying to persuade older White Americans of the nobleness of Black American women. They already know the truth! However, perpetuating this groundless indictment somehow soothes their conscious when they are fully aware of the sad mistreatment and disrespect thrust upon Black women in this country. Many of the finest and successful White Americans were raised by Black nannies! Instead of appreciating this indisputable fact, the American media and Hollywood have given that TV role to petite White women who have never cooked a meal in their lives nor raised any children! Yes! this disrespect and "no-thank-you" attitude towards our beautiful Black women is displayed without pretension in the good ole USA! As I close I must add however, that the two primary elements of American society that need to stand up for and respect Black women are the Black men and Black male teenagers! We older Black men need to step up to the plate and lead the way in this endeavor. In 2010, I'll be launching a few blogs towards this end and others. One of my short articles is titled: "Super Black Woman or just Super Tired?" Email your requests for the article to: Writer-For-Yeshua@att.net. Again, thanks to the author who wrote this timely article.

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Posted by: Wendiego on Nov 30, 2009 3:47 AM   
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The woman who pimped out her 5-year-old and let her get murdered deserves EVERY OUNCE of "Oh why!," no matter her color.

As for "Precious," it's getting a lot of praise even from within African-American communities. Sadly, there ARE familes whose lives are like that... black or not.

As for the young soldier who didn't want to deploy due to having an infant son, I don't see how she falls into a "stereotype of terrible black mother." I wouldn't have been very eager to deploy either if I were in her situation. She just happens to be black.

Terrible and abusive parents know no color boundary or generation. It's been going on for thousands of years and will probably always be with us.

I don't really see that there is an overabundance of black women doing bad things being reported in the media. These are women doing bad things, who also happen to be black. I'm sure if a person looked they could find several instances in the last month where a white woman treated her children wrong... it's not going to be me who Googles it though, I'm about fed up with the world.

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Great Insight ...
Posted by: mmckinl on Nov 30, 2009 3:58 AM   
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Yep, the welfare mother driving her Cadillac to pick up her welfare check. That was the Ronald Reagan take, even though after a through search and none could be found, the image stuck.

Much of what can be said about the poor in general is true, sad to say. The sheer weight of years of poverty. The ubiquitous images that flood media of the poor, those deemed unattractive and certainly blacks have all but retrofitted the American subconscious with stereotypes.

Being poor and not gifted or good looking leads to a poor self image and a poor circumstance in life. Being "hard" is about the only way to survive otherwise you will be torn to pieces. You might as well flaunt the framework because there is no changing what has been already decided.

The bifurcated image of black women is still in play as the media talk about Michelle's tight arms or the dress she wore to the state dinner. Condie was a favorite show piece. Oprah, pudding proof that success is just around the corner.

But such are the frames of our collective incoherence broadcast to excite the hopeless hope, schadenfreude, fear and trepidation that make us good consumers of a Common Wisdom that enslaves us all for easy manipulation.

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Until The Mass Migration Of Hispanics
Posted by: desidid on Nov 30, 2009 5:19 AM   
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black women were raising white children to feed black ones. Funny how a nation that experienced that dichotomy for hundreds of years failed to see the white mother without a job, as the example of bad parenting. So vain and entitled that she couldn't be bothered to rear her own children, while depriving black ones of theirs because the bulk of her day was spent caring for another family. And many black women were grateful that those white women didn't or couldn't care for their own families, because it afforded them the ability to feed theirs.

Today Hispanic women and European au pairs have replaced black women in white homes. And they have done it without the stigma black women had to carry. Ah America your history is the lie that keeps on giving.

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We Ought to Beseige Michelle Obama
Posted by: Urstrly on Nov 30, 2009 5:36 AM   
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I think Michelle Obama's program of support for military families is one of the most substantial things to come out of the White House in years, and I think she should be pressed to stand up for the mother who refused deployment to care for her son. The idea that he would be taken away from her enrages me. If we want women to serve in the military, we need to support their families, not destroy them.

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Must everything be black and white?
Posted by: I imagine on Nov 30, 2009 5:45 AM   
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You write: "it is not accidental that the abuse and murder of Shaniya Davis captured the American media cycle just as Precious opened. The sickening acts of Shaniya's mother become the story that underlines and makes tangible, believable, and credible the jaw-dropping horror of Mo'Nique's character."

Are you suggesting it was a white, male conspiracy that made these two events happen in close proximity? I'm sorry but your attempts to logically link a real life monster with a fictional monster based on real life experience with an unfortunate soldier and good mother, and even with Sara Palin for godsake, are a real stretch.

And to what end? If the idea is to show that Americans see black mothers as monsters, how do you explain the love affair Americans currently have with their first lady? Not since Jackie Kennedy have we been so enthralled with a first lady. Take the "black" out of your supposition and you don't have one.

Would you rather hide the monsters among us if they happen to be black? I think that only by exposing them will the innocent victims see that their situations aren't normal and that there are ways to escape the hell they were born into.

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Oh, I dunno...
Posted by: westomoon on Nov 30, 2009 5:55 AM   
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Why Is the Media So Obsessed With Horrifying Images of African-American Mothers?

Oh, maybe for the same reason that the media breathlessly parrots every wheeze from the crazed has-beens Dick Cheney and Sarah Palin? Maybe for the same reason that small teabagger demonstrations get dramatic close-up and personal coverage, while huge protests are ignored or reported as tiresome acting up? Could it be that the media is still comfortable getting its scripts from the far right? Or perhaps it's a simple matter of mega-corporate monopoly ownership of the media.

Nonetheless, thanks to Melissa Harris-Lacewell for pointing out the torrent of weird, obsessive coverage of these small, ugly stories. In my little town, there is a hideous small tale of a young (white) teen girl whose (white) tweaker mom pimped her out for meth, and even our local paper has barely covered it -- very different from the slavering, repetitive, nationwide coverage of these small sad stories involving black moms.

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The results of social engineering...
Posted by: Prinzowhales on Nov 30, 2009 6:36 AM   
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What is happening in the black community is happening in the white community. When you break down the fabric of society as foundation supported 'change agents' have been busy doing for decades, this is part and parcel of what happens. Materialism, un-controlled appetite and moral relativity have a price...what's the matter?-- don't like paying it?

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"black" is becoming a self designated class
Posted by: billwald on Nov 30, 2009 9:31 AM   
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at least on the Left Coast. Out here half the "black" people have lighter skins than Italians. In the Seattle area half the people who self identify as "black" are, pragmatically, white trash.

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This is a great example of creating racism out of thin air paranoid imagionations
Posted by: jonathanseer on Nov 30, 2009 10:27 AM   
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There is no connection between the state of the property value of slave children and the Black person today in terms of treatment, if only for the fact that 90% of NON-Black Americans are so utterly ignorant of the history required to think that way.

America IS NOT EMBRACING Monique's character. America is fascinated by her character as one is fascinated by roadkill.

Those types who might immediately think she's the portrayal of the penultimate Black woman are NOT THE TYPE of people who'd pay to go see a movie like this, because it would forgo a six pack and a night of reruns on TV in their cozy trailer.


This author is guilty of stereotyping more than any she accuses.

She blinded to any other perspective by an overwhelming sense of "blackness" that everything about an African American is defined by their Blackness INCLUDING the views of everyone who is NOT Black.

She assumes for ALL AMERICA (mostly White that is)and she assumes ALL America is celebrating Monique's character, when they loathe it every bit as much as she does.

Their fascination stems from thing hers does, Monique does a great job performing an odious role, and succeeds far beyond most people's imagination of what such a person would be like.

It was NOT BLACK MOTHERHOOD or BLACK MOTHERS who were blamed.

That sort of "re-telling" is a lie as big as any told by the Extremist Right Wing.


As a result of poverty and as an extended result of 'culturally rooted racism" in society Many Black families struggled with only one parent, usually a "Single Mother."

In a society that strongly believes the best and only good home model for raising children is the two parent (man and woman) household, it should be no surprise that single-parenting would be the seen as the cause for a group's failings - being "Black Mother's" is not part of the equation. Single fathers get as much blame but that's rare.

Single White mothers were/are NOT celebrated or praised any more than Single Black women especially in the days she's referring to (the 60s Etc.)

However it was only in Black Urban culture that Single Mother's became the majority, and from there sprang the ability to blame it for the culture's ills - single parenting that is usually a mother, NOT Black Mother's per se.

A Black Mother with a husband was seen as a good thing vs a vs a single parent, just as it was/is for White parents.

Single parenting has ALWAYS been frowned upon by society, no matter what the color of the mother or father (rarely)

It was not the "mother" who was being blamed, it was single parenting. And if you can't see the difference, then you're not thinking

In such a situation raising a child who can succeed and find happiness is extremely difficult.

The description of "racism" in this article is a mirror image of the "false" sense of "racism the Extreme Right Wing" embraces as truth and uses as proof that racism is a bogus proposition used by never do wells to justify their failings.

Racism is alive and well in this society, but not a single example of its impact can be found in this nonsense article.

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Depictions?
Posted by: Juven on Nov 30, 2009 11:09 AM   
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How can something that happens in "reality" be a depiction? What a stupid way to frame this week story.

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they're afraid very afraid
Posted by: cwilsondrum on Nov 30, 2009 11:28 AM   
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just think in their lifetime all of these repug fucks are seeing something they only had nightmares about. black people who are intelligent ,strong , and not afraid. the sooner these repug fucks dissapear the better.

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Which Came First...The Novel or the Movie?
Posted by: MJ Fields on Nov 30, 2009 12:19 PM   
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The movie "Precious" is an adaptation of a novel by author Sapphire called "Push," which was published in 1996 when Hillary Clinton was First Lady. So the movie was sat on all this time until we had a First Lady of color? I think this piece might be a bit of a stretch.

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Why does the media include race in its reports?
Posted by: countingdaisies on Nov 30, 2009 12:47 PM   
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It is totally unnecessary to specify race in a news article unless a description is needed for capturing a wanted criminal. This just adds fuel to the fire for those who deem one race as better or worse than another.

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Absolutely disagree!!
Posted by: annemarie on Nov 30, 2009 3:12 PM   
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The soldier-mother shouldn't have been included in this article, she is a heroine for putting her baby first. How does this fit the pattern you are writing about?

Bad mothers come in all races...look at Casey Anthony.

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I work in an area where I see all sorts of abuse and neglect
Posted by: MEL810 on Nov 30, 2009 3:48 PM   
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I work in Social Services searching the Adam Walsh Law database of Founded Cases of Child Abuse and Neglect. I see all sorts of and degrees of child abuse and neglect in that database.
I take note of the people who have founded charges and they are of all races and both genders.
Studies have been done from our database.
The main things that seem to incline to abuse/neglect are perpetrators who were child abuse/neglect victims as children, very young parents who lack parenting skills,economic distress and drug/alcohol abuse.
And those conditions are not race specific.
The very worst abuse case I ever investigated was with abusive white parents with white children, although I've seen some awful cases with blacks also.

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agree
Posted by: parça kontör on Nov 30, 2009 5:20 PM   
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The Media Demonizes not Just Black Women, White Women as Well
Posted by: VictoriaSethunya on Dec 1, 2009 2:30 PM   
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If the media is telling the truth that a black woman is the most rotten person in the community, what is expected from a black woman when she is FED NOTHING OTHER THAN THAT WHICH IS ROTTEN?

I heard on NPR this afternoon that about 2/3 of women with HIV are black or African American. Has anyone ever checked into the great rift between those who have and who have not between races? Many stories have been written on blacks being the greatest social ill for any community and even more stories have been read about why it is that most blacks are hungrier, dirtier and more deserving of lethal injection than other races.

This gloomy picture perpetuates Margaret Sanger's project to limit black women and the whole discussion turns a stomach inside out, side-up=down and then tied cramps into one big knot!

Many complaints about how evil a black woman is, only support too well how our society has treated a black woman with disrepect: Even in our time, there are those who think a black woman's body is another name for sleeping mattresses! TIME OUT!

Society has no respect for women, white or black. This is a grave concern for any human being black or non-black. I am a black woman living in Utah. There are countless, embarassing scenarios where the media created several objectionable displays of white women and non-black women.

What's more, women already divided by listless schools of feminisms now face a divide of women more belonging to the White House than others.

If we are not already thankful that the First Lady has worked with women of all shades since before Januray this year we shall be blessed to find out!

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The Mothers of all humanity came out of Africa
Posted by: maxsmart on Dec 1, 2009 3:46 PM   
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Maybe they are trying to distract from our true origins. Meanwhile perhaps unemployed males in the house or males whose only jobs opportunities tended to be illegal were forced to be absent in order for the family to get assistance at all???

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EVERYWHERE????!!!
Posted by: LIBBIEBETH on Dec 2, 2009 1:46 PM   
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Please! Ubiquitous? Really? How about one film which could just as easily be about a white family. I have students who write every semester about horrific sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, and guess what, they're white and middle class. Maybe one movie is not really a ubiquitous statement about black mothers. Maybe the poison is in the writer's oversimplification. Just saying.

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Precious = the Assassination of the Black Female Image
Posted by: crammasters on Dec 4, 2009 6:51 PM   
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The day (white) Hollywood makes a movie about a dysfunctional, obese, illiterate, and promiscuous white female who is raped by her father, that's the day I'll buy the nonsense that this movie is NOT racist.

Negative and degrading images of black women have existed since slavery, and the minstrel show days, so this is nothing new. Hollywood uses the same kinds of racist images that exists in movies today like, Norbit, Big Momma's House I & II, and Precious to send the following messages:

(1) black is defective,
(2) dark-skinned BW are defective,
(3) white (or light) is superior, and
(4) black dysfunction/poverty/misery is caused by other black people NOT by the system of racism/white supremacy.

Do not be fooled by the dramatic versus the comedic. The so-called "message" in Precious will be forgotten a few hours after the viewers leave the theater, but the imagery lasts for years -- no matter how "fine" the performances -- because human beings are visual creatures.

As a black man who lives in a very urban area, I can testify that there is NO shortage of obese and ignorant white females. Where are the Hollywood movies like "White Norbit" OR "Big White Momma's House" OR "So White and Precious?"

Now, try to imagine a black director making the same movie about a white "Precious" and white movie reviewers saying, "Precious' soars with terrible beauty of sad truth." and white movie goers shaking their heads as they leave the theater, finally accepting the "brutal truth" about white poverty.

Can't imagine it? I rest my case.

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I'm a school bus driver
Posted by: eosrk on Dec 6, 2009 5:18 PM   
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and I driven for a few school districts, and it is ground zero for racism...and class warfare, too...I mean Black people in Naperville think they're better than Black people in Joliet, and vice versa...listen, all of us, are the same to the eyes of bigots

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and you know what...
Posted by: eosrk on Dec 6, 2009 5:20 PM   
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they're more fat ass white women than black women...and even big black women have ass and boobs....big white women are just big like blobs...even a skinny black woman has ass and boobs.....a skinny white woman is just a bag of bones LOL!...I know cause I seen more than my fair share of all

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Posted by: dewre on Dec 7, 2009 8:05 AM   
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This is very good news was well informed that the followers of the issue I am. Thanks....
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Posted by: Writer-For-Yeshua on Nov 30, 2009 2:38 AM   
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Thanks to the author for this article. I'm with you 100% to do all possible to remove the unfair and bogus stigma that's associated with Black motherhood. The fact is that Black women in general have always had to do more for their race than any other. This stigma that is superimposed on their fine and noble achievements stems from the black chattel slavery era in the good ole U.S.A.! However, as an informed and realistic Black man, I don't see any profit in trying to persuade older White Americans of the nobleness of Black American women. They already know the truth! However, perpetuating this groundless indictment somehow soothes their conscious when they are fully aware of the sad mistreatment and disrespect thrust upon Black women in this country. Many of the finest and successful White Americans were raised by Black nannies! Instead of appreciating this indisputable fact, the American media and Hollywood have given that TV role to petite White women who have never cooked a meal in their lives nor raised any children! Yes! this disrespect and "no-thank-you" attitude towards our beautiful Black women is displayed without pretension in the good ole USA! As I close I must add however, that the two primary elements of American society that need to stand up for and respect Black women are the Black men and Black male teenagers! We older Black men need to step up to the plate and lead the way in this endeavor. In 2010, I'll be launching a few blogs towards this end and others. One of my short articles is titled: "Super Black Woman or just Super Tired?" Email your requests for the article to: Writer-For-Yeshua@att.net. Again, thanks to the author who wrote this timely article.

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Posted by: Wendiego on Nov 30, 2009 3:47 AM   
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The woman who pimped out her 5-year-old and let her get murdered deserves EVERY OUNCE of "Oh why!," no matter her color.

As for "Precious," it's getting a lot of praise even from within African-American communities. Sadly, there ARE familes whose lives are like that... black or not.

As for the young soldier who didn't want to deploy due to having an infant son, I don't see how she falls into a "stereotype of terrible black mother." I wouldn't have been very eager to deploy either if I were in her situation. She just happens to be black.

Terrible and abusive parents know no color boundary or generation. It's been going on for thousands of years and will probably always be with us.

I don't really see that there is an overabundance of black women doing bad things being reported in the media. These are women doing bad things, who also happen to be black. I'm sure if a person looked they could find several instances in the last month where a white woman treated her children wrong... it's not going to be me who Googles it though, I'm about fed up with the world.

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Great Insight ...
Posted by: mmckinl on Nov 30, 2009 3:58 AM   
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Yep, the welfare mother driving her Cadillac to pick up her welfare check. That was the Ronald Reagan take, even though after a through search and none could be found, the image stuck.

Much of what can be said about the poor in general is true, sad to say. The sheer weight of years of poverty. The ubiquitous images that flood media of the poor, those deemed unattractive and certainly blacks have all but retrofitted the American subconscious with stereotypes.

Being poor and not gifted or good looking leads to a poor self image and a poor circumstance in life. Being "hard" is about the only way to survive otherwise you will be torn to pieces. You might as well flaunt the framework because there is no changing what has been already decided.

The bifurcated image of black women is still in play as the media talk about Michelle's tight arms or the dress she wore to the state dinner. Condie was a favorite show piece. Oprah, pudding proof that success is just around the corner.

But such are the frames of our collective incoherence broadcast to excite the hopeless hope, schadenfreude, fear and trepidation that make us good consumers of a Common Wisdom that enslaves us all for easy manipulation.

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Until The Mass Migration Of Hispanics
Posted by: desidid on Nov 30, 2009 5:19 AM   
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black women were raising white children to feed black ones. Funny how a nation that experienced that dichotomy for hundreds of years failed to see the white mother without a job, as the example of bad parenting. So vain and entitled that she couldn't be bothered to rear her own children, while depriving black ones of theirs because the bulk of her day was spent caring for another family. And many black women were grateful that those white women didn't or couldn't care for their own families, because it afforded them the ability to feed theirs.

Today Hispanic women and European au pairs have replaced black women in white homes. And they have done it without the stigma black women had to carry. Ah America your history is the lie that keeps on giving.

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We Ought to Beseige Michelle Obama
Posted by: Urstrly on Nov 30, 2009 5:36 AM   
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I think Michelle Obama's program of support for military families is one of the most substantial things to come out of the White House in years, and I think she should be pressed to stand up for the mother who refused deployment to care for her son. The idea that he would be taken away from her enrages me. If we want women to serve in the military, we need to support their families, not destroy them.

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Must everything be black and white?
Posted by: I imagine on Nov 30, 2009 5:45 AM   
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You write: "it is not accidental that the abuse and murder of Shaniya Davis captured the American media cycle just as Precious opened. The sickening acts of Shaniya's mother become the story that underlines and makes tangible, believable, and credible the jaw-dropping horror of Mo'Nique's character."

Are you suggesting it was a white, male conspiracy that made these two events happen in close proximity? I'm sorry but your attempts to logically link a real life monster with a fictional monster based on real life experience with an unfortunate soldier and good mother, and even with Sara Palin for godsake, are a real stretch.

And to what end? If the idea is to show that Americans see black mothers as monsters, how do you explain the love affair Americans currently have with their first lady? Not since Jackie Kennedy have we been so enthralled with a first lady. Take the "black" out of your supposition and you don't have one.

Would you rather hide the monsters among us if they happen to be black? I think that only by exposing them will the innocent victims see that their situations aren't normal and that there are ways to escape the hell they were born into.

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Oh, I dunno...
Posted by: westomoon on Nov 30, 2009 5:55 AM   
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Why Is the Media So Obsessed With Horrifying Images of African-American Mothers?

Oh, maybe for the same reason that the media breathlessly parrots every wheeze from the crazed has-beens Dick Cheney and Sarah Palin? Maybe for the same reason that small teabagger demonstrations get dramatic close-up and personal coverage, while huge protests are ignored or reported as tiresome acting up? Could it be that the media is still comfortable getting its scripts from the far right? Or perhaps it's a simple matter of mega-corporate monopoly ownership of the media.

Nonetheless, thanks to Melissa Harris-Lacewell for pointing out the torrent of weird, obsessive coverage of these small, ugly stories. In my little town, there is a hideous small tale of a young (white) teen girl whose (white) tweaker mom pimped her out for meth, and even our local paper has barely covered it -- very different from the slavering, repetitive, nationwide coverage of these small sad stories involving black moms.

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The results of social engineering...
Posted by: Prinzowhales on Nov 30, 2009 6:36 AM   
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What is happening in the black community is happening in the white community. When you break down the fabric of society as foundation supported 'change agents' have been busy doing for decades, this is part and parcel of what happens. Materialism, un-controlled appetite and moral relativity have a price...what's the matter?-- don't like paying it?

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"black" is becoming a self designated class
Posted by: billwald on Nov 30, 2009 9:31 AM   
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at least on the Left Coast. Out here half the "black" people have lighter skins than Italians. In the Seattle area half the people who self identify as "black" are, pragmatically, white trash.

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This is a great example of creating racism out of thin air paranoid imagionations
Posted by: jonathanseer on Nov 30, 2009 10:27 AM   
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There is no connection between the state of the property value of slave children and the Black person today in terms of treatment, if only for the fact that 90% of NON-Black Americans are so utterly ignorant of the history required to think that way.

America IS NOT EMBRACING Monique's character. America is fascinated by her character as one is fascinated by roadkill.

Those types who might immediately think she's the portrayal of the penultimate Black woman are NOT THE TYPE of people who'd pay to go see a movie like this, because it would forgo a six pack and a night of reruns on TV in their cozy trailer.


This author is guilty of stereotyping more than any she accuses.

She blinded to any other perspective by an overwhelming sense of "blackness" that everything about an African American is defined by their Blackness INCLUDING the views of everyone who is NOT Black.

She assumes for ALL AMERICA (mostly White that is)and she assumes ALL America is celebrating Monique's character, when they loathe it every bit as much as she does.

Their fascination stems from thing hers does, Monique does a great job performing an odious role, and succeeds far beyond most people's imagination of what such a person would be like.

It was NOT BLACK MOTHERHOOD or BLACK MOTHERS who were blamed.

That sort of "re-telling" is a lie as big as any told by the Extremist Right Wing.


As a result of poverty and as an extended result of 'culturally rooted racism" in society Many Black families struggled with only one parent, usually a "Single Mother."

In a society that strongly believes the best and only good home model for raising children is the two parent (man and woman) household, it should be no surprise that single-parenting would be the seen as the cause for a group's failings - being "Black Mother's" is not part of the equation. Single fathers get as much blame but that's rare.

Single White mothers were/are NOT celebrated or praised any more than Single Black women especially in the days she's referring to (the 60s Etc.)

However it was only in Black Urban culture that Single Mother's became the majority, and from there sprang the ability to blame it for the culture's ills - single parenting that is usually a mother, NOT Black Mother's per se.

A Black Mother with a husband was seen as a good thing vs a vs a single parent, just as it was/is for White parents.

Single parenting has ALWAYS been frowned upon by society, no matter what the color of the mother or father (rarely)

It was not the "mother" who was being blamed, it was single parenting. And if you can't see the difference, then you're not thinking

In such a situation raising a child who can succeed and find happiness is extremely difficult.

The description of "racism" in this article is a mirror image of the "false" sense of "racism the Extreme Right Wing" embraces as truth and uses as proof that racism is a bogus proposition used by never do wells to justify their failings.

Racism is alive and well in this society, but not a single example of its impact can be found in this nonsense article.

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Depictions?
Posted by: Juven on Nov 30, 2009 11:09 AM   
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How can something that happens in "reality" be a depiction? What a stupid way to frame this week story.

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they're afraid very afraid
Posted by: cwilsondrum on Nov 30, 2009 11:28 AM   
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just think in their lifetime all of these repug fucks are seeing something they only had nightmares about. black people who are intelligent ,strong , and not afraid. the sooner these repug fucks dissapear the better.

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Which Came First...The Novel or the Movie?
Posted by: MJ Fields on Nov 30, 2009 12:19 PM   
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The movie "Precious" is an adaptation of a novel by author Sapphire called "Push," which was published in 1996 when Hillary Clinton was First Lady. So the movie was sat on all this time until we had a First Lady of color? I think this piece might be a bit of a stretch.

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Why does the media include race in its reports?
Posted by: countingdaisies on Nov 30, 2009 12:47 PM   
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It is totally unnecessary to specify race in a news article unless a description is needed for capturing a wanted criminal. This just adds fuel to the fire for those who deem one race as better or worse than another.

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Absolutely disagree!!
Posted by: annemarie on Nov 30, 2009 3:12 PM   
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The soldier-mother shouldn't have been included in this article, she is a heroine for putting her baby first. How does this fit the pattern you are writing about?

Bad mothers come in all races...look at Casey Anthony.

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I work in an area where I see all sorts of abuse and neglect
Posted by: MEL810 on Nov 30, 2009 3:48 PM   
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I work in Social Services searching the Adam Walsh Law database of Founded Cases of Child Abuse and Neglect. I see all sorts of and degrees of child abuse and neglect in that database.
I take note of the people who have founded charges and they are of all races and both genders.
Studies have been done from our database.
The main things that seem to incline to abuse/neglect are perpetrators who were child abuse/neglect victims as children, very young parents who lack parenting skills,economic distress and drug/alcohol abuse.
And those conditions are not race specific.
The very worst abuse case I ever investigated was with abusive white parents with white children, although I've seen some awful cases with blacks also.

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agree
Posted by: parça kontör on Nov 30, 2009 5:20 PM   
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The Media Demonizes not Just Black Women, White Women as Well
Posted by: VictoriaSethunya on Dec 1, 2009 2:30 PM   
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If the media is telling the truth that a black woman is the most rotten person in the community, what is expected from a black woman when she is FED NOTHING OTHER THAN THAT WHICH IS ROTTEN?

I heard on NPR this afternoon that about 2/3 of women with HIV are black or African American. Has anyone ever checked into the great rift between those who have and who have not between races? Many stories have been written on blacks being the greatest social ill for any community and even more stories have been read about why it is that most blacks are hungrier, dirtier and more deserving of lethal injection than other races.

This gloomy picture perpetuates Margaret Sanger's project to limit black women and the whole discussion turns a stomach inside out, side-up=down and then tied cramps into one big knot!

Many complaints about how evil a black woman is, only support too well how our society has treated a black woman with disrepect: Even in our time, there are those who think a black woman's body is another name for sleeping mattresses! TIME OUT!

Society has no respect for women, white or black. This is a grave concern for any human being black or non-black. I am a black woman living in Utah. There are countless, embarassing scenarios where the media created several objectionable displays of white women and non-black women.

What's more, women already divided by listless schools of feminisms now face a divide of women more belonging to the White House than others.

If we are not already thankful that the First Lady has worked with women of all shades since before Januray this year we shall be blessed to find out!

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The Mothers of all humanity came out of Africa
Posted by: maxsmart on Dec 1, 2009 3:46 PM   
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Maybe they are trying to distract from our true origins. Meanwhile perhaps unemployed males in the house or males whose only jobs opportunities tended to be illegal were forced to be absent in order for the family to get assistance at all???

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EVERYWHERE????!!!
Posted by: LIBBIEBETH on Dec 2, 2009 1:46 PM   
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Please! Ubiquitous? Really? How about one film which could just as easily be about a white family. I have students who write every semester about horrific sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, and guess what, they're white and middle class. Maybe one movie is not really a ubiquitous statement about black mothers. Maybe the poison is in the writer's oversimplification. Just saying.

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Precious = the Assassination of the Black Female Image
Posted by: crammasters on Dec 4, 2009 6:51 PM   
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The day (white) Hollywood makes a movie about a dysfunctional, obese, illiterate, and promiscuous white female who is raped by her father, that's the day I'll buy the nonsense that this movie is NOT racist.

Negative and degrading images of black women have existed since slavery, and the minstrel show days, so this is nothing new. Hollywood uses the same kinds of racist images that exists in movies today like, Norbit, Big Momma's House I & II, and Precious to send the following messages:

(1) black is defective,
(2) dark-skinned BW are defective,
(3) white (or light) is superior, and
(4) black dysfunction/poverty/misery is caused by other black people NOT by the system of racism/white supremacy.

Do not be fooled by the dramatic versus the comedic. The so-called "message" in Precious will be forgotten a few hours after the viewers leave the theater, but the imagery lasts for years -- no matter how "fine" the performances -- because human beings are visual creatures.

As a black man who lives in a very urban area, I can testify that there is NO shortage of obese and ignorant white females. Where are the Hollywood movies like "White Norbit" OR "Big White Momma's House" OR "So White and Precious?"

Now, try to imagine a black director making the same movie about a white "Precious" and white movie reviewers saying, "Precious' soars with terrible beauty of sad truth." and white movie goers shaking their heads as they leave the theater, finally accepting the "brutal truth" about white poverty.

Can't imagine it? I rest my case.

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I'm a school bus driver
Posted by: eosrk on Dec 6, 2009 5:18 PM   
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and I driven for a few school districts, and it is ground zero for racism...and class warfare, too...I mean Black people in Naperville think they're better than Black people in Joliet, and vice versa...listen, all of us, are the same to the eyes of bigots

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and you know what...
Posted by: eosrk on Dec 6, 2009 5:20 PM   
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they're more fat ass white women than black women...and even big black women have ass and boobs....big white women are just big like blobs...even a skinny black woman has ass and boobs.....a skinny white woman is just a bag of bones LOL!...I know cause I seen more than my fair share of all

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ffew
Posted by: dewre on Dec 7, 2009 8:05 AM   
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This is very good news was well informed that the followers of the issue I am. Thanks....
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ed hardy
Posted by: mxcm428 on Dec 22, 2009 4:50 PM   
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