The Brotox Era: Does Male Vanity Even the Playing Field, Or Condemn Us All to Unreachable Beauty Standards?

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It was only a matter of time before the unfortunate term “Brotox” became a cultural catchphrase. This lovely new concept was broadly introduced to the nation on Good Morning America this week in a story about the spike in new clientele for cosmetic surgery: men.

So, it looks like the once gender-uneven practice of sticking needles in your face to erase signs of wrinkles is slowly but surely becoming equal opportunity. This reveals of course, that men are sweating about all the things that are part of the road to Botox: their hair. Their weight. Their skin. Their eyebrows. Their age. Congratuations men. Welcome to body image hell. 

On one level, it might be argued that this trend a good thing. After all, it mitigates the particular problem that these kinds of expensive treatments used to be a burden thrust primarily, unfairly, on women.

But is this really the direction in which we want beauty standards to be headed? It disturbs me that instead of a society that’s more tolerant of flab, wrinkles, hair and imperfections on all of us, regardless of age race and gender, we’re heading further in the Barbie and Ken direction. 

In recent decades, women have been expected to be hairless, thin, ageless and so on in an increasingly frantic way. Meanwhile men could be greying, disheveled, slightly overweight, unkempt and still exist as sex symbols (look at Johnny Depp or any stringy-haired, bearded male rock star for a example of this). Naomi Wolf’s seminal book The Beauty Myth was a clarion call to recognize the dangerous sexism behind the beauty culture--unforgettably linking it with myriad other abuses of women, their commodification and dehumanization by society. Later Courtney Martin’s Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters linked physical perfectionism among a new generation of young women with emotional emptiness and crippling outside social pressures. The spreading of that toxic culture to men is alarming. 

Nothing New and Not Just Elite

It should be noted that the rise of male interest in fashion and beauty is nothing new. Men have long had to follow their own fashion trends--Beau Brummel in the British Regency era was a famous fashion icon, and musicians, actors, and male socialites have followed suit (pun intended). It's true that women contended with corsets, bustles and other insanely restrictive clothing, but men's less punishing breeches and buckles were hardly sweatpants-level-comfy.

The craze for more invasive beauty treatments for men isn’t new either--GMA specifically cited a fifteen-year growth spurt. Half a decade ago, the ballooning phenomenon of men getting plastic surgery was being discussed in the UK, where that nation’s male pinups--soccer stars and other celebrities--were stoking a trend for laser hair removal, botox and other such treatments. The Independent reported: 

Plastic surgery clinics are reporting a surge in business from men seeking a helping hand to stave off the ageing process. And men aren't just interested in looking younger, but also thinner and more polished.

Inspired by sportsmen such as the Arsenal midfielder Cesc Fabregas, the number of men having laser hair removal has almost doubled in the past 12 months at one national cosmetic surgery chain.

Devotees of Botox include Pop Idol's Simon Cowell, Baywatch's David Hasselhoff and Sylvester "Rocky" Stallone; while John Schneider, The Dukes of Hazzard star, has admitted to having liposuction.

On these American shores the trend of plastic surgery is the peak in a mountain that includes an increased attention to menswear and fashion as well as grooming-- “manscaping” and men getting their nails done and shopping more carefully for products.