Obama vs. McCain: Progressive Voter Guide to Sex and Relationship Issues

AlterNet. Posted October 17, 2008.

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Sexuality -- including who has the right to have sex with whom, at what age, in what states and even in what ways -- has long been a centerpiece of U.S. culture wars.

At times, elected officials and the courts have worked to institute intelligent, fair policies on sexuality and relationships: In the 1967 case Loving v. Virginia, for example, the Supreme Court broke with centuries of racist tradition to rule against anti-miscegenation laws, securing the right of mixed-race couples to marry.

At other times, government policy has reflected and bolstered some of the worst social prejudices about sexuality. Sodomy laws, for example, used to police the consensual sexual behavior of LGBT people, were still on the books in 14 states as recently as 2003.

And today, issues from same-sex marriage to sex education are being hashed out in court and at the ballot box.

Earlier this year, the Supreme Court of California overturned the state's ban on same-sex marriage. The court's ruling represents a giant step for LGBT equality. Unfortunately, anti-gay marriage groups around the country are waging campaigns in their home states to restrict marriage to heterosexual couples.

Another ongoing fight for LGBT equality is adoption rights. While children throughout the country wait for homes, LGBT people continue to face discrimination when seeking to adopt.

Also at stake in this election is the way that we choose to educate kids about sexuality. Our next president has the opportunity to institute a sex education policy that actually teaches kids about sex -- a welcome and much-needed alternative to the failed abstinence-until-marriage programs pushed by the Bush administration.

Not surprisingly, Obama and McCain hold significantly different positions on same-sex marriage, sex education and adoption rights for LGBT people. We've researched their views and voting records and put them all in a handy election guide so you can see where the candidates stand on these issues.

1. GAY MARRIAGE

In most of the country, LGBT people lack the rights and protections that come with legally recognized marriage. Outside of Massachusetts, California, and now Connecticut, gays and lesbians are still denied a basic civil right enjoyed by the rest of the population.

Furthermore, the recent legalization of gay marriage in California has mobilized anti-gay marriage groups in the state and throughout the rest of the country to lobby for state bans on same-sex marriage. California, Florida and Arizona have all placed measures on their November ballots that would legally restrict marriage to heterosexual couples.

• Solution: Repeal the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) -- a federal law that bars the federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages and lets states ignore the status of LGBT couples legally married in other parts of the country. In November, the California, Florida and Arizona measures must be defeated to ensure that discrimination against LGBT people is not cemented into law in those states.
• Obama's position: While Obama supports civil unions and domestic partnerships, he has publicly stated that marriage should be between a man and a woman. Nevertheless, Obama voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment, which would have changed the Constitution to define marriage as heterosexual. He has also pledged to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. Obama opposes Proposition 8, the measure on California's November ballot that would ban same-sex marriage in the state. He has called the ballot initiative "divisive and discriminatory."
• McCain's position: McCain believes marriage is a "union between one man and one woman." Although McCain voted for the Defense of Marriage Act, he opposed the Federal Marriage Amendment, arguing that same-sex marriage should be decided at the state and local levels. In 2006, McCain endorsed an unsuccessful Arizona ballot initiative that would have banned same-sex marriage in the state. McCain has also declared his support for California's Proposition 8.
• Learn more: API Equality, a>, Equality Federation, Let California Ring, Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law

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