9 Stupid Things that Cops, Nurses, Lawyers and Friends Should Never Say to Rape Survivors — But, Alas, Have
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Launched in October 2011 by then-19-year-old Grace Brown, Project Unbreakable uses art to increase awareness of issues surrounding sexual assault and encourages the act of healing.
Want a quick, nine-step tutorial on what not to say to a survivor? Lucky for you, we created this handy list — based on photographs from sexual assault survivors sent in to the Project Unbreakable Tumblr blog — in easy-to-read meme form:
Step One: No.
Step Two: Uh-uh.
Step Three: Cut It Out.
Step Four: Hey, cop, when you say, "Daughter" ... I don't think it means "femicide." Or, as Inigo Montoya said, "You [use] that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."
Step Five: Really?
Step Six: Yeah, no.
Step Seven: Okay. FAIL.
Step Eight: ...
Step Nine: This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things.
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Original images courtesy of the Project Unbreakable Tumblr blog. Original memes by AlterNet.
Note: If you are struggling, RAINN has a free, confidential, 24/7 sexual assault hotline: 1.800.656.HOPE(4673). RAINN also has an online hotline: https://ohl.rainn.org/online/