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A Sexual Rights Agenda

Posted by Marty Klein, Sexual Intelligence at 5:00 PM on November 7, 2008.


Here's what Obama should do to protect sexual rights.

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Dear President Obama:

For months, I've been predicting that when you win, nothing will change regarding sex. I've said you won't stop the government's War On Sex; you won't demand respect for sexual rights as human rights; you won't prevent religious fanatics from controlling non-believers' sex lives.

You now have your big chance: prove me wrong. Here's what you need to do:

* End funding for abstinence-only training in public schools.

* End the Department of Justice's war on adult entertainment. Keep the war on child porn. Make it clear they're two different things.

* Decriminalize all consensual sex that teens have with other teens. Decriminalize teens sharing photos of themselves having sex.

* Increase financial support for Planned Parenthood, an investment proven to reduce poverty and domestic violence.

* Take the moral leadership to decrease abortion -- by funding contraception services and comprehensive sex education, not by criminalizing abortion.

* Require all sex education programs to be scientifically accurate. Isn't that required by the policies of car manufacturers, meat-packing plants, and toothpaste makers?

* Require all municipalities that want to restrict commercial sexual expression (strip clubs, adult bookstores, swing clubs, etc.) to actually demonstrate a need to do so, rather than simply claim "effects like crime, disease, and blight are well-established." Because they're not.

* Require all federal judges to take a Continuing Education course about sexuality. Healthy sexuality, not "sex addiction" or child molestation. Make this education mandatory for anyone aspiring to be a judge.

* Get the FCC out of the censorship business. Let Americans use the "off" and "change channel" buttons on their TV remotes whenever they want; it's good practice for voting.

* Remove the blocking software from every federally-funded computer in America -- libraries, universities, airports. Start with the computers in the White House and Congress.

I've said in dozens of lectures this year that you won't make a difference in America's War On Sex.

Please, prove me wrong.

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Bad timing at the very least
Posted by: BeckyD on Nov 8, 2008 4:49 AM   
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With all the actual problems we're facing, do you really think this agenda is appropriate to push at this time? Do you really want President Obama to start his term alienating middle and working class parents who may find it objectionable that the federal government is interfering in things like municipal zoning or the local school curriculum to support the rights of people to experience pornography in public? To see him stand up for this agenda is akin to what Bill Clinton did with 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell.' Whether or not it (or your agenda) is the right thing or not, there is a time for everything.

And anyway, I work in a public library - we used to have unfiltered Internet access, and while I absolutely support the right of adults to look at whatever legal material they wish to view, they can do it at home. The government is not obligated to provide access to it just because viewing it is a legal right, any more than the government is obligated to provide us all with pistols just because of the 2nd Amendment.

I got sick and tired of having guys masturbate at the terminals or having to go around and clear the printers every hour to make sure some poor kid picking up his school assignment didn't accidentally grab some porn that folks kept printing out just for shock value. We had a sign on our door proclaiming the library a 'safe place for kids.' Without the filters, that was a lie.

Most of the things you mention are really best left to the states and localities. Let each individual community decide for itself whether it wants this sexual agenda of yours. President Obama ought to concentrate on the economy and international relations, which is far more the proper purview of the federal government.

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aaaarggg!
Posted by: trel on Nov 8, 2008 4:51 AM   
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My goodness, what a nobel cause for a new president. I mean, what could be more important than this?
God help us.

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» RE: aaaarggg! Posted by: luzmejor
Some of these points are good but....
Posted by: Joni50 on Nov 8, 2008 9:40 AM   
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Do you really want porn to be available in public places such as airports, libraries, universities? And do you really want teens to be allowed to share pictures of themselves having sex? How are you going to prevent such shared teen pictures from falling into the hands of child predators?

Seems to me our new president has better things to do than make porn as readily available as your nearest school library.

On the other hand, many of these suggestions are good. Accurate, age-appropriate sex education; reducing abortion by attacking the root causes rather than by making it illegal; etc, these are good. But your advocating ready access to porn somewhat discredits your more reasonable suggestions.

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Can I ask a dumb question?
Posted by: JohnTodd on Nov 8, 2008 9:51 AM   
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I'm new to this, please forgive me.

The DOJ is waging a war on adult porn? Can someone provide links to this? How can they wage war against a perfectly legal activity? Barring kiddie porn, of course.

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» RE: Can I ask a dumb question? Posted by: NickJones
» RE: Can I ask a dumb question? Posted by: JohnTodd
» RE: Can I ask a dumb question? Posted by: JohnTodd
Use some discretion...
Posted by: aichbe on Nov 8, 2008 4:57 PM   
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Ending abstinence-only training and funding, increasing funding for Planned Parenting, and funding accurate, non-Biblical based sex education and distribution of contraception are all great ideas. There will be resistance enough from the right-wing and religious groups for these issues. For Obama to try to "mainstream" porn even more in a society like ours, in a new liberal oriented administration, would be stupid beyond belief, literally political suicide. So, who are you really working for? Get a grip(on something other than your woody).

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» RE: Use some discretion... Posted by: maglindracia
as usual, the main issue is missing
Posted by: Explorer on Nov 8, 2008 8:42 PM   
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The deprivation of sexual freedom that is far more serious than anything that gets attention in this country is female genital mutilation all over Africa and the Islamic world. Maybe as many as 6,000 girls per day according to Equality Now, which is the only organization I'm aware of that is trying to do anything about it. There are emergency shelters in Africa for girls fleeing the practice that need funding, educational campaigns there that need funding, and female immigrants from Africa are sometimes in need of special refugee status that they aren't getting so they can stay where it's safe. But I'm not seeing anything about that in articles like this on "Alternet".

I have nothing against porn that only involves consenting adults, because I have noticed the correlation between the most puritannical cultures also being the ones with the least gender equality, but do porn related issues really deserve the percentage of attention they get here?

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Another point
Posted by: Jim on Nov 10, 2008 5:24 AM   
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The pro-life and pro-choice people should be able to agree on working to end coerced abortion. It is reported that most abortions are pressured, not freely chosen. Required fair screening and serious counseling, with offer of support if birth is chosen is something both sides should be able to support. It is not "choice" when the father, either of the unborn child or its mother, force the woman to the abortionist.

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healthy sexual attitudes require
Posted by: kungfuma on Nov 10, 2008 11:07 AM   
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fear and violence to be eradicted. Sexual offenders need to pay high prices for their violent behaviour.A comprehensive look at religion illuminates it's support for sexual violence. Being patriarchal in structure,religion supports misogyny in it's many forms .Keeping rapists on the streets is a wonderful control mechanism discouraging free mobility of women and children. Just today on Yahoo,an article about a woman who is fighting to keep the neighbor, that raped and strangled her daughter while the little girl was selling girl scout cookies,in jail.He has served 14 yrs for this heinous crime.The mother will never get"parole" from her anguish. Violent sex offenders never need to be allowed back in society. Rape murders part of the soul,often well enough to create a lifetime of dysfunction-sort of a living death.
(Id like to see Obama sign in a high priority level enforcement for sex offenders and low priority for marijuana like hawaii.But everyone prolly knows that about me anyhow..)

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oh and
Posted by: kungfuma on Nov 10, 2008 11:11 AM   
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prostitution should be at least decriminalized-no more victimless crimes!!
damn eliot spitzer got off(no pun) but some of the girls were charged .OK what was i saying about religion.You can find religion at the bottom of this problem too.Im pretty sure any problems related to sex has it's beginnings in misogynist religion ie christianity,islam,judaism

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END Abstenence-Only
Posted by: WyrdSister on Nov 11, 2008 8:11 AM   
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This one i agree with whole-heartedly! This program hurts SO many.

As a Health Assistant in an Alternative HS, I have WAY WAY too many pregnant 14 & 15 year olds who have absolutley NO information regarding sex and their bodies. These girls have been raised with W's perverted version of Sex Ed (if you can call it that) and have NO idea what's going on. I have one young lady who has had an abortion AND just had a miscarriage! I am not allowed to hand out condoms, but i do. I am not allowed to have pregnancy tests on hand, but i do. I post as much information as I can on the information bullitan board, but i can only do so much. These kids need a Health Teacher that will go through ALL of this with them.

We have to empower them, not just throw them out into the world clueless.

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