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The Seeds of the Culture War Sprout Here

Posted by Amanda Marcotte, Pandagon at 5:04 PM on May 5, 2008.


A new television show takes on the patriarchy.

Tired of the movies, where women barely exist onscreen at all, and when they do, they’re treated like imbeciles or cardboard cutouts? The assumption in the movie industry is that men make the vast majority of the movie-seeing decisions, and that women are therefore a niche market that only needs a couple of intelligence-insulting bones thrown for a twice-annual girl’s night out.* But TV is another story. For whatever reason, it’s beginning to be understood that shows with fully realized female characters that have more going on than being fuckable and having babies do quite well on the small screen, thank you very much. And TV meets a variety of entertainment gaps that weren’t being filled. You have your fantasies of female empowerment that still aren’t realized in the everyday world—like on “Battlestar Galactica” or “Buffy the Vampire Slayer”, and you have shows that address women’s lives in an honest way, patriarchal warts and all, like on the comedy “Ugly Betty” and the drama “Mad Men”, which is a show that we power-chugged last week, watching most of the first season flying to and from New York.

The first season of “Mad Men” is set in 1960, which means it’s an exceedingly relevant program for modern times, because it’s this turning point in time that all culture war madness turns off of. When conservatives talk bitterly about the 60s, it’s because they romanticize the 50s as the ultimate moment of the American patriarchy, and to varying degrees, also the last gasp of blatant white supremacy, a utopia of white male dominance that was cruelly snatched away and needs to be restored through government intervention.

It’s clear from the get-go that “Mad Men” is going to be a show about how the 50s weren’t really as the romantic images show us, and that’s a message that’s a little well-worn at this point. We know that single women were treated like prey (the show mercifully namechecks its obvious predecessor, Billy Wilder’s The Apartment, which came out in 1960 and made many of the same points through dark comedy), housewives were so stifled they were losing their minds, the country was so racist that merely having an Italian-American work a position in a major advertising firm was treated like a huge step forward, and that men treated their female coworkers like dumb bunnies, too stupid for real work and mainly existing for typing, coffee-fetching, and sexual release. Sure, your average conservative who gets teary-eyed at the thought of “Leave It To Beaver” apparently needs a harsh reminder, but for those of us who know better, “the 50s weren’t as great as they were said to be” is a well-trod fact.

But because this is a TV show and there’s plenty of time available to the writers, they lift the show out of cliche-land, by dint of their ability to really make each character a fully realized human being just trying to get by under the weight of social expectations. And that also means that the women get to be fully realized characters, too, even though the show has the word “men” right in the title. There’s a myriad of characters on the show, but the ones that get the most screentime are the main character Don Draper, his wife Betty, his secretary Peggy Olson and his colleague/wannabe competitor Pete Campbell. Don’s story is too complex to get into here, but it’s definitely a symbolic retelling of the idea that the 50s weren’t what they were cracked up to be, and yet it escapes cliche and tedium. Betty initially seems like the kind of woman “The Feminine Mystique” was written for, but as the show grinds on, you find that she’s even worse off than that, because she was trained from the get-go to be the dumb bunny housewife, she has been robbed of her ability to articulate her frustrations, and probably wouldn’t know what to do with that book if she got a copy. Pete is a young executive who grew up in a privileged family and is trying to prove that he’s worth everything he’s got and more on talent alone and not name. And Peggy is probably the most sympathetic character on the show, even if she’s rude and unsociable at times. She’s definitely the Ugly Betty character, but in a dramatic sense—the dowdy girl from Brooklyn who first is besot by her ambitions to be a big-time Manhattan secretary and then gets even more ambitious when her bosses discover she’s got a skill for copywriting and start assigning her that kind of work on the side. Her struggles to get recognition for her talents will warm the feminist heart.

The patriarchy crushes everyone on the show, which is one place where the writing soars above the usual cliches. Even the obvious predecessor The Apartment doesn’t dive into the way that even the alpha males get ground down by their own stifling social roles, but since the main character on this show is Don Draper, we slowly get to see how even those who supposedly have it all in this world are adrift. Don got his ideal housewife and children and he’s moving up in a job that is both lucrative and creatively fulfilling, but he’s a mess of longing for something else. He finds himself starting affairs with women that are everything his wife is not—intelligent, independent, with a short patience for crap. I’m particularly infatuated with Rachel Menken, the manager and heiress of a 5th Avenue department store that Don’s agency takes on as a client. From the moment Don suggests she’d be happier getting married and being sequestered in the suburbs instead of running her department store, and she looks at him like he just spit on the table, it was true love for me for her. Don also keeps a beatnik mistress, which gives the writers some fun opportunities to portray both the bright side of the counterculture (particularly its artistic side) but also its seeds of destruction in the preening self-importance of it all.

What really makes the show remarkable is that with the combination of The Apartment as an inspiration and the hindsight of being able to write this in the 21st century, they’re able to tack out on a subtle point missing in a lot of examinations of how the 50s turned into the 60s, which is that the middle class American patriarchy collapsed from its own weight. The feminist movement did a lot for women, but they were effective because they had good timing, sweeping in with solutions as the cracks began to really show in the old system. This show is about how the cracks are forming, and how they were inevitable in the post-war America where the values states of ambition and self-fulfillment made it increasingly hard for people to just accept their roles as assigned. And every character on the show chafes because they are striving, and they are striving because it’s an exciting new world where striving is the ur-value. It’s not a mistake that all the action centers around the advertising industry. Instrumental to the striving new American world was the place of the consumer capitalist mentality, for better or for worse. It’s easy to condemn that mentality for the damage it does women, but it’s also true that it created a foothold for women to gain power, because their talents in the workplace were needed and their opinions as consumers suddenly became valuable.

It’s an uncomfortable space, but it’s all the more intriguing for it. What puts the show a notch above is the willing to sink you into those gray areas there. Most shows would have you rooting for Kennedy over Nixon during the election that hangs over the entire first season of the show, but on this show, the characters are so firmly in the Nixon camp that you find yourself empathizing with their disappointment when the notorious American villain loses. A show that can do that can walk you down some thought-provoking roads.

The new season starts in July.

*Whether or not this is true—i.e., that men still rule over women’s lives and choices on an individual basis to this degree—is up for debate, but considering that the U.S. now has more single adult women than married adult women, I’m dubious. And even married women probably see a lot more movies without men than they used to. And while I don’t doubt that women lose most battles still when it comes down to Him vs. Her on what movie to see, I’m sure more and more couples are interested in seeing something that interests everyone involved.

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I blame the patriarchy, too
Posted by: wagadog on May 5, 2008 8:00 PM   
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as does spinster aunt .

Liberation upon seeing.

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» Snakes... Posted by: ABetterFuture
Shows that depict the Reality of the times
Posted by: Purple Girl on May 6, 2008 5:40 AM   
Current rating: 3    [1 = poor; 5 = excellent]
It has become Obvious tha the "News "media is more fiction then Truth.
Case In Point-
teh lastest Re writing of History with the new Term "Reagan Democrats". No such Beast ever Lived in the '80's.
I've been a Dem for 26 yrs (about to end that if they had the SocioPath Hillary the nomination). REAL DEMS hated Reagan and his Reign Of Terror. He was a Union Buster, He began the undermining ofRoe v Wade by letting Religious Zealots dictate national Policy, He allowed the disease of G.R.I.D to Spread to Epidemic Proportions- Now Called HIV & AIDS, he built Up teh Military industrial Complex, He encouraged Corp Crime, He used BS Rhetoric to lie about the Economic 'Bubble' being created. He allowed Media Assasaination of our Former President and the Covert operation Of Iran Contra (Arms for Hostages) which enabled 'Terrorist' to use US citizens as 'negotiating tools'.
But I give Too much Credit to the Puppet of the Cheney Gang. Ronny was nothing more than another mentally deficit pawn int Their On going Game. Nixon was clinically paranoid, Ronny HAD Alzheimers befor etaking Office, HW was a spineless "Yes Man", W. is an arrogant Idiot and now Cheney has 2 horses in this next Race he (they) intends to Steal. Mac has obviously suffered from either a Stroke or is showing signs of senility related to Past Head Traumas and Hillary has Proven she is in complete Agreement with the Agenda- Not just Corp, But Theologic- She's a sociopath.
I'm not just Guessing I have a Degree (Gerontology 1985)& expereince with the elderly and mental health patients. Oh and Bill had some neurotic issues and was blinded by ambition.
Maybe Hollywood like to take on our presidential soap opera - filled with intrigue, mental illness and a bit of sex to keep it spicy.

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neat
Posted by: Misfitina on May 6, 2008 6:37 AM   
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shame it's on cable :/

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mzunguhowru
Posted by: muzunguhowru on May 6, 2008 8:02 AM   
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Cool! Now all we have left is to do something about the belligerent reactionary feminist matriarchy and we will a fair and just society. I cant wait!

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» RE: mzunguhowru Posted by: observing
» RE: mzunguhowru Posted by: mick3
» Uh, there IS no matriarchy Posted by: Smackback
claire
Posted by: w0x0f on May 6, 2008 8:48 AM   
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Would it have hurt to mention which station/cable it's on?

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» It's on AMC Posted by: Pale_Green_Pants
mick3
Posted by: mick3 on May 6, 2008 9:03 AM   
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The 50's were one giant male jerk-off. I've always said this, and women who also lived through that disgusting decade usually agree vehemently. It's only redeeming attribute was that it brought on a reaction in the 60's: feminism, civil rights, and some decent music, after years of Flying Purple People Eater, Itty bitty Fishy, Poor Little Guppy, Mairzy Doats, Itsy Bitsy Teeny Weeny Yellow Polka Dot Bikini, and all the rest of the dumbest music ever, along with crude, testosterone-fueled rock. What a relief when it was over and the Beach Boys et al. began to bring aural (if not financial) relief to females everywhere.

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Generational Rollercoaster
Posted by: dudelette on May 6, 2008 10:58 AM   
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My grandmother grew up an orphan during the Twenties. She taught school, then, after marrying my grandfather and giving birth to twins (my mother and uncle), she worked in a factory while my grandfather drove trucks and started a business. It was a struggle to get through the Great Depression, and even harder with children, but they did it.

My mother bought into the Fifties' patriarchal lie. She really believed that if she looked pretty, kept her mouth shut and her brain shut down, some man would install her in a nice house in the suburbs and she would never have to go through what her parents went through, and everything would be Technicolor and Stereophonically happy. She never took into account the circumstances of her parents' lives, she just wanted what she was told to want at the movies and in the magazines, and she did what she was told she had to do to get it. And she could never figure out why she was so desperately unhappy all her life.

My grandmother never could understand my mother. I ended up moving in with my grandparents when I was seventeen. I got along so much better with my grandmother than my mother. My mother's unhappiness permeated our three bedroom, two bath, ranch style home, with sunken living room, formal dining room, built-in swimming pool, and breakfast area. My sisters and I all moved out as soon as we could, even though it often meant living in near poverty conditions.

My mother is in her seventies and still unhappy. And she will never allow herself to think about why.

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god dammit, another "show" to watch...
Posted by: DaBear on May 6, 2008 12:02 PM   
Current rating: 2    [1 = poor; 5 = excellent]
Now I gotta buy it from iTunes?! Hell.

No wonder I've been watching Shameless and Meadowlands... 'merkaaner teevee is just fucking boring, other than Weeds (fuckability, subversive kapitalism, and class commentary all in one shocking romp...not bad for a bunch of 'merkins).

Oh, wait, we're only supposta watch peecee-teevee that's angry at men... oh well there's always castration... and iTunes. Dammit, now I'm gonna go get OCD on this MadMen show. fuck you very much, Amanda.

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Where is this planet that Amanda talks of
Posted by: Andrew_S on May 6, 2008 2:55 PM   
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...it must be planet gynocracy of course, on this mythical planet there are no pee pees, not a one. So as we act out new legalized terra (terror) forming techniques, to subdue the planet, what's next. We reinvent the world, in this world, female on female rape doesn't exist of course, there is no history.

Since we live in a fantasy world, where all and one are entitled little princesses, with the shortcomings of sadly having to subdue to the calls of nature. By virtue of sadly endowed receptacles, while hardwired for a pair of nads. I look forward to your anti armpit shaving campaigns, better yet seeing you at Miss World as you burn your bra, thongie thingie and start a new fashion in sackclothes, maybe even in Hollywood protesting the stereotyping of bullwhipping, leg flailing crotch revealing harridan mankillers.

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Author: Amanda Marcotte.
Posted by: JimmyVaughan on May 6, 2008 4:13 PM   
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Author: Amanda Marcotte.

Now I understand why the article reeks of misandry.

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How about Max Headroom,the 21st century told in 1985?
Posted by: nightgaunt on May 6, 2008 5:00 PM   
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From bogus numbers in Internet voting to media manipulation as a mandate for selling stuff that isn't even real anymore. To the extinction of the Middle class to the extinction of the Bill of Rights. It is all there if you can find the episodes. Stared Amanda Payes and...? as both Edison Carter/Max Headroom.

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Comments
Posted by: hysperia on May 7, 2008 12:33 AM   
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I thought this site didn't tolerate personal attacks on writers or readers, excessive profanity, sexist or discriminatory or hateful language or off-topic comments! I just can't read the comments section any more, it is so much a forum where men and other woman-haters get to jerk off. I get sucked in every now and again when I see an article as interesting as this one. Only to end up having to fight despair by the time I get through reading the comments. If this truly was an "alternet" you'd not only have Amanda Marcotte writing, you'd also actually stick by your fuckin policy.

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» Oh please, give it up Posted by: JimmyVaughan
re:Comments
Posted by: Andrew_S on May 7, 2008 8:10 AM   
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So one is never allowed to test the validity, debate or argument proferred by our contributing and most articulate of writers. One would have to assume that any scrivener who places text on this site is an authority and absolutley without doubt correct. This must be the result of neo education style thinking. perhaps we should all take a course in wimmens studies. These indoctrination camps seem to be getting better at the product, after all rewriting history is going to be awfully expensive. Do you perhaps enjoy banning and burning books too, especially those that don't agree with your pallet. It is I am sure a nostalgic experience for some.

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Want to see what passes for "debate" at Smith College?
Posted by: JimmyVaughan on May 7, 2008 9:44 AM   
Current rating: 2    [1 = poor; 5 = excellent]
Lesbian activists at Smith College riot, shut down Ryan Sorba speech as police watch.

Hyperlink to the unedited videos.

Now, I personally don't agree with Ryan Sorba, but rioting and shouting "We're here, we're queer, get used to it" is not "debate".

The president of Smith College should do no less than expel every rioter who took part in this so-called "debate".

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The "patriarchy" doesn't exist.
Posted by: JimmyVaughan on May 7, 2008 12:37 PM   
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The idea that men conspire to "oppress women" is ridiculous. It's patent nonsense to propose that men somehow secretly meet and set an agenda designed to "oppress women"--and to propose as much is nothing more than paranoia in the extreme.

In addition, since the mythical "oppressors" which Marcotte rails against do not exist and cannot be identified, a propaganda device was needed in order to advance this fallacious argument; hence, the propaganda term "patriarchy" was invented precisely for the purpose of vilifying men.

Thankfully, radical feminists do not represent the majority of women. The radical feminist agenda is promoted by a small, extremely vocal minority of women who masquerade as the defenders of the interests of all women.

In the final analysis, radical feminism is a movement designed specifically to drive a wedge between men and women, and thus divide and conquer people who would otherwise work together to advance common goals and ideals.

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